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[LilDreamy]

Thanks!!

You know what's crazy? The boy baby is twice her age... Lol. He's about to turn 1, and Alexa Just turned 6 months! :X

 

[JNA]

Wow shes a big girl

She favors you alot too

 

[wishingforbub]

oh lildreamy she is too precious and you look fab!! She is almost as big as her boyfriend lol

 

[LilDreamy]

Thanks Ladies!

So blah...
I got the worste news ever today...

Soo.... I'm in the U.S. Army, and I'm stationed in Germany right now. I was supposed to be here another year. But I found out last night that they are sending me back to the states in a few months, to a unit that deploys for a year...

I've been crying since midnight, and don't know what I'm going to do.
I can't possibly leave my precious baby girl for a year! There are no questions asked... I can't do it.

I joined the military single without a family... so deploying wasn't bad for me... I kind of liked it. But now that I have Alexa... there is no way I could possibly stay sane. They would have to pry me from her.

Please pray for Alexa and me.

 

[JNA]

Aw sweetie you guys are in my prayers I hope things work out for you

 

[wtt :)]

aww i really hope there was a mistake in the papers or something! Good luck! What would happen to Alexa if you had to leave?

 

[wishingforbub]

oh shame lildreamy... i hope it works out . are you married? is your partner in the army too? That will be terrible.. what would you do? i think i'd leave the military or see if they can do something about it. xx

 

[blessed]

Oh my goodness! Can they do that?? There must be some kind of mistake!

 

[LilDreamy]

Well thank God!

I managed to pull this off by a hair!

I won't be leaving or deploying any time soon!

I managed to turn in a paper a week before these orders to leave came through! They just didn't receive it. So now I'm staying here!
It makes me sick to my stomach thinking that if I waited to turn that paper in, I could have been leaving the most precious thing to me in this world for an entire year.
I honestly think I would have gone mad.

I'm not staying in the Army, I'm winging it until I get out in October 2013. :/
So scared, and so stressed. :/

 

[lindblum]

glad that u got that sorted x

what does it mean for you? would you have to stay in germany til 2013 on maternity leave?

 

[wtt :)]

That's great news so far!

 

[LilDreamy]

glad that u got that sorted x

what does it mean for you? would you have to stay in germany til 2013 on maternity leave?

I wish.

I only got 45 days of maternity leave. :/

It just means that I continue doing my work here in Germany until October 2012 and only at risk of 1 month long deployments (but not until her 1st Bday) . Then I go back to the states. Which I hope I'm lucky because when I get back to the states I'll have a 1 month window of still being deployable. But after that month is up, they won't be able to deploy me because I'll have less than a year left in the Army.

I'm just living my next 2 1/2 years praying for the best.

I can't wait to get out! This is so scary. I can barely see myself leaving her for a day.

Stinky. I want time to fly... but then again I don't want Alexa to grow up.

 

[wtt :)]

everything will work out i'm sure

 

[AzulRainbow]

I am Native American/Mexican and the father is English. My baby will be a bit of a mix!

 

[wishingforbub]

Welcome hun ^^
Lildreamy, so glad things have worked out for you! xx

 

[lindblum]

has anyones LO changed hair colour?

 

[wishingforbub]

Nope ^^ Noah's hair is still dark brown/black, but both DH and I have dark hair.

 

[lindblum]

oh ok... i'm pretty sure emani's hair was black when she was born. i shaved it when she was two weeks old. i've just noticed its turned brown, the same shade as her sister who was born with that hair colour. i always thought babies were born with lighter hair that got darker?

 

[JNA]

Just curious why did you shave her hair?

 

[wishingforbub]

No lindblum, my friend's son was born with pitch black hair which fell out and grew back blonde lol