Younger Future Mommas?

[clynn11]

In the beginning when I tested early and got a BFN I was automatically devastated and felt out (which obviously I was since i'm still here TTC lol!) But as time went on I now expect to see a BFN instead of expecting to see a BFP so it doesn't hurt as much. I mean, it's still like "Damn! Hopefully it's too early." but it's definitely no where near as bad as it was my first cycle actually TTC that I hoped so bad I would see two lines.

Luckyslippers- Awe hun, I know how you feel. I worry it won't happen for me either, meanwhile it seems everyone around me is falling pregnant without trying- like it's the freaking flu or something. My best friend found out who had just got out of a very long relationship and into a new one. My cousin who is two years younger than me. Girls I went to high school who are each on their third kid. I'm just so ready for it to be my turn and to have a little one in my arms Hopefully we both see our BFPs soon!

 

[luckyslippers]

Luckyslippers, welcome! It can be hard to stay positive all the time. I'm sorry people brush off your hardships by saying you are young, that doesn't make it any less hard. I hope you enjoy your break and get a bfp soon!

Aw thank you aye, yeah when I was getting the last bloods the lady was saying oh you are so young for fertility assistance... didn't really know what to say so just smiled. Just had a chick pm me saying how she is over being pregnant.. she knows how long we have been trying, I am trying not to go off and am just going to try brush it off. People can be so insensitive aye. Thanks! And back at ya

 

[luckyslippers]

In the beginning when I tested early and got a BFN I was automatically devastated and felt out (which obviously I was since i'm still here TTC lol!) But as time went on I now expect to see a BFN instead of expecting to see a BFP so it doesn't hurt as much. I mean, it's still like "Damn! Hopefully it's too early." but it's definitely no where near as bad as it was my first cycle actually TTC that I hoped so bad I would see two lines.

Luckyslippers- Awe hun, I know how you feel. I worry it won't happen for me either, meanwhile it seems everyone around me is falling pregnant without trying- like it's the freaking flu or something. My best friend found out who had just got out of a very long relationship and into a new one. My cousin who is two years younger than me. Girls I went to high school who are each on their third kid. I'm just so ready for it to be my turn and to have a little one in my arms Hopefully we both see our BFPs soon!

I def get tht aye, last cycle was the first time in a while I had tested early and when I thought there was a faint line I was over the moon, finding out it was most likely a bad batch was so devatasted. I think I would be more shocked nowadays to see a bfp than a bfn, it feels like if get to invested you are getting your hopes up.

Thanks aye it really sucks how some get it so easy but don't appreciate it! We will def get our bfps soon!

 

[Flutterbyex]

Ok So yesterday I was convinced AF was coming... Really bad cramps and backache and feeling 'wet' down there so tmi! And today nothing! So frustrating! Xx

 

[WhitheartsQ]

I hope the witch stays away for you!

 

[Flutterbyex]

Thanks Hun! I really hope so too! No cramps or anything today so I have no idea what's going on! Xx

 

[WhitheartsQ]

When is age due?

 

[WhitheartsQ]

Sorry I'm on my phone and it auto corrected me. Af, not age.

 

[REMItjsX3]

Hey, ladies! I'm 21. I've been with my amazing husband for four years, married since October. We've been NTNP for going on two years now. It's kind of depressing and frustrating. Especially since he works out of town/state five days a week.

 

[WhitheartsQ]

Welcome REMItjsX3! Do you plan to always ntnp or to TTC later on?

 

[luckyslippers]

Ok So yesterday I was convinced AF was coming... Really bad cramps and backache and feeling 'wet' down there so tmi! And today nothing! So frustrating! Xx

Fx the cramps are for a good reason!

 

[Flutterbyex]

Sorry I'm on my phone and it auto corrected me. Af, not age.

I have no idea as this is my first cycle after coming off bc! Iv been on bc since I was 16 so no idea what's normal for me! Had my withdrawal bleed on the 4th to the 11th march so could be anytime really xx

 

[WhitheartsQ]

Oh, yes, I remember you saying that. I hope you regulate fast.

 

[Flutterbyex]

Thanks Hun! Xx

 

[WhitheartsQ]

Hello girls! Just wanting to check in and see how everyone is doing!

 

[Skyler2014]

Hi ladies, sorry I've been AWOL for awhile. Been busy. Working, watching my friends kids, spending more time with my goddaughter and her mom and recently her dad. I work with her dad but her mom refused to let him see her because she thought he didn't want anything to do with her until I convinced her he was actually a great guy and loved his daughter. She asked me to mediate which I agreed to. First meeting was yesterday and it went awesome. I'm so happy.
... On to ttc... I am hopefully only days away from ovulating. We are BDing everyday with preseed and a pillow under my ass. Also taking OPKs daily now. Except I'm staying at the in-laws until our place is ready so I can't go downstairs with a peecup and an opk so I've been just putting the test in my pocket and actually POAS. It actually works fine as long as you don't get it over the max line and hold it under for three seconds instead of dipping for 15.
How's everyone else doing)

 

[WhitheartsQ]

I'm glad to hear things are going so well with your goddaughter and her family!

Yay for all the bding! lol. When will your place be done?

I am doing good. I'm 10 dpo, and am thinking I may test tomorrow morning. We will see.
We found out we owe on taxes, so that is a little stressful. We have enough in savings, its just hard watching it go to what feels like nothing, when we will most likely need it for a baby soon. My dh isn't sure he wants to keep trying till we have more in savings again. I really hope that isn't the case!

 

[Skyler2014]

Aw sorry to hear that. Hopefully he will agree to continue trying.
Our place will hopefully be ready to move into by the end of May but we are moving into a travel trailer next week.

 

[WhitheartsQ]

Excited to move out? May isn't too far!

 

[Skyler2014]

I will be happy just to move into the travel trailer, can not handle living with the in-laws plus we can park the travel trailer at the property so hopefully it can get done faster