Thanks unique
I agree with your view and do feel happy with Ihsan just doing the activities we do together and feel thats enough for now whilst he is this young.
I haven't really come across anyone thats put their lo in nursery unless it was because they had to work so didn't realise it was something people do tbh.
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tbh hun i think it's BETTER for them to be home as you can give one on one,where as at a nursery they have to share the caregivers.
I also think that the early years are the time for strong bonds to be formed,and whilst nursery doesn't prevent this it does hinder it IMO
i think that when they are 3 it is good as it prepares them for school and by that age they are wanting to socialise and make friends etc
Remember some of us have no choice, and thats not very nice for us to read
The thing is some people on here don't seem to mind if they offend others. I do not agree that nursery hinders the bond between a mother and child. The bond I have with my LO is so strong and I have put so much time and love into him. I think it is laughable to suggest that this will be hindered by him going to nursery 3 days a week.
not my fault if my opinion is offensive to some.. it's my opinion and i did state it simply what i thought!
i cannot spend all day playing with words,trying to cater to others situations for fear of offending someone!
i answered OP's question with my own opinion.
I'm a 'call a spade, a spade' kinda girl!
I kind of have to agree that she did state it was her opinion...so that basically says you don't have to agree with it. Also, it's just that...an OPINION...I don't get why people are so offended/insulted by something that belongs to someone else. I do find a lot of people in this country are so worried about offending others that it goes a bit to the other extreme. I think there is a fine line and this certainly wasn't a post where I picked up on anyone blatently disregarding anyone's feelings as it's just how she feels about it...which she is fully within her rights to feel. Just MY opinion on that, anyway.
It once again comes down to the way something is phrased. This was phrased in such a way as to indicate that there was some actual evidence or research done rather than one person's thoughts. If you're going to make a massively sweeping statement like that, the least you can do is explain what you mean and how it is you came to that conclusion. If it is a case that Uniquex feels she has a great bond with her kids and has seen some families where kids at nursery don't have as good a bond, firstly, you don't know what the bond is like if you're not in that family and secondly, it's like comparing apples and oranges, no child / parent relationship is the same, every family dynamic is different. To me, it's a ridiculous thing to say since there is absolutely nothing to back it up.
I work 4 days a week and myself and Aisling are incredibly close, I'd challenge anyone to say our bond is less than a SAHM and her kids.