So.... Today was my first day back at work after 9 months - up at 6.15 to walk the dogs, dragged OH out of bed at 7.30 to feed LO and then a day full of office politics! Now oh has suffered withr depression (post natal I honestly think!) and has been out of work for a while - making money and home life very fraught. Me going back to work is really make or break as I need him to prove to me that he can help and share the load. Anyway.... We get home from work (he now works part time too) and he decides that HE'sso knackered he needs to bed at 6pm and leave me to do everything! So I have fed, bathed and put Lo to bed. Made he lunches, washed up made bottles, played with dogs etc and haven't had time to even have a bath - MEN I could SCREAM. Unless he is apologizing tomoro I don't want to hear him!!!