1 day DPO and in need of buddies :)

[babydust818]

LOL Kelsey i don't think you'll get a straight answer from me until he's here. I really have no clue. All the names i liked idk if i like anymore.

 

[confusedprego]

Yay for an 8AM appointment! I have a meeting at 8AM tomorrow so by the time I get out you'll be going in (I'm an hour ahead of you too). I'm not ignoring you about the names, we just don't talk about it for some reason haha. Orion is still at the top of the list and I'm pretty sure if he was due tomorrow that would be our name but we haven't really looked much otherwise. I feel like that's what happened with Oakley's name - we both kind of liked it but didn't really latch onto it for a few months. It's tough searching for names because we want something unique but everything online is very common sometimes so you can do some major searching before you come up with something original but not weird!

Ugh...I feel like crap today - it's all rainy here today so I think it's bringing me down!!

 

[babydust818]

Kelsey I am thinking of you already. Hope tmrw turns out to be the best news ever. We are all here for you and love you lots! Please let us know asap. I'll be so worried! Tons of hugs and prayers your way.

 

[pinksmarties]

Wow, I missed so much is a couple of days. No internet at home the last 2 days argh and haven't had chance to get on at work. I'll reply to as much as I can remember but I'll probably miss bits out!

Kels - will be thinking about you today and I'll be stalking like mad for updates. Its going to be nerve wracking either way but I am holding out all hope that those rising hcgs means only one good thing. Your posts certainly haven't been all about you and even if they were that is what we are here for and to be able to support you when thing seems rough. I am glad Linds SIL advice has helped, we are all rooting for you Sending lots of love over the pond.

Jess - Yay for getting Isabela into school earlier than you thought, thats great. Will that mean family will look after her till then?

Alyssa -huge hugs hun. I have had a bout of depression (work related) many years ago and was on tabs so can understand how you are feeling. Take it one day at a time and I am glad the first contacts with the FS have been good and supporting. It looks like the timing with tests etc will work out well and like Linds say the time will go faster waiting whilst you are your summer job. Aww your new kitty is just adorable. I don't have cats (too allergic unfortunately) but I am sure with time he will settle with your loving calm acceptance of him. My friend has had cats all her life and gets them form the CPL. She was telling me she had a tom cat that was exactly like the cat that was on the news recently for attacking that dog that got that young boy. Did everyone see that?

Linds - sorry you have all been laid low with that horrible bug but hopefully you'll be on the mend for the weekend. You may have said but what plans have you got for the weekend? Can't wait to see pics of the refurb.

Rach - Woo hoo for getting the job!! Well done you. Hope your first day today goes great. Ignore the silly bint, she is just jealous of you. You are still working, don't know what her problem is and even if you weren't what is it to her (or anyone else). As for insurance, its all a bit lost on me but hope you can get on Andrews insurance if thats what the other girls thinks is best and you get it all sorted. Despite people complaining about the NHS at least we don't have all that to contend with.

afm - foot was much better but tha last day or so its sore underneath my foot/sole. I think its because I am on my feet all day that its swelling and throbbing by the end of the day. Only just over 2 weeks to work now though. B is sleeping great atm *touch wood* although dribbling like there is no tomorrow and going though a soaking we t bib every hour. Can't see any signs of more teeth but they have to be there!!

Baby seems to be kicking a bit more now but its still all internal but still not repetitive enough for OH to feel much to his annoyance!! As for names we truely haven't discussed or thought about it at all. WE have just been working aor getting the spare room sorted and then too knackered to even speak. Carpet getting fitted today for the bedroom that will be B's new room eventually so once thats in we can get our bedroom back as its like a dumping ground for everything.

 

[CallMeAL1982]

Kels... Holding you in my heart today. Good luck and we are here for you!

 

[BeachChica]

Just popping in quick to see if you've updated Kelsey. I think you are an hour behind do going into your appt now. Sending you massive positive vibes!!

 

[korink26]

Thanks girls-I'm a nervous shaking mess. Will update soon!

 

[BeachChica]

I understand!!!! Are you heading in to your appt now? ((Hugs))

 

[korink26]

Quick update while waiting for dr. Now there is a 2nd gestational sac but neither looked to have anything. One looked like it had something so I asked and she said she wasn't sure but it looked like debri or something. Ugg, this is messing w me.

 

[confusedprego]

a second one?! I'm so sorry it's nothing straightforward for you Kelsey!! I'm curious to hear what the doctor has to say! Will they take more blood today?

 

[korink26]

Ok there was not a second sac-was actually a fluid sac or something from the first sac breaking down. I have to take pills to start the miscarriage...so I'll go back to work and leave early around 2 and start the pills. The pills sound scary but I hope thy work and I can avoid a D&C..

 

[confusedprego]

I'm so sorry Kelsey - I really thought it was going to be good news for you!!

 

[babydust818]

Kelsey are you taking methotrexate? When I had my BO my dr said he tried not to give it bcz how powerful it is. I waited my miscarriage out for about 3 weeks before my body realized it was an unsuccessful pregnancy. I didn't need a d&c. I am so sorry you're going through this. Are you going to try again on your own next time? I really thought this was going to work out. Did your mom end up coming with you? I hope so. Hang in there hunny

 

[CallMeAL1982]

Kels, they offered me misoprostol for my MC. A friend of mine took it with no side effects and it worked quickly if that helps to hear. I am so sorry for you.

 

[BeachChica]

Oh no Kelsey - I am so sorry to hear your news. Sending you a massive hug!! Hope the process goes smooth and quick so you can get on with your next cycle.

 

[korink26]

I just looked and it is Misoprostol. I know my first miscarriage she was pretty against me taking it, but she said this time I could try it because I've had a baby so my body knows what to do with contractions or something, idk. She said with the fluid building up, she wouldn't let me wait more than a week for it to happen naturally. Only bummer, is that she said there's an 80% chance it will work so I may still need a D&C which is why I think she wanted me to opt for one right away.
Alyssa that actually is great to hear about somebody that didn't have an awful experience with it.
THANK YOU EVERYBODY FOR BEING THERE FOR ME!!!
Alyssa, how have you been doing?!

 

[pinksmarties]

oh no, huge Hugs kelsey, I am so sorry you are having to go through all this again. I don't know about the misoprostol but I hope it works quickly and your won't need a d&c. I was so sure this was going to be okay for you.

Most mmc/bo are from a genetic problem and can happen to anyone so maybe you won't need medicated cycles to become pg again. Will OH be coming home to be with you?

 

[babydust818]

I hope it works and you don't need a d&c. So sorry you have to go through this

 

[confusedprego]

I'm so sorry, Kelsey...!! why does life have to be so difficult for us sometimes?! I work at a Children's hospital and I see so many people that it's just unreal the world has allowed them to have children and we have to struggle and suffer like this! It makes no sense!!
I'm hoping the medicine will work for you and won't be too harsh on your body and that you won't need the D&C. I was thankful my second didn't need it. I'm thinking if the gestational sac is already breaking down that your body has already gotten the memo and the medicine should just speed things along. I wish I could reach through the computer and give you a huge hug!! It's really a shame we all live so far apart from each other!
Now may not be the time to ask (so just ignore me if you're not ready to think about this) but will you try again naturally? I know you were saying this isn't the best time for you to get pregnant, will you wait until it is a better time and try to get some clomid? It sounds like you just had some bad luck this time and potentially you may not need the clomid?

Lots of love to you and your little family!!

 

[korink26]

Hi girls! Hope you're all enjoying your weekend. After my first dose yesterday not much happened. After an hour or 2 thicker tarry cm was coming out (sorry, tmi post) but that was it. Not much if any for cramps. Took second dose about 840 and 1030 I was laying in bed when I felt things coming out. Ran to the bathroom and had some pretty big clots coming out and then a lot of blood. Up every hour or so to change my pad and then had diarrhea about 330 (again, sorry, tmi). So I was up a lot but no pain at all! I didn't take the third dose because I had enough coming out. (Dr said if it was all started and I thought it was going ok to skip 3rd dose). Today I hardly needed more than a panty liner. Idk, it's been an odd experience and I just hope it worked and no d&c needed. With how mild it's been, I worry a little it's too good to be true. But, that's my glass half empty pushing it's ugly face through.
Tomorrow I have my friends baby shower, and I just hope it's not a long drawn out event.
And Sam my Dr said too that with BO it's chromosomal and nothing would have changed. I can't help but think it all starts with the bad ovulation so I'm afraid to try naturally. So Lindsay to answer your question (never be afraid to ask me a thing-we've been friends long enough )I think I'll ask for some Clomid around August.