LOL that's what we were thinking. I had just wanted to go with the flow, but it's definitely very hard to do. I know that I don't want to use OPK's or temp. I get too confused. And it doesn't help, my lovely hubby does not want to know when I get a +OPK so I would have to keep it a secret if I do, and I don't know if I could do that.
So I think we are just going to BD every other day, and go from there.
I don't really know when I would test. I know my cycles are between 30 to 40 so we shall see what happens.
Maybe I will calculate my periods @ 35 days, then test at 35 days. An HPT should show up no matter what.
When I do end up pregnant (since we don't use opks) than I would just get an early ultrasound
since I wouldn't know how far along I am.
May is a great month to get married!! Just found out my really good friend is getting married sometime next year. So I might be pregnant for her wedding, if it takes a while like it took for number 1.