14 and pregnant

[Vickie]

Ahh okay, Learn something every day

It's not 18 in every state though is it?

I think it is 18 in every state....as far as my understanding is. I grew up in the States, in Texas.....and am pretty sure that it's federal law

 

[TashaAndBump]

it seems i really need to tell a bit more of my life
i still plan on going to college-i want to become an artist
i have good grades in school a and b except for science
my college is all payed for bc my dad is in the army
there are good bavysitters and daycare centers that even my baby cousins got to..
i know my body well i know when something is not right
wow even my own dreams tell me to take a test lol every single night i have a dream of taking a test but it is wierd and it always turns out positive...i dont really want to be...i have a life and i know how it would affect my life..but my mom was a mom at15 yes i know how it is...except i know i would not act like her... cause i know how it affects me...she goes out and gets drunk sometimes and it is not fun i kndof act more like a mom even to her sometimes it is not fun but it is a bit funny...
so now you guys know more about my life
i am not just some immatue dumb teenager in fact none of the moms who are teen moms are bc they did not have an abortion-it is just an easy way out-there is adoption so can you guys stop saying i dont know what i am talking about

No one thinks that, hunni.

I'm sorry if we made you feel like we did... Welcome to the forums x

 

[TashaAndBump]

I think it is 18 in every state....as far as my understanding is. I grew up in the States, in Texas.....and am pretty sure that it's federal law

https://www.coolnurse.com/consent.htm

Oh, is this site wrong then? (I don't know anything on the matter really )

 

[Vickie]

I'm really not sure. Politics and law was never my thing

 

[TashaAndBump]

Mine either - I wanted to be a lawyer when I was a kid, but I outgrew that when I hit 10 and realised what a lengthy education it would require! lol

 

[nikky0907]

It's not 18 in every state,the state New York for example has the age of consent 17.

And many states have different loopholes.Like the state of Florida has a law where a 16 year old can have sex with a person under 25....

 

[Vickie]

Looks like you may very well be right though, what I've read says it does vary by state I learned something new today

 

[Vickie]

It's not 18 in every state,the state New York for example has the age of consent 17.

And many states have different loopholes.Like the state of Florida has a law where a 16 year old can have sex with a person under 25....

Yeah it seems to vary greatly from state to state and states even have laws concerning age gaps and whether or not it's considered statutory rape depending on the age difference

 

[TashaAndBump]

Looks like you may very well be right though, what I've read says it does vary by state I learned something new today

Me too! It's always a good thing, though, right?

Growing my intellegence

I really am dreading the day my baby is smarter than me...!

 

[Vickie]

Anyways now that we decided that question here's my opinion for 14 and pregnant............you really do need to do a test. And most states do have clinics for young girls to go to and get tested for free. If you can't afford a test please go to one in your area or even talk to your school nurse, your school may be able to provide a test for you. Either way you need to test.

 

[14yearoldmomi]

Anyways now that we decided that question here's my opinion for 14 and pregnant............you really do need to do a test. And most states do have clinics for young girls to go to and get tested for free. If you can't afford a test please go to one in your area or even talk to your school nurse, your school may be able to provide a test for you. Either way you need to test.

alright i will find out about the school thing monday..i have a couple teachers who keep on checking up on it...one doesnt talk to me but my boyfriend she asked him if it was true of course he told her yeah...he says my stomach is kind of hard but i know it is not supposed to get hard til like 5 months i am pretty sure it is only like that because i think bloating in my stomach...i am only bloated there for like a month there i dont like it i cannot fit any of my jeans unless they are low riders...i used to fit 7s but not now only size 11 lowriders are even comfrotable when it come to jeans...it makes me feel kindof like a bus..my camera is being very mean it is not turning on at the moment so idk when ill get the pic on

 

[ella170]

oh no im so baffed :S i didnt think knowing whether you're pregnant or not took so long and my heads not quite with it today so it all sounds really complicated to me lol, but good luck when you take the test, hope you get the answer you want x

 

[14yearoldmomi]

oh no im so baffed :S i didnt think knowing whether you're pregnant or not took so long and my heads not quite with it today so it all sounds really complicated to me lol, but good luck when you take the test, hope you get the answer you want x

lol i am sorry. i guess i really need to find out but you i almost found out yesterday but she forgot to schedule...=(

 

[Always&4ever]

Personally I think you should have taken a test sooner, as if you are the earlier your antenatal care starts the better for both you and the baby

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

i hope you dont think im picking on you. im just trying to give you some advice.

i fell pregnant with my son when i was 15 and it was so so hard!
i had to grow up instantly! i lost out on nearly all my teenage years and found it hard to cope with little or no income. my parents tried to help as much as they could but they had thier own problems and didnt need me relying on them all the time.

be sure your making the right choice and get a test done asap.

hope everything works out for you. xx

 

[14yearoldmomi]

i hope you dont think im picking on you. im just trying to give you some advice.

i fell pregnant with my son when i was 15 and it was so so hard!
i had to grow up instantly! i lost out on nearly all my teenage years and found it hard to cope with little or no income. my parents tried to help as much as they could but they had thier own problems and didnt need me relying on them all the time.

be sure your making the right choice and get a test done asap.

hope everything works out for you. xx

i dont think i have much aproblem my boyfriend is gonna help i got support

 

[14yearoldmomi]

Personally I think you should have taken a test sooner, as if you are the earlier your antenatal care starts the better for both you and the baby

i just wondering how bad is it to not have that...

 

[lauren-kate]

It's good to check that everything is ok with you and the baby, and get help if it isn't. Not saying anything would be wrong, but that's a reason for getting antenatal care. They can also offer you more advice and help once they know everything about you and baby. x

 

[Always&4ever]

Exactly, nobody is being harsh hun, we would just like to see you get the care and support you deserve if you are, were a caring great bunch really

 

[polo_princess]

please do a test asap i cant stress how important it is and not just to presume you "know" your pregnant.

Good luck