14 and pregnant

[TashaAndBump]

eeeer yeap!!

I havent quite caught up with exactley whats going on but pleeease tell me youve tested by now? Even if you are scared, theres always a chance you might not be pregnant and are just worrying yourself.

This has a lot of truth in it; I once had a friend who was so convinced she was pregnanct, and so scared of it, that she didn't have a period for nearly four months! (the stress of it all) but when I finally grabbed her to one side (was at college) dragged her to the girls loos and gave her a test to do, it came up as a . So you can't just assume. You must test. Sooner better than later.

 

[leedsforever]

I was scared doing my test too but that didnt stop me getting my sisters bf to take me to tesco in the middle of the night to get a test lol (my bf was at work)!!! I just wanted to know.... !!!

 

[AppleBlossom]

I was petrified but I went and bought one when I was shopping with my OH. Sent him off somewhere so he didn't know.

 

[polo_princess]

I just wanted to know.... !!!

that being the other part ... i know your scared but a part of you must just want to know one way or another?

 

[cinderella08]

WOW... this is the most confusing thread ever.... Did you test, can you post a belly pic?? And what the crap is this about taking a P test at a clinic and not getting told the results... That just doesn't happen...

 

[AppleBlossom]

that being the other part ... i know your scared but a part of you must just want to know one way or another?

I thought this when reading this thread too. I was dying to know even though I was crapping myself. I don't understand why you have got your username as you being a mom when you don't know for certain if you are or not? I don't mean to sound harsh, it's just I think I want to know more than you do lol!

 

[leedsforever]

WOW... this is the most confusing thread ever.... Did you test, can you post a belly pic?? And what the crap is this about taking a P test at a clinic and not getting told the results... That just doesn't happen...

couldnt have summed it up better myself!!!

 

[CamoQueen]

Read most of the thread... please, test. You can't really know otherwise, and it's so confusing trying to guess if you're pregnant or not. Besides, if you ARE pregnant it is that much more important that you start getting proper care for your unborn child!

If you can't get the money from your family, I can't imagine it would be that hard getting enough for a single pregnancy test from your boyfriend, who you mentioned has a job. I think a single test for me cost maybe seven bucks. If your boyfriend can't help, ask your friends.

If you really think you are pregnant, then this is a serious situation that you ought to be treating seriously -- as in finding a way to get tested no matter what. Otherwise I am inclined to think (and please don't think I'm judging you too harshly, this is just my opinion) that you are slightly enamored with the idea of being pregnant and would rather not test and have your wishes for pregnancy shattered. Again, I don't want to offend, just stating an idea...

 

[armychicmkm]

I'm starting to get the feeling she's been scared away (for lack of better words).

 

[elmaxie]

I hope she comes back on....

I just read her posts and others and I hope she tests soon!!

This is going to sound like a horror story and I am so sorry if it comes across this way!!

But my friend who is now 31, her periods stopped when she was 14/15, she never thought anything of it or denied it I guess. She watched as her stomache got hard and a bump formed. Then one night she was woke up in pain...she honestly thought the end was near...her mum called the doctor after seeing her stomache and hearing she hadnt had periods(or just had very very light ones) she thought my friend was in labour....

Turns our my friend had a huge ovarian cyst and underwent surgery to remove this. It was unfortunately cancerous also so underwent chemo...she is fine now but has only one tube and ovary and is scared over her fertility situation, although she is not ttc at this time.

PLEASE do not think I am trying to scare you in anyway...all I ask is that you test, find out for certain if you are pregnant(I know you definately think you are) but just to confirm things for you and everyone around you. If in the situation you test not pregnant you need to get yourself to your doctors asap!!

PLEASE TEST SOON HONEY!!!! WE ARE HERE TO HELP!!!



Emma.xxxx

 

[Wobbles]

WOW... this is the most confusing thread ever.... Did you test, can you post a belly pic?? And what the crap is this about taking a P test at a clinic and not getting told the results... That just doesn't happen...

Agree!

 

[Blob]

Just test, you need to put your mind at rest. If you dont then you will just keep on wondering, there are places you can go that do it for free or ask a friend to borrow some money if you cant get any. There is no point in going on wondering.

 

[TashaAndBump]

I wonder if her period came on and that's why she's not come back?

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

could be a number of reasons. but im thinking she tried to come on when the forum was down. but hasnt tried to come back since cos she thinks the forums down for good.

she only just joined the other day so she wont be obsessively checking every hour like the majority of us

 

[Younglutonmum]

Wow just read the lot of this. Im so confused!! Even bubs is kicking in confusement lol

 

[dizzy65]

you should just test

 

[Carley]

This thread is confusing me!

 

[14yearoldmomi]

ok i tested today and they said it is incoclusive and i need took get a blood test...it sucked...i was sad at not being able to find out but atleast i went..so now i am gonna get that done thursday=)

 

[14yearoldmomi]

i did check except i gave up and checked today i was so happy

 

[14yearoldmomi]

I think that what you wrote made a lot of sence and came across really well.

i agree tons and people i took it....i just still didnt get a straight answer