14 and pregnant

[m_t_rose]

i did check except i gave up and checked today i was so happy

What did you check? oh the site??? When you went to the clinic they said your pee result was inconclusive. I didn't know that could happen at a clinic. I thought pregnancy tests were either positive or negative. I dont see how it could be inconclusive if you were supposed to be 14 weeks. You HCG (the hormone they are testing for) should be through the roof. Are you completely sure you understood what they were saying?

 

[14yearoldmomi]

couldnt have summed it up better myself!!!

i know it was wierd...i hope you people know i am telling the truth cuz all i am doing is trying to get advice and i followed thank you

 

[m_t_rose]

I don't think your lieing just possibly a little confused. I know when I was 14 I had no idea about pregnancy or even sex for that matter.

 

[Mendy]

as soon as possible! If you really are pregnant you need prenatal care. Good luck with everything!

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

As my username states "Erm...Wow"

I hope the blood test results come back soon. Either way of the results I think you need to think very carefully about your future. If you're not, use protection vigorously until you're in a point in your life where you are mentally, physically and emotionally able to cope with a new born baby.

If you are pregnant, I applaud you for not just thinking of abortion straight away, however, you really should have tried harder to find out sooner what was going on. I know the actions of your mother saying you were to have an abortion would have scared you, but if you are, you need to speak to an adult you trust, and explore your options. Are there facilities in your area to support teen mums? Would you and your partner consider adoption? Either way I hope things work out for the best for you, the baby(?) and everyone else involved.

At least if you are pregnant you've done the right thing by coming somewhere for advice and not just ignoring it.

 

[sam's mum]

ok i tested today and they said it is incoclusive and i need took get a blood test...it sucked...i was sad at not being able to find out but atleast i went..so now i am gonna get that done thursday=)

What did you use? A home pregnancy test that you bought? Who said that the results are inconclusive - if you're as far gone as you think you'd get a clear positive!

I'm very confused, but I hope you get a result soon so you can start getting prenatal care if you are pregnant.

 

[hypnorm]

if you pee'd on a stick its simple its ether positive or negative!
Or the test didnt work which is probably a 1-100 chance.

 

[sam's mum]

Was there a control line on the test? I'm not quite sure what you think is inconclusive, sorry

 

[Mynxie]

a doctors test can be inconclusive - but that's not a dipstick test like in the clinic, it's a lab test where they send away your urine and they analyze it. That takes about 2 days to do.

If the test was inconclusive when you were at the clinic the other week, they wouldn't have just let you go away.

If you're genuinely confused, I hope you get your answers. If you're just playing silly little games, try reading some of the stuff on the forum, it's heartbreaking.

 

[Blob]

I did a test that didnt work, the control bit didnt come up, also you could do it wrong. Esp if you're using a digital one they dont always work. I dunno its all a bit confusing, i think you just need to get to a doctors

 

[Always&4ever]

I'm just a bit confused regarding this thread, I mean fair enough she could be confused and thinking she is pregnant which could bring on alot of symptoms (I had a phantom pregnancy when I was 21 and its not a nice thing to have) but the thing about going to a doctor and having a test done and them not giving you an answer that just doesn't happen. If you are pregnant hun, you need to have the right sort of antenatal care Mynxie I agree with you, if she is messing I hope she stops as it can hurt alot of people. (Its not that were doubting you, its just we have had fakers on here before and its not nice)

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

 

[Emsi76]

Ok ok, am i the only one that thinks thi swhole thread is a total joke???

WTF???

Is she pregnant or not???

I am certain that it is pretty clear, buy a cheap preggo test and wee on it!!!

COME ON!!!!!

 

[lily24]

This thread must be a wind up?!

Everyone is scared/anxious when testing no matter what there situation - U DO NOT JUST PUT IT OFF AND ASSUME YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A BABY AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER!

It makes me angry because you sound very childish and naive im afraid..

 

[lily24]

ok i tested today and they said it is incoclusive and i need took get a blood test...it sucked...i was sad at not being able to find out but atleast i went..so now i am gonna get that done thursday=)

EH?!

 

[Emsi76]

EH?!

I totally agree!!!!

Stupid, stupid, stupid!!!!!!

 

[leedsforever]

the more I read the more I think its just too unbelieveable!!!

Why do you have I love my babys daddy on your profile.... but you dont even know if your pregnant!!!??

 

[Always&4ever]

the more I read the more I think its just too unbelieveable!!!

Why do you have I love my babys daddy on your profile.... but you dont even know if your pregnant!!!??

My thoughts exactly

 

[Ema]

im confused......??? X

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

14yearoldmomi in 'lets get to know a little more about each other

Name: Autumn
Age: 14..15 in acouplemonths
Children: no
Expecting: Yes
Due Date: 24th november
Boy, Girl or Surprise: Dont know yet but cant wait to find out
Location: wv
Status: IN a relationship
Little More: dont know till next week but we are positive

she even has a due date?!

im not convinced. she hasnt even posted a piccy of her tummy like she said she would days ago.

shes obviousley young and confused. i know i lied a hell of alot when i was young and i supose its easier to do it on a forum.

well, we will just have to wait and she. she might proove us al wrong yet!