14 and pregnant

[Sweatpea24]

This is the most confusing thread I read so far! Most of us have a hard time in our 2ww and test early so I just don't get how she could wait 5 months?!?! I'm Lost... Is it just me?

 

[leedsforever]

yeah she has a due date cos she says she know exactly when she had unprotected sex
which if you ask me.... would mean she should of suspected way earlier than 14 weeks!!!

 

[Always&4ever]

14yearoldmomi in 'lets get to know a little more about each other



she even has a due date?!

im not convinced. she hasnt even posted a piccy of her tummy like she said she would days ago.

shes obviousley young and confused. i know i lied a hell of alot when i was young and i supose its easier to do it on a forum.

well, we will just have to wait and she. she might proove us al wrong yet!

Is confused, why have a due date if she isn't even sure if shes pregnant?

 

[Carley]

I'm thinking this is a big joke...

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

correct me if im wrong but i thought a test could only come back inconclusive if you was very early on pregnancy?
i had urine and blood test done last week 2 check my hormones and pregnancy... mine came back very very strong and im only 7 weeks... if shes 14 weeks then wouldnt there be no doubt about the result??

it doesnt add up at all, maybe she tested and it was negative and she doesnt wanna look silly after all this fuss, or shes very confused that maybe a little white lie got outta hand. i might be wrong but just an idea?

 

[leedsforever]

I hadnt even missed my first period and i got a faint line on a pregnancy test!!! Did 6 more after though

So at 14 weeks the test would be a definate yes!!

 

[jacky24]

Can you believe i have read all 15 pages on this thread.

Firstly, My GOD girl, at the age of 14 i didn't even think of having a baby. Or the responsibility that goes with it.

I am from South Africa and in my country i see and hear alot of things, but in our BOERE backgrounds, my dad would have beating the living crap out of me if i had to tell him i was pregnant at the age of 14. OOooooo i feel the pain on my bum

Me and DH have a good income, and we have a comfortable life, but even with having a farm, 2 cars, permanant workers on the farm, we sometimes worry for when we get our , if we will actually be able to feed a baby and take care of it.

We have many people in our country that are what we call "poor" and i will never ever raise my children in those conditions.

I trully hope you aren't making a fool out of alot of wonderful ladies that clearly care if you are pregnant or not, but the lack of feeling towards actually using your common sence on this subject.

Dear GOD all i can do is pray for you.

 

[14yearoldmomi]

What did you use? A home pregnancy test that you bought? Who said that the results are inconclusive - if you're as far gone as you think you'd get a clear positive!

I'm very confused, but I hope you get a result soon so you can start getting prenatal care if you are pregnant.

i went to a life choice center the volunteer there said it was

 

[sam's mum]

I hadnt even missed my first period and i got a faint line on a pregnancy test!!! Did 6 more after though

So at 14 weeks the test would be a definate yes!!

6 more?!

I took one about 2 days after my period was due and got a clear line!

 

[14yearoldmomi]

correct me if im wrong but i thought a test could only come back inconclusive if you was very early on pregnancy?
i had urine and blood test done last week 2 check my hormones and pregnancy... mine came back very very strong and im only 7 weeks... if shes 14 weeks then wouldnt there be no doubt about the result??

it doesnt add up at all, maybe she tested and it was negative and she doesnt wanna look silly after all this fuss, or shes very confused that maybe a little white lie got outta hand. i might be wrong but just an idea?

the volunteer said it could have been anything like a mc to messed up hormones either way i neeed to get a blood test

 

[14yearoldmomi]

can you people tell me how to put up a pic cause i have no clue i have some on myspace but idk how to get them on here..thats why so can ALLL of you quit saying i am lying i mysof well stick with my friends mom who is definityl supportive

 

[sam's mum]

did you go somewhere to get it done then? i thought you meant you'd just taken a home test. what sort of test was it?

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

miscarage???? ah crikey..cant keep up with this!

 

[Emsi76]

SO ARE YOU BLOODY PREGNANT OR WHAT??

Losing patience now, if i had any to begin with!!!!

It is a simple yes or no!!!!

 

[lauren-kate]

You can post links to myspace pics on here. x

 

[sam's mum]

can you people tell me how to put up a pic cause i have no clue i have some on myspace but idk how to get them on here..thats why so can ALLL of you quit saying i am lying i mysof well stick with my friends mom who is definityl supportive

nobody is saying that you're lying - we're just confused! (as i'm sure you are too) - and we just wanted you to find out for sure so you can get proper care for yourself and your baby if you are pregnant

 

[Emsi76]

We are not saying you are lying..... we are all in total bewilderment as to how you don't know if you are pregnant.

 

[AmysBumpNo3]

right click onto the properties of the piccy you want, copy the piccy location then in a reply to this thread click the piccy symbol (itl highlight insert image) and paste the https..... in the little box that pops up.

 

[Uvlollypop]

right i have just read this whole thread and im slightly confused as is everyone else!

*If you go to a clinic and have a test that comes back unclear they WILL ask you to come back in a week or so to be tested again. i know because i used to volunteer at a clinic.

*did you have any miscarriage symptoms?

*you shouldn't just assume that you are pregnant, its unhealthy for you and your boyfriend, its extra stress that can easily be sorted out

*when was your last period?

 

[leeanne]

You may be young and unaware, but I've been confused from day 1 of your thread and so have many others.

You have had no positive pregnancy tests, yet have come on here with the actions of one that is for sure pregnant. Ironically, your due date isn't accurate. You say a week after your birthday but when I figure it out, it's November 16 and, amazing, it's on your birthday. Matter of fact you've been checked twice and once they gave no results and the second time the result was inconclusive.

Perhaps you are confused and perhaps something is going wrong with you physically. Yet I would think if you are this far along, blood tests would have been done a long time ago to determine if you are or aren't pregnant yet you said you were too busy to get one done due to babysitting, etc. I would definitely think that when you went to the clinic they wouldn't have just smiled at you and said nothing, but would have given you the result. I hope to heck that throughout this thinking that you are pregnant, that you have practiced safe sex just in case you are not.