19 dpo no af bfn.. going nuts!!

[PrincessKT11]

Are your periods regular? I'm no doctor but if it's really abnormal for your cycle to be this late then you may want to go... Yesterday I swore af was coming then nothing showed and I have no symptoms of it anymore so maybe this is the real deal.. Ugh this is so frustrating!!

 

[Cowgirl07]

If I was 12 days I would call and get an appointment. This is so annoying, I just want answers.

 

[callypygous]

Yeah I agree, if I was 12 days late I would too. AF still hasn't arrived so I am 5 days late. I'm seeing my Doc about something else on Tues so if nothing has come along by then I will mention it then. It may be early but then again, this would be so unusual that if I'm not pregnant I would want to make sure everything else was ok! (and I'm inpatient!).

Hope you ladies are holding up ok x

 

[DobbyForever]

Hey y'all.
Sigh. Went to the gyn. She was in and out in 5 minutes. Felt around, said my uterus is normal sized, did a urine test (although it was crystal clear white since I just downed a 64oz Taco Bell raspberry ice tea thinking she would order a blood test). I am waiting on the one from the lab with SMU but I'm feeling out. She says that if I haven't had sex in a month then it would show by now and I'm not pregnant.

 

[PrincessKT11]

Hey y'all.
Sigh. Went to the gyn. She was in and out in 5 minutes. Felt around, said my uterus is normal sized, did a urine test (although it was crystal clear white since I just downed a 64oz Taco Bell raspberry ice tea thinking she would order a blood test). I am waiting on the one from the lab with SMU but I'm feeling out. She says that if I haven't had sex in a month then it would show by now and I'm not pregnant.

O I'm sorry Dobbyforever!! There's always your next cycle.. It's nice to know though that nothing is wrong done there

 

[Cowgirl07]

Sorry dobby! I hope you get some answers!

 

[DobbyForever]

Thanks ladies. She said I shouldn't worry til I miss three cycles, but everything seems normal. I feel better, but so mad at my body. It's never done this and I was so sure I was pregnant. Big hugs. FXed for everyone else

 

[Cowgirl07]

3 months? Are you just coming off the pill or something? If you were normal couldn't she give you provera or something to jump start your cycle?

 

[DobbyForever]

Yes, I just stopped my pill late August. That's why she's very nonchalant about the whole thing. For me it's been hades because 9 years of taking it, missing pills, and coming off completely... My longest cycle was 32 days. So to be at 43 which no signs of AF is killing me. She said that even if all the times before my cycles right off of bcp were 29-32 that doesn't mean this time would be like that.

 

[Cowgirl07]

Oh I had a 35 day cycle when i came off 8 months ago, then a 30 day then settled into 28. Until this month...

 

[DobbyForever]

=\ yeah hugs. DH has been stressed, thinking about changing careers so we haven't BDed since I'm also busy with work and my master. So a late O is a no go.

Any updates on your end? I take it AF is still a no show?

 

[Cowgirl07]

nope no af yet. she is hiding from me

 

[DobbyForever]

Have you tested recently?

 

[Cowgirl07]

Yep today nothing.

 

[DobbyForever]

Big hugs. I hope we get some answers. Actually, I had we are on that 1-2% who get late bfps

 

[PrincessKT11]

=\ yeah hugs. DH has been stressed, thinking about changing careers so we haven't BDed since I'm also busy with work and my master. So a late O is a no go.

Any updates on your end? I take it AF is still a no show?

Nothing from this corner.. Thought af was coming then today absolutely no symptoms whatsoever... I only tested once at 16 dpo and got bfn.. Kind of afraid to test again

 

[DobbyForever]

You should test this weekend 10 days late .

Ugh I called the advice nurse but my test is still in process! Wth? Have they not tested it or have they but not entered it? It's not like HCG has a long shelf life and it's not like I've got oodles of it (if any). I know I need to let go of hope but I can't

 

[DobbyForever]

Right on cue... New lab result: bfn

 

[PrincessKT11]

Right on cue... New lab result: bfn

O my heart is breaking for you.. I know how hard it is to get your hopes up and to have them crushed.. I'm soo sorry!! I'll probably be in the same boat with you too.

 

[KatBar]

Yes, I just stopped my pill late August. That's why she's very nonchalant about the whole thing. For me it's been hades because 9 years of taking it, missing pills, and coming off completely... My longest cycle was 32 days. So to be at 43 which no signs of AF is killing me. She said that even if all the times before my cycles right off of bcp were 29-32 that doesn't mean this time would be like that.

Your doc is true in that last part.. I have come off the pill several times in the last 8-9 years, and each time has been different.. 1 time it took me 4 months to get my first period, and then other time's it has been 2 months, and then just most recently (I went off again at the end of May), it was 41 days.

If it's any help, I find good fats (like avocado, unsalted nuts etc) help regulate the hormones faster. It's been the only difference in my diet this time round (coming off the pill), and I have defintely found that my periods regulated much faster this time!

Fingers crossed your cycle will start to regulate soon!