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1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP
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Happy 2013!!
Bazz ~ You sure that was an evap? Did you test again? I'm cautiously excited!
:wave: Mrs. I hope 1983 goes for her private scan...sounds like a great experience!
Bazz ~ You sure that was an evap? Did you test again? I'm cautiously excited!
:wave: Mrs. I hope 1983 goes for her private scan...sounds like a great experience!
Hello angel, u posted while I was typing!
I don't think that looks like an evap, it's too "uniform" looking, a straight line right across. An Evap would be kind of wiggly, and very thin.... I think!
I have a good feeling about this...
I don't think that looks like an evap, it's too "uniform" looking, a straight line right across. An Evap would be kind of wiggly, and very thin.... I think!
I have a good feeling about this...
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So you looked after the right time, say 10 minutes after then threw it, then a few hours later you looked again and the line was there? Well I've never had an evap line...mine have stayed blank...
was your wee strong/concentrated? Will you do another? Keeping everything crossed for you Bazz
Thanks Angel, feeling nervous so probably will go for the private scan next week..will let you know x
was your wee strong/concentrated? Will you do another? Keeping everything crossed for you Bazz Thanks Angel, feeling nervous so probably will go for the private scan next week..will let you know x
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So you looked after the right time, say 10 minutes after then threw it, then a few hours later you looked again and the line was there? Well I've never had an evap line...mine have stayed blank... was your wee strong/concentrated? Will you do another? Keeping everything crossed for you Bazz
Thanks Angel, feeling nervous so probably will go for the private scan next week..will let you know x
was your wee strong/concentrated? Will you do another? Keeping everything crossed for you Bazz Thanks Angel, feeling nervous so probably will go for the private scan next week..will let you know x
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Good luck hun
Mrs, sorry ive only just found your post now~would have missed it if I hadn't gone back to look at Bazz's pic's. Yes that big screen was at my last pregnancy scan...so actually fills me with dread. ..its a different company so different location, and if there is a big screen ill ask her to not turn it on til I know everything is ok. My scan at 9+1 weeks was perfect-tiny wriggling arms and legs, strong hb and spot on for dates...but I cant help but worry I wasnt really out of the woods and so something could have gone wrong since. IF at my scan next week where ill be 12 weeks everything is ok then yes ill relax a lot more and actually announce at work (they need to know really-psychiatric setting!) but until then im feeling very nervous abd negative again. I did before my 9 week scan-adamant something was wrong and was amazed it had all been in my head~and then I was over the moon for about a week...then the worry started to creep back in. People say ms and other symptoms are a good sign, but on a completely negative spin-and imso sorry to be all doom&gloom tonight, if something had gone wrong it could take a long time before my body reacted. I keep looking at my tummy thinking 'tes its definitely grown in 2 weeks', then ill have a 'flatter' hour or two where ill panic and think the opposite!! I haven't had any cramping since that one time at 7 weeks so can scrap that as therefore being an indication of growing as I clearly grew by my 9 week scan, but I had been getting little pinches about once a week and haven't felt those in a while...I know I know. . CHILL OUT!!!
Sorry for my neurotic winge ;-)
Mrs, sorry ive only just found your post now~would have missed it if I hadn't gone back to look at Bazz's pic's. Yes that big screen was at my last pregnancy scan...so actually fills me with dread. ..its a different company so different location, and if there is a big screen ill ask her to not turn it on til I know everything is ok. My scan at 9+1 weeks was perfect-tiny wriggling arms and legs, strong hb and spot on for dates...but I cant help but worry I wasnt really out of the woods and so something could have gone wrong since. IF at my scan next week where ill be 12 weeks everything is ok then yes ill relax a lot more and actually announce at work (they need to know really-psychiatric setting!) but until then im feeling very nervous abd negative again. I did before my 9 week scan-adamant something was wrong and was amazed it had all been in my head~and then I was over the moon for about a week...then the worry started to creep back in. People say ms and other symptoms are a good sign, but on a completely negative spin-and imso sorry to be all doom&gloom tonight, if something had gone wrong it could take a long time before my body reacted. I keep looking at my tummy thinking 'tes its definitely grown in 2 weeks', then ill have a 'flatter' hour or two where ill panic and think the opposite!! I haven't had any cramping since that one time at 7 weeks so can scrap that as therefore being an indication of growing as I clearly grew by my 9 week scan, but I had been getting little pinches about once a week and haven't felt those in a while...I know I know. . CHILL OUT!!!
Sorry for my neurotic winge ;-)
Ah I can understand that you would feel nervous about it in that sense. For me I loved seeing it because I knew immediately that there was a heartbeat... That was what I was desperate to see!
I know what u mean about moments of positivity and moments of negativity... I was exactly the same. At my 10 week private scan I was crying before I was even out of the car... Then I calmed myself down, went in, and immediately burst into tears again telling the sonographer my history... Then even when I knew it was good news I was still crying, my hubby didn't know what to do with me!!! I hope u decide to go, and once you see it's all good one more time you will start to feel completely differently about the whole pregnancy.
I am 17 weeks now, with a very definite "bump" lurking under the biggest clothes I have in my wardrobe... Deffo gonna need to shop soon for some maternity wear... But u know, the worry never stops. Just this Friday I went to the loo, and had fresh red blood when I wiped. I sat there panting, not crying but just managing to breath... Hubby was on his way up stairs and I called him, he came in and I just showed him the toilet paper and he came and hugged me (whilst still sat on the toilet, it was very romantic...lol) and we both just cried and cried. It felt like history repeating itself when we'd finally started to feel confident that things were ok. Anyway, it was literally gone with one wipe, and I went to be wearing a pad and there was not even a hint of blood on the pad by morning. I also have a Doppler at home that a friend lent to me - thank god I do have it because it was a god send that night. We immediately went and listened in and found the heart beat (thankfully found it quickly too so not too much time to panic!). That calmed me a little, but still nervous of things developing in the night... I rang the hospital in the morning and maternity transferred my call through to gynea as I was still considered too early for the maternity dept to deal with. That was a reality check coz I've been seen on that gynea unit with both of my previous miscarriages. Anyway I spoke to someone there who basically said no one is available to scan me as it was weekend, and that as long as bleeding has stopped and I had no cramps then they weren't too concerned. I would have liked to be scanned, but to be honest all they'd be scanning me for is to check for heart beat, and I knew that was present because of Doppler. We checked heartbeat again the following morning and all was well, and touch wood I've had no problems since.
I have done the obligatory googling since then, and it seems that a small bleed following... (Sorry ladies!) a pooh is quite common, and can be caused by a hard stool pushing past the cervix, which can make the cervix bleed. Or could be caused by pushing. So have been trying to be very gentle since then when I've "been", lol.
I know what u mean about moments of positivity and moments of negativity... I was exactly the same. At my 10 week private scan I was crying before I was even out of the car... Then I calmed myself down, went in, and immediately burst into tears again telling the sonographer my history... Then even when I knew it was good news I was still crying, my hubby didn't know what to do with me!!! I hope u decide to go, and once you see it's all good one more time you will start to feel completely differently about the whole pregnancy.
I am 17 weeks now, with a very definite "bump" lurking under the biggest clothes I have in my wardrobe... Deffo gonna need to shop soon for some maternity wear... But u know, the worry never stops. Just this Friday I went to the loo, and had fresh red blood when I wiped. I sat there panting, not crying but just managing to breath... Hubby was on his way up stairs and I called him, he came in and I just showed him the toilet paper and he came and hugged me (whilst still sat on the toilet, it was very romantic...lol) and we both just cried and cried. It felt like history repeating itself when we'd finally started to feel confident that things were ok. Anyway, it was literally gone with one wipe, and I went to be wearing a pad and there was not even a hint of blood on the pad by morning. I also have a Doppler at home that a friend lent to me - thank god I do have it because it was a god send that night. We immediately went and listened in and found the heart beat (thankfully found it quickly too so not too much time to panic!). That calmed me a little, but still nervous of things developing in the night... I rang the hospital in the morning and maternity transferred my call through to gynea as I was still considered too early for the maternity dept to deal with. That was a reality check coz I've been seen on that gynea unit with both of my previous miscarriages. Anyway I spoke to someone there who basically said no one is available to scan me as it was weekend, and that as long as bleeding has stopped and I had no cramps then they weren't too concerned. I would have liked to be scanned, but to be honest all they'd be scanning me for is to check for heart beat, and I knew that was present because of Doppler. We checked heartbeat again the following morning and all was well, and touch wood I've had no problems since.
I have done the obligatory googling since then, and it seems that a small bleed following... (Sorry ladies!) a pooh is quite common, and can be caused by a hard stool pushing past the cervix, which can make the cervix bleed. Or could be caused by pushing. So have been trying to be very gentle since then when I've "been", lol.
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Ohhh Mrs, that mustve been horrible, terrifying....yes thank God for the doppler, ill get one if scan goes well. Was that the first time you'd used it? Yes I can imagine you'll be sitting on the loo for quite a lot longer now in the hope it all 'happens' on its own! Big *relieved* hugs x I'm always wearing of bearing down too hard whether its the last drops of wee, wind or a number 2!
Does everyone know now~they must do with your bump spring shopping!! When are you due?
Well I think I will go, it is booked...ill keep you all posted x
Does everyone know now~they must do with your bump
spring shopping!! When are you due? Well I think I will go, it is booked...ill keep you all posted x
No I've been playing with the Doppler for a few weeks now. It was very hard to find at first, took abt 20 mins each time before I found it. Now I can find it pretty quickly, partly coz I'm probably getting better at it, but also obviously baby is bigger now so it's just easier to find.
Yes everyone knows now, I'd started to tell close friends after my 10 week scan, and also told work at that point too. But then on Xmas eve I bit the bullet and wrote it on Facebook!! I was a little weary of doing it, but on the other hand wanted to let the whole world in on my secret!! I can't tell u how many likes and comments it got! Xx
Yes everyone knows now, I'd started to tell close friends after my 10 week scan, and also told work at that point too. But then on Xmas eve I bit the bullet and wrote it on Facebook!! I was a little weary of doing it, but on the other hand wanted to let the whole world in on my secret!! I can't tell u how many likes and comments it got! Xx
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Mrs ~ I had a red episode too the other day! My Dr checked me that day and said even the slightest pressure can cause the cervix to bleed. She then told me to take a stool softener, not a laxative, regularly. I now don't want to go to the restroom 
1983 ~ admittedly I'm waiting to go to my scan next Wed and skipping this week because I am scared of what I might not see. I know there is nothing I can do to change what is meant to be and figure its best to set goals. Currently I just want to get to my 8 week scan...7 days away!
I support whatever you decide to do, but think you'll be glad you went if you do!
Bailey ~
for Jan 2! Hopefully your visit to the Dr Jan 3 will be for prenatal care!
Manny ~ Hope your vacay has been wonderful!
Happy 2013...wishing for happy endings and new beginnings for each of us!
1983 ~ admittedly I'm waiting to go to my scan next Wed and skipping this week because I am scared of what I might not see. I know there is nothing I can do to change what is meant to be and figure its best to set goals. Currently I just want to get to my 8 week scan...7 days away!
I support whatever you decide to do, but think you'll be glad you went if you do! Bailey ~
for Jan 2! Hopefully your visit to the Dr Jan 3 will be for prenatal care!Manny ~ Hope your vacay has been wonderful!
Happy 2013...wishing for happy endings and new beginnings for each of us!
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Bailey...just lurking around to see if you poas today. Fx!
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Evaps can be pink? Oh...I didn't know that either. Have you ever noticed an evap line on that brand before? When I would get BFNs they stayed ghostly white, so my guess is it could depend on the brand, right? Hmm...maybe the Dr can check for you tomorrow 
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Fx the Dr gives you answers tomorrow!
