1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP

[bazzb]

That other line must have been an Evap

 

[A1983]

Ok hun, sorry for any hopes that were raised xx Still, remember it's the lucky 3rd month of ttc when you'll get your bfp and what's important now is to find out IF anything is amiss. I know you didn't track your cycles before...but rougly how long were they do you remember? 30 days, 40 days? Goodluck with your doctor and keep us posted. You will get there I PROMISE (the amount of times I was told that after my mc, and I couldn't help but be doubtful...well you know the rest) thinking of you xx

 

[bazzb]

So she was super nice.. did a urine test right in the exam room for me.. it was negative which i knew anyways.. offered to send me for blood which of course I agreed to, said she will call by Monday if it is postitive... she said I may be too early for it to shown in urine or AF might be around the corner.. She told me not to panic that ladies with longer cycles before a MC like myself sometimes takes 3-4 months to adjust..

I have to go back and see her in two weeks if no af still

thanks for the support

 

[bazzb]

cycles before were 35-45 days at most
spotting a few days before.

 

[A1983]

Right..how about a holiday for you and oh? Is that possible? X

 

[bazzb]

when my mom gets back in town in a few weeks. we are hoping to get away for a weekend, need her back to dog sit lol

 

[A1983]

Good, you need a break from it all because it id all going to sort itself out, it's just time

 

[A1983]

Sorry that was short my colleague was looking over my shoulder so quickly closed it down! X

 

[bazzb]

no worries.. and thanks for the support... im not really upset that Im not preggo (of course id love to me) ill be satisfied once AF shows her face

 

[MrsNJR]

Oh Bazz I'm so sorry! I really felt sure that this was it for you. Well done for having the courage to test, and sounds like u have a good doctor who is saying and doing all the right things for you.

It WILL happen for you, it HAS to, this thread is only for lucky people!

Keep us posted over next few days xxx

Re: cycle length. Mine wa always fairly short (24 days) but after m/c took about 7 weeks for next AF, and after that my cycle was always longer, 28 days. I know that's not long by any means, but my dates were like clockwork both before and after m/c, it was just that the length of cycle changed and didn't go back to normal. Strange!

 

[bazzb]

thanks i hope my cycles dont get any longer 35-45 days was burtal enough

on a postibve note last week i started acumpuncture to help regulate my cycles, i go back again on the 26th for another session.

 

[bazzb]

I know Angel uses the fertility monitor.. does anyone else? is it good? worth me buying?

 

[xoxo4angel]

Bailey Monday seems forever away doesn't it! You are still not out, so hold off on buying a CBFM. I did acupuncture after my 1st mc and LOVED it...it really helped regulate my cycles!

 

[bazzb]

nice! I wont purchase until atfter monday just incase..

Do you need to start it the day u get ur period or can u start afew days after.. just incase i start my period before i get a change to order one

 

[xoxo4angel]

I found something on the site you should read...let me see if I can post the link.

https://www.clearblueeasy.com/clearblue-easy-fertility-monitor-faq.php#6

EDIT: Not sure if this is taking you where I wanted it to...be sure to click on "Is the CBFM suitable for me." It says to wait a couple of cycles after a mc.

 

[xoxo4angel]

As for the monitor itself...you set your cycle day 1, then every day at the same time you turn it on and it will show you if you need to feed it a stick or not. (BTW A box of 30 sticks is around $60, works out to $20 a month)

 

[bazzb]

great info! so after my next AF i should be good to go

I am considering it

 

[xoxo4angel]

I don't think you'll need it...just saying

However, if you ever have a *air quote* friend who needs one, its ok to buy a used one...the one I have is on loan from a friend. You can clean it and it is super easy to reset.

Edit: Just read your thread...didn't realize you could get one for such a great deal.

 

[bazzb]

lol thanks
no call back from the Dr. today lets see what tomorrow brings

 

[mannymoo]

Hi Ladies - how is everyone? I'm just back from a lovely holiday and feeling very sorry for myself having to be back at work. Still need to catch up on some reading but have done a bit of a skim and Bazz - I agree, you're not out yet! Stay positive!! Dam the evap lines. I got so exited when I saw that.

Hope you all had a great Christmas and New Year. Welcome to 2013 - where we will all get our little ones in our arms.

xx