1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP

[bazzb]

she probaly wont, thats one thing that sucks about free health care, that arent always helpful

sorry i think im a little hormonal today lol

 

[A1983]

Don't be sorry love, you most likely fed up and full of questions....but like Angel said, my bfns have only been ghostly white also. I've just looked into evap lines and they are normally grey and not in the place where the test line would be.

I know it's hard with Dr's at times but really put your foot down, maybe take hubby and the least id be happy with is some hormone tests (all of them) ie estrogen, progesterone and a hcg level, and IF it's a case of you not being pregnant then definitely ask for the tests again 7 days after a positive opk. But for now, treat yourself to your favourite food (and a pudding ) and put your feet up with oh tonight. Tomorrow is another day and is MOST DEFINITELY a day closer to your much wanted bfp x

 

[bazzb]

Thanks so much hunny xox

 

[bazzb]

I thought evaps were grey also but someone commented on my thread in the oregnancy test section saying otherwise

 

[A1983]

Ps any test results you need help understanding ask away-I've requested enough over the last year to specialise in the area Were all here for you xxx

 

[bazzb]

Thanks! Good to know

 

[A1983]

One thing ive learnt on these forums is 99% of people are amazing, but there is always someone waiting to pi$# on your chips!! I was reading a post a lady put up about mc statistics, she just wanted to reassure us panic stricken ladies in realising the odds ARE in our favour...but its like being on a rollacoaster as you scroll through, always some to state what we already know that yes yes it does happen even as you get further along...but the point of the post is to boost our negativity and remind us that more than likely we'll be ok!!! Phew...got that one off my chest ;-)

 

[bazzb]

I know I hate that also!! Makes my blood pressure rise!!

With my test I think the line is in the exact door it should be, not sure if that's normal with an Evap as I've never had one before

 

[A1983]

Exact door...do you mean colour? Yes it seemed the match the control line, just lighter...is that what you mean?

 

[bazzb]

LOL yes and in the exact spot LOL oh my iphone annoys me

 

[xoxo4angel]

The iphone auto correct strikes again! Door for color...nice! Earlier mine changed ttc to tycoon...

Why are we always at the mercy of Doctors? Isn't enough that we have suffered miscarriages...just give us some simple blood work for OUR peace of mind!

1983 ~ There is always one bad apple out there lurking...ready spread their pessimism. Bazz, don't listen to anyone else, but our resident stick reader, AKA A1983. 1983, what day is your next scan?

 

[bazzb]

quetion for you angel, i have no idea what dpo I am or if i even O'd

When you had the light line how many DPO were you?

 

[xoxo4angel]

My light line was 11dpo...I too thought it was an evap, but that brand had NEVER given me an evap before. (sneaky tone) Maybe you should poas in the morning and post it for 1983 to interpret...

 

[bazzb]

LOL if i have the nerve i will
im such a baby you know

 

[xoxo4angel]

I don't blame you. I won't even go for a scan this week (offered gratis) because I cannot work up the nerve to do it...I can empathize with you! We need to rename this group, Rightfully Scaredy Cats! LOL!

 

[bazzb]

LOL indeed we do
OMG if am I preggo i cant even think about going for a scan afrer last time..I totally know how you feel Angel... its awful isnt it
*deep breathes Bailey* lol

 

[bazzb]

Mrs I am just now catching up on your post... i am so sorry you had that scare but so glad you have your at home doppler! xo

 

[MrsNJR]

Hey it's been a busy couple of days on this thread hasn't it?? Bazz, I'm with the others, u would have thought that an evap would not be in the right place/right colour etc... And as others have said a BFN window is stark white when u look back at it after some time has passed... And I also said in my post yesterday that my first BFP this time (10dpo) was very faint, almost not there at all, wondered if I was just willing it to be there etc. but a few hours later when the test had kind of "dried" the line was more visible, which sounds like your test.

I know I sound like I'm convinced it is a BFP, but I sort of AM!

U should deffo pluck up the courage to test again in the morning, with 48 hrs between tests you would see enough difference in the strength of the line to be convinced one way or the other... Go for it! First wee of the day, nice and strong, and DO IT!!

Pics on here please...! Xxxx

 

[bazzb]

Ok I will think about it and update you guys right away! I just get discouraged easily

thanks for all of the support XxXxX

 

[A1983]

Scaredy cats is a good name definitely! I don't even want to say what day my scan is as im so nervous...so ill just tell you once I've been~hope you understand!!!

Ohh and ha ha about the resident stick expert, im no better than you ladies! I'm just quite clued up on hormone blood results, having been told I was pcos and diabetic...when I wasn't!!! (Long story, but did nothing for my ttc fears!)

I know it's hard bazz, and only you can make that decision. ..as dramatic as it sounds, cos it is at that moment between ??bfp??af??, that little white stick holds our answers and prayers, so it is damn scary...BUT we've all had plenty of practice at holding both bfns and bfps...so what im trying to say is whatever the result, us ladies can only move in one direction and thats forward, either by having a good cry and then a weird sense of relief that the answer is now known and trying again, or heading off to the drs with +ive pee stick in hand and anxiety yet hope coursing through your veins! X