3/4dpo... Longest wait everrrr!! I need a 2WW buddy!! :-0

[bumphope]

Oh well you never know love, maybe the witch will stay away. I hope she does.

I don't think I actually have extra cm, but I just keep feeling like 'wet' and like AF has come early... If that makes sense?!

Um. I might have accidentally tested this morning. Bfn. Again Still two more days til AF due though so who knows. I so so so hope it's our month.

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[K151]

Update: I'm officially out of the running this month - AF confirmed.

The good news is that I'm not as disappointed as I could be, it was my very first attempt after all. I did learn a whole lot about the process too - opk testing, cm tracking, tww, etc. This month I had a 30 day cycle, so it will be interesting to see if that's the case each time.

I will be toasting a margarita for you ladies tonight!

Joseyposey28 - how funny, my sister is getting married in May. Except I need to order a bridesmaids dress and I don't have a clue what size, haha.

 

[K151]

Pregnancy test Strips, small plastic cups, and a new pack of opk tests order from Amazon. I'm going to be a POAS maniac in Nov!

 

[bumphope]

Oh no I'm sorry hun.

On our first cycle I was actually almost pleased we didn't catch the egg... I quite enjoyed using the opks and being aware of my cycle, so I do know what you mean.

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[joseyposey28]

K151: I like your thinking! Keep positive! And we can keep updating the thread from ov to bfp so i can share your wonderful journey! I too am a brides maid and i will get my dress the month before, luckily im the only old one so i wont have to match anyone else...but hopefully well both need one with a bit of extra bump room!! xx

Bumphope...dont give up, i read back at an old thread i started that i forgot about when i got my last bfp...and id totally forgot my old symptoms etc...and it was the same as af...i actually was so convince i was out i didnt even bother testing till 16dpo! and the line was still faint! so theres still time..the wetness sounds good...as for me..pink and brown when i wipe..which means shell come full force tommoro exactly as planned! but i will keep updating the thread as even tho i said id have a break..i probably wont. goodluck hun xx

love2myboys...where you been at? update please xx

 

[bumphope]

Thanks Joseyposey

I am going to test again tomorrow which is 14dpo. I got a white line on an Internet cheapy yesterday and I have no idea what that means?! It came up straight away and has stayed put.

I'm swinging from being really confident to really not confident. Still got the wet feeling today, keep going to the loo to check and nothing yet. I really don't remember having this before

I'll feel like such a wally if she arrives after thinking I've had all these symptoms!

So sorry AF is here for you. I hope next cycle will be the one, if you don't go with the break

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[LoveMy2Boys2]

Hi ladies! So sorry to hear about the ugly witch who has showed up or about to show up and for the ladies hanging ... Fingers crossed and lots of baby dust!!!
I did do that necklace trick a few years ago, I think it was 3 or 4 and the last child is a girl ... So far I have 2 boys! Well.... 12 dpo here.... Had some strange cheapy dollar store tests.... Bumphope... Mine also as bright whitish lines , I couldn't tell if they had color , ill post a pic of my test from yesterday and today.... Not sure if these are evaps or what? I'm thinking ugly evaps :/

 

[LoveMy2Boys2]

And cheers to a new month and a fresh start ! .... To
All the mamas who get to drink a whole bottle of whatever their hearts desire BOL next month!!

 

[LoveMy2Boys2]

[URL=https://imgur.com/MqIDOjR][IMG]https://i.imgur.com/MqIDOjR.jpg

 

[LoveMy2Boys2]

The top I took yesterday afternoon, middle last night , bottom this morning .... Then I tried to confirm with a FRER this afternoon and think its a bfn :/ I might have line eye and see something ? I don't know ?! Ahhhhh..... I posted it in the pregnancy test page ....

 

[joseyposey28]

Im struggling to get the picture up on my tablet will have a look on desktop when im home, atleast af is not here for you both yet sooo theres always a chance stil! Sometimes a bunch of women get what they think are evaps that turn out to be vvvvvvvv.faint positive s! I didnt have a wiff of a line an this morning nice bright red so definitely getting some prosecco tonight and drinking merrily away. Then I shall behave again ready for the next round . Good luck good luck goodluck! Xxxx

 

[LoveMy2Boys2]

Awww JoseyPosey so sorry to hear that's righ, u drink that whole bottle ....why? Because you can!!! Lol enjoy it and have some fun, off to a new fresh start .... Well, I'm out of tests, AF should be here anytime between today and Monday... :/ my cycles are usually 28-32 days ... Usually 30 is the winner though.... We shall wait n see! Wish u could see the pic ! Anyone else see the pic?!

 

[bumphope]

I can see the lines lovemy2boys... But I think they look like the antibody strip? Hopefully it is a very light bfp though... The white line I had the other day must have been an antibody since flipping AF has arrived today a day early!

I'm so disappointed. I really thought we had it this month How can your body give you so many symptoms one month for no apparent reason?!!

So sorry you've had the same Joseyposey. Hopefully next month will be our month.

Off to m&s for fizzy wine, pâté and shellfish to cheer myself up!!

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[K151]

Just checking in with everybody - it's getting about that time to BD. Anybody have a confirmed BFP last month?

I'm dealing with some crazy stuff right now - I had weaned off some anti-depressants late this summer in anticipation of getting pregnant and had a pretty bad depressive episode the last few weeks (wasn't particularly functional anymore - crying every day, multiple times a day) so I've recently started taking Zoloft at the advice of my OBGYN. Logically I think everything will be fine, but for somebody who has trying to do everything right, taking medication has been a real disappointment.

It was so bad that my husband and I are trying to figure out if we should even try to BD this month or if I should "normalize" first. On one hand, I see the argument, on the other it seems like that would just drag out the amount of time until I can get back on my regular meds. Also I'm not very happy at my job, so I feel like my options are to suck it up and get to maternity leave, or find a new job but then have to deal with the "surprise, I'm immediately pregnant!" issues. Arg.

My leaning is to go ahead and BD this month, but we'll see. I'm doing my opk tests this week so I really don't need to make a decision until then.

How's everybody else?

 

[bumphope]

Hi K151... No bfp for me last month so we are about to go again now. Dh annoyed me the other day saying that we should just go with the flow and bd as and when and not to a schedule. Does he not understand how it works? I know he is as keen for a baby as I am, I just don't understand how he can be so relaxed about how long it's taking to happen!

To be honest, I have a nasty feeling it's never going to happen for us. I'm not sure why.

I'm so sorry to hear about your last couple of weeks. I think if you have to take something you have to take something, it's not admitting defeat, it's helping yourself get back on track in the right way. The job is a difficult one. Is there nothing about your current job that you like?

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