33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[Calibeachbum]

Ladders: that's how my bfp started out with ds. Can't wait to see progressions.

Congrats curious!!

 

[happycupcake]

Curious, it's such a good feeling when your tests start sucking the dye from the control line hoping you can feel more comfortable now, but I completely understand what you're saying. It is so hard to relax early on and more so if you have experienced loss. But this is all looking so good, I don't think you have any worries there

 

[ladders]

So I decided to tell my dh last night and wish I hadn't have bothered!!! I think his exact words were well it's too early so don't go getting excited because we know what happens. Thanks!!!! I think I'm aware of my chances of loosing this one too I'm the one that went through it last time! I got upset and he tried to explain that he said it more to stop himself getting excited. I'm just so upset because i didn't want/expect him to jump up and down and shout etc I just wanted a "cool, fingers crossed".
My dd was conceived straight after a mc and me telling dh I was pregnant again was horrible and I hate that its the same this time too, I hate that their announcing isn't a happy one although they are wanted so so much. Now I don't want to talk to him about anything, he asked what do we do now and i said just forget it I'll sort things. I know he thinks he's trying to protect us but it was gutting

 

[curiousowl]

Those lines are looking so so good ladders! I'm so happy for you. And so excited we'll be due at the same time! I'm really sorry YH wasn't more excited. Men just do not get it. Some of the stuff MH has told me related to loss, TTC, and pregnancy is seriously so awful. So big hugs. He'll get there. Remind him that should things go badly (and odds are in your favor that everything will be fine!) that then he'll have missed his only chance to celebrate this pregnancy and this baby. Big hugs lady.

 

[TTCSK]

Congrats ladders

 

[PG5K]

I know what you mean Ladders. My OH is really happy but playing it cool because we are both so nervous.
Your lines are looking similar to mine though I was worried yesterday as I did a test just before bed and it wasn't as strong as I hoped. I'm keeping my fingers (and legs) crossed that everything is OK for the next couple of days.

 

[PG5K]

Just did another test and I think the lines are getting fainter.
I am trying to stay positive but tomorrow would be AF and I have a feeling it might arrive

 

[Alligator]

I'm sorry PG5K - I hope it's just variation and AF stays away.

Ladders - so sorry your DH didn't give you the reaction you wanted. Our hubby's sound similar. Mine is super anxious and antsy, I know he might have a similar reaction to yours. I might wait to tell him, honestly, until my period is officially late (I am hoping that happens soon!)...he still will be cautious and anxious but you know what? This is happening to OUR bodies. We are cautious and anxious enough. They can feel that way on the inside but on the outside they need to give us what we need...and sometimes that is cautious optimism, happiness, support...whatever.

 

[ricschick]

PG I really hope not!! Xx

 

[happycupcake]

Any update, PG? I hope you're ok

 

[ladders]

I feel like some tests are fainter but I'm sure it's not the case, if also been having af style pains so I understand your worry. Hoping your ok??

 

[PG5K]

I did another 2 tests this morning as I was having a bit of a panic.
With my fmu I got a much stronger test result and on a clear blue digital I got pregnant 2-3 weeks and considering I was expecting to see 1-2 weeks so it's made me feel much happier.
I'm going to stop testing now as I think it's stressing me out too much.
Thank you ladies xx

 

[Alligator]

Great news PG5k - happy and healthy 9 months to you!

 

[Momtastic101]

Congrats ladders!!!!!!! Those are great lines.

AF got me this cycle, Im surprisingly not as upset as I expected, so on to the next cycle. I really want to stick to smep this time around

 

[ladders]

Thank you momtastic, i did smep this cycle and did it pretty much as states just didn't bother with the bd after the rest day as by then cm was so creamy I knew I'd definetly ovulated. Worked for us so I certainly recommend it!

Pg I'm so pleased! I have 2 ic's left 1 frrr and one clearblue digital and after those I'm not buying anymore as testing stressed me out too and it didn't give me any heads up with my mc so i think once af day past it doesn't help

 

[ricschick]

Congrats again girls xx

 

[ladders]

How's everyone doing?

 

[Alligator]

Ladders! I think I got a vvvvvfl (check my journal for pic). Not calling it yet. Otherwise - I’m tired but good! Anxious. Waiting for tomorrow. Nervous! Trying not to get excited. What a rollercoaster!

 

[curiousowl]

Yay alligator! I hope it’s darker tomorrow!

 

[SadakoS]

Wow. I move house and have no Internet got a few weeks and look at all the BFPs! Congrats guys!

And I'm so sorry this is still ongoing Cupcake, glad you're getting some tests!