Okay girls, trying to recap my earlier post.
Anna, yes, I definitely worry about those first 8 weeks with the new baby. The first time around, I didn't realize how much of an epidemic the pertussis was at the time. Now it's even worse. I had planned to take the baby with me to my church group meeting once a week, but generally when someone does that everyone in the group ends up holding the baby (we meet for 2 hours at a time) and I don't even want to expose him to that. Just having Ethan come home with germs from everywhere is going to be scary enough! I think I will keep the baby home till he's had his first booster at least. Then give that a couple weeks to kick in. But honestly, I'm usually so whacked those first few weeks that we almost never go anywhere anyway, until the baby is sleeping thru the night!
So excited for you closing and moving!!!!
Can't wait to hear that you are loving the new place! And I'm SO jealous. SNOW, already!? I would LOVE your climate! It's still shorts weather here, but cooler in the mornings and overrnight.
We have not yet flown with kids, but I know so many people who were worried and then the kids did fine. I'm sure Jo will be great!
And yes, I agree about pulling htem out of daycare - I hate to do it because it's really his only regularly scheduled social outing right now, and I feel like he needs it. We will see how we go along until the baby is born, but I think after that I may keep both of them home for a few months, mostly because of the pertussis thing. I think i've got a certifiable phobia about that now!
I, too miss our other girls. Please check in when you can! HA, I am ALWAYS glad you are here with us!
Steph, I will definitely share any advice I can as far as having two goes! And that is so scary about the open door and the toilet... Ethan is capable of lifting the toilet lid but doesn't show a lot of interest...yet. I know that is coming! Oh, keeping these kids safe is a full time job plus some! And the husbands rarely fret about it the way we do... my husband thinks half the things I worry about are crazy (I still can't make him get taht if the oven is running, the glass is the same temperature as the oven!
I guess he needs to put HIS hand up to it and see. But even then, he is of the "let him learn and he won't forget that lesson" school, and I just can't do that.
Disney sounds awesome... so jealous you are so close! Though your weather would be killing me
On the idea of a group Disney trip, I would LOVE it! Bek, I think you suggested fall of 2014 which should be doable for me if for everyone else!
Bek, I agree with others - do NOT be so hard on yourself about hte weight! It is HARD to lose weight. Especially when you are stressed with life in general (as we all are in the first year or two after a baby is born!
) I found it almost impossible, and was surprised at how hard I had to work to lose just a few pounds. This time I will know better how to begin to go about it, but I still expect it to take me a while and I'll be a little easier on myself about it. That is interesting about the ear infections. I read an article today that said kids who grow up in homes with pets (especially dogs) have fewer ear infections and sick days than other kids... I thought that was great news since we have a dog
but also interesting... it's based on the hygiene hypothesis - the idea that a lot of Americans are going overboard with the cleanliness these days. I hope I am not one of them... I try to balance what I consider exposure to "regular" dirt (paci on floor of our house, vs. thrown in floor at restaurant... etc). vs dirt or germs I want to avoid (like all these blasted cold viruses). Even though Ethan has had lots of colds, I thought it was interesting because he has only had one ear infection so far (thank God!)
Jules, I hope little Gabby is feeling better! How is she today?
AFM, just hanging in and waiting to see if I'm going to come down with Ethan's latest crud. Poor baby is blowing snot and drool EVERYWHERE - reminds me of that movie Turner and Hooch! I mean, I can't keep UP with it!! Literally, he will sneeze and his paci will fly out with a string of drool and snot attached (sorry I know that is gross, but it's unbelievable to see it happen!
) I'm just using my Zicam, eatiing protein and PRAYING. I will probably be going to our 3D ultrasoudn alone tomorrow
because we don't want to impose a sick baby on our neighbor (who was going to watch EThan for us so hubby could go). We will get the video and all so I know it's fine but I'm still sad hubby can't be there.
( I will share some pics with you as soon as I get home!
Off to see what I can pull together for dinner. Poor munchkin doesn't want much food, but he DOES want his chocolate graham crackers and goldfish... can't be feeling TOO badly ;-)