newmarriedgal
A happy new mom!
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Hi Ladies!
We survived Sandy!!! With minimal impact, but I have been so sick lately, just feeling blah like I want to throw up. And yet, I'm craving anything chocolate in the house. So since we had about 15 kids total come to the house on Halloween, I'm stuck with over a full bag of candy. God Bless Charlie, he came home from work last night and gently asked if there was any candy left I said, hey! I'm not THAT bad yet and he said, it would be ok if I ate it all but if I didn't, he'll have a piece. thankfully he's not snarky about it!
little Poppy is sitting next to me in the high chair feeding himself sweet potato little puffs. Leave it to my kid to not like cheerios...ohhh no, but give him sweet potatoes and he's allllll over it. he is making me laugh!
Anyhoo, Angela - good luck with the scan. I am so ready to welcome a new little one to our bnb family!!! Prayers for rest and peace these final weeks. As far as overdoing, I hear ya. Sometimes, you get the urge and Have to do it, regardless of how you feel. I am planning on the holiday party because I want to relax on the actual day and enjoy my boys. Normally when his siters have things, they don't put put for for HOURS, I mean HOURS, and then just when I am ready to leave, they want to play games. I was almost 8 months pg last Christmas and I was literally in tears at close to midnight begging Charlie to go home. They didn't serve food until 8! (was supposed to be at 4ish) then brought out the games at 10. I swore never again. On the invite, I am putting the party is from 3-8pm due to baby schedule. If they don't like it, I don't care. I'm sure some won't even come.
Bek - thanks for checking in on me! We are doing well after Sandy. As far as discipline, that is tough, some spanking (like a swift whack on the bum) is far different from wailing on the kid, but if that is something you are set against, that is just fine too! You just need to follow through on your discipline. My sister never spanked and would say the most ridiculous things for discipline such as: if you don't do this, we are canceling Christmas, or you are walking home alone, or you will never get to do X,Y,orZ. The kid knew they were empty threats and walked all over her. Now she's a spoiled brat. Except when it comes to her being with my mom or me. I'm the mean aunt, when I say: don't hit me with the wooded spoon or I'm taking it away and you continue to hit me, I'm taking it away and you don't get it back!!!!! Tears don't move me to cave like that. My sis just shrugs and lets her continue to hit her!
Steph - earthquakes, oh my! Glad you are all ok. Minnie Mouse sounds so cute! I can just see her sweet face with the ears on! But looking forward to seeing actual pics to get another smile!
Anna - hope you are enjoying your trip! You deserve it!
Jules, my sis, miss you!
We went to my heart doc the other day, have to go back in 2 months due to an issue I was having, nothing major, but still needs to be checked. I asked him if he could listen to Poppy's heart as so many docs missed my issues for 4 years and both Charlie and I have serious issues. He was more than happy to do it and he said he has a superior stethoscope - it is more finely attuned than reg drs and he said he did hear a murmur! BUT, he said a murmur is very common in infants because the heart is pumping so much so fast it creates the noise. But he said it still needs to be checked and he, in particular, needs to be monitored closely as both of our issues are hereditary. So I will bring it up on his 9 month appt next week!!!! 9 months already!!!
I know there was something else to say but I can't remember! Prob remember when I hit submit! Memory is crap these days. Ok, munching time is over, time for lunch!
hugs to you all!
Beth
We survived Sandy!!! With minimal impact, but I have been so sick lately, just feeling blah like I want to throw up. And yet, I'm craving anything chocolate in the house. So since we had about 15 kids total come to the house on Halloween, I'm stuck with over a full bag of candy. God Bless Charlie, he came home from work last night and gently asked if there was any candy left I said, hey! I'm not THAT bad yet and he said, it would be ok if I ate it all but if I didn't, he'll have a piece. thankfully he's not snarky about it!
little Poppy is sitting next to me in the high chair feeding himself sweet potato little puffs. Leave it to my kid to not like cheerios...ohhh no, but give him sweet potatoes and he's allllll over it. he is making me laugh!
Anyhoo, Angela - good luck with the scan. I am so ready to welcome a new little one to our bnb family!!! Prayers for rest and peace these final weeks. As far as overdoing, I hear ya. Sometimes, you get the urge and Have to do it, regardless of how you feel. I am planning on the holiday party because I want to relax on the actual day and enjoy my boys. Normally when his siters have things, they don't put put for for HOURS, I mean HOURS, and then just when I am ready to leave, they want to play games. I was almost 8 months pg last Christmas and I was literally in tears at close to midnight begging Charlie to go home. They didn't serve food until 8! (was supposed to be at 4ish) then brought out the games at 10. I swore never again. On the invite, I am putting the party is from 3-8pm due to baby schedule. If they don't like it, I don't care. I'm sure some won't even come.
Bek - thanks for checking in on me! We are doing well after Sandy. As far as discipline, that is tough, some spanking (like a swift whack on the bum) is far different from wailing on the kid, but if that is something you are set against, that is just fine too! You just need to follow through on your discipline. My sister never spanked and would say the most ridiculous things for discipline such as: if you don't do this, we are canceling Christmas, or you are walking home alone, or you will never get to do X,Y,orZ. The kid knew they were empty threats and walked all over her. Now she's a spoiled brat. Except when it comes to her being with my mom or me. I'm the mean aunt, when I say: don't hit me with the wooded spoon or I'm taking it away and you continue to hit me, I'm taking it away and you don't get it back!!!!! Tears don't move me to cave like that. My sis just shrugs and lets her continue to hit her!
Steph - earthquakes, oh my! Glad you are all ok. Minnie Mouse sounds so cute! I can just see her sweet face with the ears on! But looking forward to seeing actual pics to get another smile!
Anna - hope you are enjoying your trip! You deserve it!
Jules, my sis, miss you!
We went to my heart doc the other day, have to go back in 2 months due to an issue I was having, nothing major, but still needs to be checked. I asked him if he could listen to Poppy's heart as so many docs missed my issues for 4 years and both Charlie and I have serious issues. He was more than happy to do it and he said he has a superior stethoscope - it is more finely attuned than reg drs and he said he did hear a murmur! BUT, he said a murmur is very common in infants because the heart is pumping so much so fast it creates the noise. But he said it still needs to be checked and he, in particular, needs to be monitored closely as both of our issues are hereditary. So I will bring it up on his 9 month appt next week!!!! 9 months already!!!
I know there was something else to say but I can't remember! Prob remember when I hit submit! Memory is crap these days. Ok, munching time is over, time for lunch!
hugs to you all!
Beth