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[OmiOmen]

mum2joe: I am so sorry to hear that, but bleeding in early pregnancy is not uncommon so the fact it was only a small amount may be a good sign. Good luck tomorrow.

Poshie: I think in most area's the midwives usually make the scan appointments, I hope she manages to get you one (my doctor wanted me to have one early but the MW could not get one for me). I have to take a wee sample every midwife appointment for the same tests and last time I went I walked there too and she kept asking if I was ok because I looked tired and pale (I am pale anyway but walking in the cold made it worse).

My pelvis and hips are in agony today! They were bad last night but after having to go to the shop and having a pub lunch today they hurt so much more. Plus, tomorrow I have our weekly shop to do and some Christmas shopping so I am not going to be much better tomorrow or for work on Saturday I don't think. I guess at least I can ask my MW about the whole SPD thing at my appointment next Wednesday.

 

[NickyT75]

Oh m2j - huge im so sorry you are having this worry babe

I know nothing anyone can say will make you feel any better even though the odds are in your favour coz you will be terrified of history repeating itself and wont feel better until youve had your scan and seen for yourself that your baby is ok - but just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for good news tomorrow sweetheart xx

 

[samzi]

m2j - i hope all is okay tomorrow. will be thinking of you

 

[MissyMojo]

m2j sending you

massive massive loves to all you ladies !!!

 

[Mrs Doddy]

Poshie glad things are going well - have you booked a scan yet

m2j hope you're ok am thinking of you x

 

[Lol78]

M2J - Massive hugs. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this stress.

When I was last pregnant I had bleeding at about 5 weeks, 6 weeks and again at 9 weeks. Each one was very much as you described, just a tiny amount when I wiped. I had early scan and all was fine - I was told it was implantation bleeding. I thought that only happened very early (like 7 dpo or something) but apparently the blood can stay around. When little one implants, it causes bruising (which can be seen on the scan) and usually the blood gets absorbed back into the body but sometimes little bits can come out, even much later into first trimester. That bleeding was nothing whatsoever to do with what happened later.

I know how scared you are, I understand how difficult this is with your history, but bleeding in first tri is common and normal - not calling you common love!

I totally understand that you will be petrified until you know it's OK. All we can do is send you loads of big to get through this. Will be thinking of you tomorrow. xx

 

[Lol78]

Poshie - glad to hear the doctors was good and understood.

 

[OmiOmen]

I know how scared you are, I understand how difficult this is with your history, but bleeding in first tri is common and normal - not calling you common love!

I have read about how quite a few ladies in the second trimester have had blood when wiping/spotting/a small bleed and everything was fine. I know that will not make you worry any less though.

 

[shmoo75]

M2J - OMG! I am so sorry you are going through this terror again. I have my FX that when you have your scan today you will see your LO's HB. I know you hate going to the EPAU but, its the only way you can get the scan. I will be thinking of you hun today and, what makes things worse is that no one else knows except you and your OH. Big to you my love. I will get on B&B later today at work to see how you get on this morning.

Poshie - Glad your Dr's appointment went well and, that you will see your m/w on Tues and she will book your scan for you.

Beachlover - for your scan date being the 14/12

OmiOmen - So sorry you are in agony hun hope it goes away soon

I'm still peeing loads, left nip really hurt me last night, feeling abit sicky but not actuall been sick(long may that remain true as I hate being sick so ms can stay the hell away) as next Wed gets nearer I'm starting to get more and more worried. I got up at about 1am to pee this morning and, when I got back to bed my OH sat up and asked if everything was alright. Even he is worrying and fretting more than he did the last 2 times. We even nearly had a row about me wanting to hoover the stairs! OH settled for me hoovering the dinning room only. Just want that date of Wed 09/12 be over and done with so, I can start breathing again iykwim?

 

[OmiOmen]

shmoo75: I know, when will the peeing ever stop! I always have gone a lot but how much I go now is ridiculous.

Well, I have to go get ready to go Christmas shopping and my pelvis still hurts so much that I just don't want to go!

 

[Poshie]

6 weeks

Hello ladies. No news from the lovely M2J yet....was hoping to have heard something by now. I know we are all thinking of her and sending her lots of

I've had fairly productive day. Took dog for nice walk in the sun (blimmin cold mind you). Tidied the house, ready for the cleaner. Washed my car (filthy it was). Went into town, met DH for lunch, did a bit of xmas shopping. Just about to make the tea and then take dog for her 2nd walk. Then dh should be home, then it's a bit of tv and DS I think

Feeling pretty 'normal' today. Little bit sick now and again, but nothing really. Boobs bit sore but not too bad. Tired in afternoon. Hope everything's okay.

Schmoo - what's the deal with you and early scan? Have you booked in with mw yet?

Mrs D - my midwife appointment is tuesday and she will arrange my scan then. Hoping for the week after at 7week +. That's really all I'm interested in tbh....need to know if anything's going on in there and then maybe, just maybe I can relax and enjoy this pregnancy.

 

[shmoo75]

I know and this site is going to be down from Midnight for 6hrs-12hrs!!!!! Nooooooooooooooo!!!!! We need to know how are M2J is and her LO. I am really hoping it is good news and they are out celebrating.

I am still waiting to hear about the scan if I don't get the appointment in the post by the time I go to work on Mon I will phone the scan department up and ask when it is over the phone as, I need to know!!!!! I am also waiting to hear from the m/w as well as, my GP sent the referral over to them on Wed 25/11!!! Said if I haven't heard from them in a couple of wks to call them which, I will do on Thur 10/12 as long as I haven't had any bleeding that is. I feel sicky on/off but not enough to be sick I can just ignore it and it goes away, still peeing every hr, indegestion that is just in my throat and in the background not hurting just annoying and, my boobs hurt on and off as well. Seeing as I am a 34FF-34H(depending what make and style) they normally hurt throughout my cycles anyway even when I was on BCP. Hope we all have a lovely weekend especially M2J as, I think she needs one most of all.

 

[Lyns]

Ladies, I'm afraid to be the bearer of bad news. Our lovely M2J has not had good news again today. Her scan showed a baby but no heartbeat and again she has to go through the agony of waiting for a follow up scan. However she is 100% sure of her dates so there is really no hope on of this turning good, and she is already cramping.

The doctors have agreed to investigate this time, once its all 'over'.

She is of course devastated and has asked me to send her love and thanks to you all for caring, but she just can't face coming here for a while. She's, of course, very uincertain about the future.

I've sent her all our love and will keep in touch with her. Please send a little prayer of strength to North Wales tonight xxx

 

[NickyT75]

OMG!! how awful for her I dont know what to say im so sorry xx

 

[OmiOmen]

I feel so sad for her too, the third has to really be a braking point. Sending out my love and hugs!

 

[Poshie]

from us all to m2j tonight life is so cruel sometimes

 

[Lol78]

OMG. I'm so sad. I can't believe it. M2J, we're thinking of you and feel for you and your family so much.

Thanks Lyns for letting us know.

 

[samzi]

Its so unfair how bad things happen to good people

 

[shmoo75]

Life really is a shit sandwich at times! How dare mother nature do this to M2J for a 3rd time! I am so upset and angry for her I can hardly express it. FX she gets some answers as to why this has happened again. My thoughts, love, strength and courage is being sent M2J's way.

 

[MissyMojo]

big big hugs to M2J,

and https://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r124/kianryan/Baby%20dust/stickybabydust.gif

https://i247.photobucket.com/albums/gg157/dodge_girl_album/COL/babyduststickyvibes.jpg to you other ladies xx