seems like no hope for me even though I am only 37 (look more like 30) but my ovaries are more like 50 just went to a private clinic and after they looked at my FSh/AMH and the rest of it told me it is beginning of menopause and I have no time to lose if I want to use my own eggs, am so depressed. was also told that stimulated IVF wont work for me it's only natural cycle IVF. now I feel really bad that I wasted last couple of years trying to TTC naturally and improve my health with vitamins etc, nothing worked seems like my ovaries are aging so fast
HCG was 8. So not happy about that. Doc said to wait another cycle to "try". Waiting to hear from new doc on Tuesday. I was set to try as soon as AF stopped. The rollercoaster seems to never end.
Little rant here.. I'm Scottish & naturally quite socialist in my thinking... And I believe in equality for all people... BUT..
Today while shopping I had a woman behind me in a queue with 3 kids.. Ages approx 4, 2 & practically newborn. 4 yr old running a muck, 2 yr old in a double buggy screaming his head off, & newborn babe being clutched by mother.. Mother?? Well, she was kind of a state.. Rotten teeth, some of them missing, greasy hair, very very overweight.. And yelling at the 4yr old girl 'Olivia!! Olivia!! Get back here now!!!'.. Over & over..
God... I was trying hard not to be judgemental.. Bcos who am I to say who should or shouldn't have kids- but seriously- I could be snatched that new baby out of her arms & run with it.
God forgive me but I was looking at the mum thinking 'wot a mess, looks very unhealthy, but bcos shes probably 27 or 28 years old shes lucky enough to have three gorgeous little kids.. & simply bcos I'm 38 I'm struggling'
I know it's a terrible way to think.. She's probably a nice person.... But still..
Rant over : )
AFM, I had my CD3 check this morning. I was told I have a cyst and can't try this month. I wasn't even surprised. Somehow I knew. I'm disappointed, but I didn't cry and freak out like I did the last time this happened.
Mixed feelings about Princess Kate having her baby today. I'm thrilled for her and William, but it's put the whole baby thing on the front news 24/7 and it's hard not to think about my own situation with all of the royal baby talk going on.