6 DPO...& ...POAS until positive!

[mommaplus05]

Its kinda hard to say skull looks round and I didn't see a Turtle what did the tech say!?!!?

Tech said 85% sure its a boy..kimda sad that I was unable to give my husband a daughter but im glad its healthy. I saw wat looked to b a sack but not excactly a penisypenis yet. But we doin a rescan nxt wk to b sure..u think it cld turn to b a girl? Wat is w the skull bein round?

 

[Sis4Us]

They say if the skull is round girl but square boy but it needs to be done at 12wks!!
U had such high HCG numbers too just goes to show everyone and every Pregnancy is different!!

I too see the beans but no Frank so Idk hope u get a surprise next week!!

I know how ya feel I want a Girl too but I'm doubtful already!!

 

[Mom2sam]

Hey ladies hope everyone's well x

Nat ur not out until af & i'm guilty of testing early lol bn hvn same symtoms as i hd month i gt my bfp main one ths weird twinge going on on my left side & stil thr. Anyway tested today & i really thought i saw a very very faint pink second line within the 5 mins. Will b testing again tmrw so will see maybe its just in my head but i wasted a frer if not lol x

Petzy hope u ladies all feel better soon x

Talia one week already! I so miss those first couple of months (altho i dont miss the night & early morning feeds) lol but seriously they grow so fast cant beleive mines 7! Where did the time go i need me a new one nw haha x

 

[OurLilFlu]

Meg, we love her name and everyone so far has said the same, it's different, but very pretty. It's from Kurtis's moms side of the family, her maiden name is Van Rooijen, which is quite Dutch so we simplified the spelling. Kurtis's nana and Opa passed away within the last few years so it kind of commemorates the whole family. bf is going super well now, in the hospital it was like a two person job since we needed a nipple shield to latch and being such a big girl we had to supplement too. But a few days into being at home we dropped the shield and she's latching great and we haven't a used formula since the second day at home. She's lost a bit of weight which is normal and I'm sure she'll gain it back ASAP!

Very cute scan, it's really neat to see them at that size in 3D, not too convinced about the skull theory but that potty shit makes me lean boy but I think there could still be hope for some pink!
Meg, hope you get your results soon and I'm surprised they're doing your anatomy scan so early! I thought it was best at 18-20?

 

[Mom2sam]

9dpo tested BFN getting pre Af cramps & really feel af about to show. Onto next cycle then going to just wait for af now x

 

[Petzy]

Yeah Tal I thought 16 weeks was early too, but I trust them I suppose lol... I suppose I could always go back a few weeks later if they wanted me to.... doubt it though

Hoping for my Panorama results any day now... come on!!! I told them to email them to me too..

so glad the BF is going well - My friend is having a tough time with it poor thing... its not easy stuff! But she had a C section which makes things more complicated for milk coming in...

 

[Nataliieexo]

Sorry about the bfn sheena.

Meg and amanda you will be joining me in 2nd tri in a few days, i only have 3 and a half weeks left there, eek scary. x

 

[OurLilFlu]

Ya meg, if they can't get a few measurements you'll be back anyways, hopefully bean cooperates and you find out your panorama results soon! Ya bf is tough in the beginning, ESP w csection, I think my long labour helped though because my milk came in pretty well and while I was still in hosp! Hope it gets easier for her!
Sorry about the bfn sheena 9dpo is still early though...
Natalie I can't believe you're almost in third tri! Wow!

 

[Petzy]

Yeah wow almost third tri natalie! AHHH too nuts!!

Amanda - sweet little boy maybe, BUT i hope for your surprise its a little sweetie girl for you hehe.. happy and healthy all that matters of course, but i know it would be nice for you

I am still quite sure boy for me, but because everyone says that its bound to surprise and be a girl lol...

 

[Nataliieexo]

I know its so strange, i keep complaining its going so slow but when i think of how much i have to do, like sort our housing situation out (which i am no further forward with my current housing officer for my mams house is on leave tomorrow til the 16th so she wont be able to sit down with her manager til she gets back on the 16th, she told me if she doesnt contact me by the end of march to give her a ring, the end of march is too late for me, she might forget in that time, after she has sat with her manager and explained our situation, basically when my mam passed away my dad wasnt living with us and wasnt on the tennancy so the tennancy was automatically passed on to me, we all as a family when my mam had been in the coma and we nearly lost her decided my dad would move in, being pregnant i could do with the extra help and i would need to move out anyways and he would be there for her on nights and weekends, well we didnt have time to go down to the council and tell them he was moving in, well he has nowhere to go now, my sister doesnt want to live with me she wants to be with her dad obviously this is best for her shes already lost one parent she shouldnt be seperated from another, now we are in a big mess as she doesnt want to move, i do, my dad is happy to stay here with her so we are trying to sort something to get the tennancy transferred, if it can be done i can start looking for houses if it cant they are going to have to move out, which i feel awful for, but i cant help, but by the time she gets to sit down with her manager and talk it through i could have as little as 12-10 weeks left this is not enough time for either of us to find a house, it is so stressful, i try not to think of it so i don't get stressed out but i still end up thinking and stressing about it. I need a miracle and fast.

 

[mommaplus05]

Sorry ur struggling natalie.. fam issues n homing can be a real pain at times..hopefully u can find sum peace n rest during ur situation..ill yave ya in my thoughts hoping a quick solution comes ur way.

 

[natjenson]

Hiya ladies.

Hope you all is well.

13 ish dpo here....bfn this morning,,,,
Experiancing spotting in my cycles now...which has bummed me right out .boooo...

Natalie...hope that housing situation comes together...I know all too well house the housing accosiations can mess you about...I am having similar problems myself too ...waiting for a re banding here...at a c but need the b...
I hope you get your move soon love...and don't worry about time slipping through your hands...the more desperate you get for the housing the higher your chances are with getting your house.
I had words with the housing manager for the south west....she can go fuck herself.lol...
We have put in complaints about her and her attitude...
Peter works hard to pay our rent and she treated us like bums trying to srpcrew the system ....silly beyatch ...lol
Anyways....now that I have the ankylosing spondylitis they have to move us bc i can't manage 50 plus steps to out property every day multiple times aday...
They have already said my condition is chronic and fast progressing so I need to get out if here quick,...roll on the day where I finally get back to work and we have two wages so we can apply for a mortgage and have our very own house

Sick of waiting around for a system that clearly does not work and seeing the immigrants taking up our homes too...makes me really mad.
Oh well vent over

Sheena....sorry about your bfn love...hope there's still time for you dear.

Talia...sounds like your doing a fab job with the bf...
How is she sleeping now...?

Amanda? How are you doing these days? Are you feeling any better! I hopes so.

Ashley? How did your doctors apt go?

xxx

 

[mommaplus05]

Sorry stuff sounds like its in the crapper nat.. hope it gets better and boo to that stupid bfn..I am doin "better" far from good or great but better. Lol my stomach is finally healing and I can eat again but now I have b struck w a horrid sinus infection that has my whole face stopped up. Soooo not liking it at all. Blaaaa hope everyone else is doin well..ashley hows things hangin hun? Good I hope..natalie? Meg? Did u ever get ur results to reveal what u are having?

 

[Nataliieexo]

Nat my lady is nice but i have a feeling shes going to drag it out which does nothing for my nerves lol i mean shes had two 2 week holidays in 6 weeks if she has another when she gets back i'll have a breakdown lol well i was hoping to be band one and have a choice of places to live if i get priority i have to take what im giving and i am hoping to still be near my sister and dad because she will still need me. We are thinking of going private but we have to wait no matter what for the tennancy decision so either way a long wait, i know alot of people have that idea of council tennancys my dad works and pays the rent obviously in the past 4 months i havent been in the best state to be working but she was really nice to us and really wants to help us and its lovely of her i wish i had made the call to her earlier but really housing wasnt my priority now it is, ive had to race ahead and buy most of little mans things incase i need to pay for a bond to go private when the time comes. I could really do with my mams helps right now she'd be able to help me, sorry about the bfn this cycle and the spotting any news with the fertility specialist? Xx

 

[OurLilFlu]

Ugh natalie that sounds so stressful! I have no idea how your housing stuff works over there but it seems complicated and frustrating! Hopefully they get their act together and figure something out for you soon. Same with you Nat, sounds like your place is definitely not ideal for your situation!
Also, sorry about the spotting, they checked your progesterone right? How was it? Hope you get some answers on that soon. Boo to the bfn, that witch needs a kick!
Amanda, wow you're having a rough go!! I hope all these bugs an pg symptoms leave you the hell alone for the rest of it! You've put in your time of being yucky and now you deserve that glow and all then other positive things!
Hope everyone else pipes up this morning, getting some activity on this thread lol

 

[Petzy]

Natalie.. so sorry you are going through a stressful situation at home.. i really hope it gets sorted out for you and you can have some stability there. The home is a sacred thing isnt it.. I really hope its decided for you soon so that you can rest assured... Where does OH live right now??

Amanda - No results yet!! I re did the test last monday which is 7 business days... they say 10 business days so fack i hope i get them this week.. its been so frustrating after paying all that money!! glad you are doing better

Talia.. how are you doing hun?? hows sweetie pie Royan?

I am slowly getting better.. longest bug of my life its just brutal cant wait to feel healthy again!!

changes happening at my job too... employer trying to oust me after 8 years.. more on that later.. xx

 

[OurLilFlu]

Ooh meg what's going on with your job, stand your ground they can't get rid of you that easily, ESP being pregnant!! That's infuriating after being there so long... Keep us updated!

 

[Nataliieexo]

Thanks everyone, and meg hes had to go back with his mam for the time being as the place he had was cold and crap no place for a baby plus they wanted way more rent than it was worth, he has called up and been accepted for a place but im starting to see he isnt to good at the cost, side of things its a bit out of our price range so he went back there for now, its easier than him stay here as we would end up getting under each others feet to much here my bedroom is already covered in little mans things the extra money we save being with our parents is handy for saving towards our house, i am going to take over the house hunting when i get this situation sorted out i will feel better if i do it haha, when he decided to move back with his mum it was shortly after my mam passed away all my family were in a bad place he comes and stays here but there really isnt alot to do here whereas at his mums he has his brothers to spend time with and his precious xbox lol hes so eager for us to get a place im feeling a little pressure to be honest because i feel like if it doesnt go as i hope its going to be a big let down all round for him, my family and me but only time will tell with that outcome, i hope you get your results this week im looking forward to hearing pink or blue

 

[Petzy]

Natalie - How are you doing today hun? Hope you are feeling better XO

Tal - hows the baby and yourself? is she sleeping a lot?

Amanda - how you feeling?

Nat - BFN I know but we are here for you and I loveeeeee your new profile pic you look adorbs. I know its an older one but its a goodie!

Ash/Shanta - how you doing girls? Who did I miss?

Still no panorama results!!! I better get them by the weekend!!! Or heads are gonna roll haha...

I went to see my Family doctor today for a checkup and she did a physical too (boo!) haha.. but she said my IPS screening ultrasound and blood went fine so there is nothing to be concerned about thus far.. thats good news. I also heard the baby heartbeat and she was it was right on, so thats good too!

As for my work situation.. its a NIGHTMARE, I am being bullied, harassed, after 8 years of employment.. i have decided to go on sick leave, before Mat leave, in about 8 weeks and obviously my employer does not know about this... so i just need to bide my time until then. And in the meantime, if she does fire me, i will get 8 weeks severance so its all the same to me...i wouldn't go suing her or anything or filing labour complaint because i have no intention of coming back here after mat leave so there would be no point really... i dont think it would be worth the huge hassle it would become. I cannot wait to be done with this stressful toxic environment.

 

[crazy84]

Hey girlies!!! how is everyone?!! Hope all is well!!!
The doctor said birth control should get everything back on track for me!! We are planning a big vacation to vegas in July so I am very ok with the birth control ! After vegas maybe i will get off of it and start trying again! I won't start using it until next cycle... I told hubby I am so excited about Vegas and don't want to be pregnant when we go, that this cycle will probably be when it happens! Hahahaha
I love reading about you lovely girls! I feel like after all these cycles I have friends in you all!! So I will most certainly be checking in very often!!