A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[lexi374]

Nicki everyone in nhs is sceptical about nk cells but most have heard about it. I hope you get some answers from your tests.

Soop sorry if you are out hun. x

 

[Emmediva]

Lexi, wow your maternity leave sounds awesome!! I'll be lucky if I get 8 weeks LOL. I will probably try to take it around 37 -38 weeks if I start dilating, I'm in such pain in my pelvic area I can barely walk sometimes. Baby is already in position and sometimes I feel such pressure from him pushing down

Soop, sorry if you're out, I know how frustrating TTC is

Nicki, I hope you get answers from your coming tests. Every new test is progress

Monro, glad you got MS, like I said I barely had it if any in reality like 5 days throughout my pregnancy LOL. I count myself very lucky

How is everyone else? Hope all is ok.

AFM, I will need a wheel chair soon I can barely walk sometimes, the pain in my inner thighs/groin/pelvic area is bad at times I feel like I've done the split and multiple reps of inner thigh excercises. It's worse after sitting at work, I am more comfortable laying down with pillows between my legs. But hey anything for my lil bub

 

[monro84]

Soop---Yes I will be returning to work full time so I will have to figure out a babysitter or daycares very soon after but daycare is so expensive average is 300 to 400/ month. And that is Dh's busiest time of yr. So sorry your getting darker spotting I am still parying it's IB. I wish I did have longer I could take longer but I would not get paid.

NTAT--I was figuring that also but what is weird is my mom loved princess Di and Harry is a few weeks older then me and if we make it to term then I am figuring she is a few weeks farther then me so her baby would be a few weeks older then mine. Kinda silly but I though it was pretty cool.

Nicki--so far so good will know more next Mon. Glad AF finally arrived for you I know I hat that waiting game after a MC. I really hope you find answers soon.

thurl--So far the MS is not bad today just when I woke up still have not thrown up just gagging when brushing my teeth and nausa. I would even be happy to have it as bad as I did with the twins/triplets I did not throw up but once or twice then but I had constant nausa feeling and could not eat anything but chetos, carrots, any kind of potatos (mashed, baked, fried), or powerded dounuts. The thought of anything else made me nausas.
Your chart looks good it says you O'd on Sat but did you take an opk then also or was your first opk sunday?

Emme--MS not so bad today but still waiting for it to come in full force.

 

[thurl30]

Hi Monro, yes I took an OPK Saturday, the cheap ones were reasonably dark but the digi was negative, so took the digi Sunday morning again and it was positive, I know I didn't O on Saturday but flippin FF makes up it's own mind sometimes, I don't have any temp rise yet which has upset me a bit x

Emme bless you it sounds horrible, but just focus on those few weeks you have left, the time will fly x

 

[lexi374]

Monro we get good maternity but you are def doing better for daycare! The nursery i work in (which i wont be able to take my child!) is £210 per week!! and we are 1 of the cheapest in town, the 1 at the hospital is around £275!! So £800-£1000 per month for full time nursery place here!!

Emme sorry you are in so much pain, i try and put pillows between my legs at bedtime, but i spend most of the night uncomfy and fidgeting.

Had a check up with midwife today, not my usual 1, but 1 i saw with my 1st pregnancy, when i was bleeding with that she totally fobbed me off, and was like yeah dont worry, i cant stand her..... anyway for the first time ive had + glucose in my urine, she said its cos i ate an hour before i did sample but ive done that every other time and its never been a problem. I dunno i just dont trust her!

 

[thurl30]

Lexi sorry to hear what happened, what does that mean now then? do you need to do another glucose test? I felt like that with the doctor I was seeing when I had my last miscarriage, I avoid her at all costs now x

 

[lexi374]

I havent had a glucose test just urine dipped. She wasnt bothered, but after a quick google you can develop GD at anytime even this late. I might drop another sample into docs tom and see if someone will dip it cos my next appointment is 2 weeks away and i'll be stressing til then!

 

[thurl30]

Oh right I see, yep that sounds like a plan, the last thing you need is a couple of weeks worrying about this when you already have so much on x

 

[Nicki123]

Emme - hate to hear that you're in so much pain, ouch! Just keep thinking about that end result

Monro - I agree with Lexi, those childcare costs sound so cheap compared to here. My friends pay around £900 a month for a full time place. Maybe that's why we need better mat leave! Hope you're feeling ok .

Thurl - I've never used ff but it sounds very frustrating to have contrasting advice ... Hope you just got in lots of BDing anyway

Lexi that nurse sounds awful. Ugh.

 

[monro84]

thurl--is is possible you O'd on Mon when that dip was.

Lexi--Wow that is high I think the highest is probably 1000 a month but I am sure that is like a prep school private daycare and I don't know of any around my area. 1000 a month that is 12000 a yr that is more then what the private school in my area charges for elementary and highschool
I have had glucose in my pee before but that was before I was pregnant and I was being tested for a UTI. I really think I am borderline diabetic b/c everytime they take my suger it has always been in the 90's but no one has ever mentioned anything about being concerned about it so I have never gone further with it. I am going to guess that I will have GD though. What will happen this late in pregnancy if you do?

Emme--Just think less than 60 days now is all you have to tollerate and you will have a beautiful baby boy in your arms and it wil all be worth the achs and pains.

Nicki--That is crazy high for daycare Still doing ok so far. Thanks hope af was not a total Bit*h.

AFM--today (6 wks 4 days) is the same day the baby passed last time I made it this far. Last time I heard the HB at 6 wks 1 day. However last time I lost my symptoms the same day. I woke up my boobs were not as sore and I had an appitite back and I knew something was wrong. Today I woke up boobs still sore maybe not as sore as yestarday but still very sore. Almost thew up burshing my teeth. Still have a nausas feeling to like something is touching the back of my throat. And still tired. I really feel the baby is still ok but I am still going to be scared till I go back next monday and there is a strong HB.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Monro - hope this means you'll get your baby around the same time as Kate then. Fxd eh

Thurl - gets lots of bd in and then you're covered for O anyway

Lexi - thanks again for your answers. I feel empowered now that I CAN beat this crap... and check this out.....

https://i1073.photobucket.com/albums/w388/sarahhibbert/DE7FDFA4-C232-4F9E-8F94-9F602B5FD3F6-10392-000009F52536DDD7.jpg

Think it's a definite for me soon, CBFM went to peak too.


Now where's hubby.......

 

[lexi374]

Oooh jump him NTAT!

 

[NewToAllThis]

I will when he comes in from the garage

Just having a leisurely bath first.

 

[monro84]

Go get your on catch that eggy

 

[Emmediva]

NTAT, go get the egg!!! Rape him twice today and twice tomorrow to cover your bases. Get him lots of oysters LOL.

 

[lexi374]

 

[Nicki123]

Good line NTAT!! Have a bonktastic few days

 

[NewToAllThis]

Good line NTAT!! Have a bonktastic few days

Bonktastic.... I like it

 

[monro84]

So last night had cramping but not bad. I woke up this morning and my boobs were hardly sore still felt kind nausas so I freaked out and am not at my ob hopfully he will give me an US and there will be a nice strong HB

 

[NewToAllThis]

Aww, sorry you're freaking out - its horrible isn't it. But symptoms do come and go.
Hope you get to hear the hb to put your mind at ease