A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[mommylov]

Im going to start temping everyday just to give me an idea of what my body is now doing with all of these meds.

How are you holding up?

 

[mommylov]

:wave: and and to you all!

 

[BeachChica]

Mommylov - that's great about the temping. I really look forward to taking mine and analyzing my chart! I am doing good, just down to spotting today. I have my follow-up appt with my OB tomorrow so hopefully I will get the green light to start trying again.

 

[mommylov]

I hope so too beach! Fx for you!

 

[Nicki123]

Hi Mommylov. Good luck with temping, there will be lots of ladies on here who will enjoy helping you analyse your chart. I have just noticed you have a journal so will pop over and say hi later :wave:

Beach, glad things are easing off for you. I hope the apt goes well and you can get back on the ttc wagon straight away.

Afm, am in the unusual position of hoping I did NOT get pg this month, I had on Monday and kind of lost track where I was in my cycle, turns out I was cd14 and I'm pretty sure I ovd yesterday (cd15) if the pain was anything to go by. Really want to get my hysteroscopy out of the way first. Oh well I can't imagine I'd be that lucky (or unlucky depending how you look at it!)

 

[monro84]

momylov--yay for progesterone being higher. I also see the temp went up after the dip so maybe that did mean implantation I had it on 3 of my bfp charts https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/211e52 (I can only show 2 my subscription ran out).. Have you tested any or are you waiting to see if af comes?

MrsWindor--So sorry that you find your self here but your in good company and there is great support on here. Has they done any test to find out why your not getting af for a yr?

Nicki--Oh no well you know that if you do then it might be a good thing. I have heard of stories of women carring full term

Beach--Hoping dr gives you Ok to start ttc again asap.


AFM--Well scan was good US tech tried to look but said baby was breech and it was hard to get a good look. I did the cervix ck (it was 3.48 so they said thats good) and she looked then too we would have been able to see it if baby had moved its foot but not luck dr said will probably get another one at 20 wks. Baby heart rate was 143 but it was not very active and did get some good head/profile shots.
Through the skull theory so far I have been getting boy guesses. But nub is basically all girl.

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Untitled by monro15, on Flickr
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Untitled by monro15, on Flickr

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ladies, I dont feel it this month at all. I think my temp is on its way down and AF should be here by this weekend.

Hope you girls are doing well and having a good day/night

 

[mommylov]

Had light pink spotting just now, af is on her way

 

[Nicki123]

Lovely scan pics Monro. You must be so happy.

Sorry if AF is on her way Mommylov.

Afm, got the date for my hysteroscopy yesterday. 15th April - when I'm planning to be on holiday. They asked me if there were any dates I couldn't do and I went back to them and said not 12th - 20th April. So they ignored that. DH and i looked at the diary yesterday and there is no other week thats good for a holiday - so much going on. Oh well will have to call the hospital today to try and move it!

 

[monro84]

mommylov--I saw your temp went up hoping that spotting is implantation. That witch better stay away.

Nicki--Yes it is such a relief. Now only if I could find out what it is so I can start buying necessary thing for it. Even though I can still buy diapers and wipes and all that fun stuff I still do not want to buy anything till I find out. I guess it will seem real to me then. It does seem real now but in a different way. I still have not felt any real kicks yet only bubbles/flutters/vibrations that is probably the baby. I know its still to early and you don't start feeling good movement till 18 to 20 wks so I am not too worried about it. My DH wants to wait till March the 5th to find out no real reason its just he wants to make sure that it is a boy or girl at that time and the farther along the better however I tried to tell him that 18 wks is far enough along (even though we tried at 16 wks and a foot was in the way). He does not want to listen . . Dr says 20 wks but that will interfer with his turkey hunting lol. I say sometime in last week of Feb.
Don't you hate when dr's and hosptials do that so sorry for the inconvience but maybe you can get it earlier b/c of it hopefully.

 

[mommylov]

Monroe, I was really surprised by that! I still think af is on her way. I in no way feel pregnant at all. Even have been testing everyday and just keep getting . I only saw that little bit of pink yesterday and havent seen anything since but I believe the same thing happened to me last month. I wasnt on Clomid last month and this was my 1st cycle taking it so things have been throwing me for a loop. I stopped my progesterone yesterday and thought that couldve done it but then I would see a decrease in temp not rise... so confused. Woke with really really bad af like cramps this morning and went to the restroom and nothing. Just went to the restroom right now and nothing so this is similar to last month and af

 

[BeachChica]

Great pics Monroe – took bad you weren’t able to get a peek at the gender.

Mommylov – I am excited that your temps went up, I hope that was just an implantation dip for you! Stay on the progesterone until you get AF. It’s never stopped AF for me.

AFM - I had a couple appointments on Wednesday - one with the urologist about the blood in my urine. Got to see the inside of my bladder - how exciting!! LOL Everything seems to be normal. They did send a urine sample for additional testing but she said that 35% of the population has trace amounts of blood in their urine and it’s normal. She thinks that's the case with me. I also had my U/S, blood work, and follow-up with the doc. It seems I have passed everything on my own and my HcG is down to less than 2. They want me to wait 1 normal period before TTC again. I also brought all my prior labs from the RE so the doctor was going to look over those and see if she could see anything that was missed.

 

[mommylov]

Last month I took the progesterone, I too still had af come but this time I just knew there was no point and that I wasnt pregnant. Its almost like this was the "test" cycle with me starting Clomid and not being able to BD when we wanted. It was really wierd and hard to not be able to until we got the ok from the dr and then once we did, we bd for three days and then I have to start Crinone which doesnt make you want to BD with that stuff all up in there. I hope this cycle brings us better luck.

Im really glad to hear that your HCG went down to below 2! Also really glad that your dr is taking a look at EVERYTHING to make sure they dont miss anything. Im really hoping that this next time you ttc will be a nice sticky bun for you. Seeing as how you get pregnant easy, Im sure you will get pregnant the next cycle you try! Sending lots of POS and sticky vibes to you!

Daily & to everyone!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Selfish post I'm sorry as should really be sleeping seeing as I'm up at 5am tomorrow but just wanted to tell you all!

My news, apart from being 12 weeks tomorrow and flying off to Spain for a week is that I borrowed a doppler off a good BnB friend and I think I found the hb (if only momentarily). I tried it this afternoon when it arrived but I think I got myself worked up and panicked a bit. I heard the placenta whooshing but no hb.
Tonight before bed, I tried again and after studying my own hb and concentrating on the area around where I'd heard the placenta, I found it. It was only 5 seconds or so and registered at 140 (but the numbers were a bit all over the place and DH was holding the display unit) I heard it, it definitely sounded like my heartbeat, only much faster.
I don't know why I'm doubting it, it couldn't have been anything else really.

I'm amazed

 

[BeachChica]

NTAT - that's great news! Are you taking the doppler with you on your trip? I am sure it will be reassuring to check the HB here and there. I hear other girls say that its hard to find the HB at the beginning so don't worry, you will get better at it with time!

I can't remember if you said, but where are you going in Spain? I was born there (left when I was 5) but went back as an adult this past year to Barcelona and had a fabulous time!

 

[Nicki123]

Great news about the doppler. Have a wonderful holiday NTAT.

So I'm feeling a bit upset right now. I got this email from prof Q today

"The team had studied the biopsy taken by Prof Brosens however, unfortunately despite looking at it *very thoroughly there was not enough tissue for us to give you and NK cell count. However, Prof Brosens felt that your medical history was such that you need treatment to support your next pregnancy"

It is just so annoying, I paid good money for the biopsy, had to go all the Way to Coventry and go through a painful procedure all for nothing. I just want to know the results.

Sure I'll perk up tomorrow but feeling fed up about it right now.

Beach roll on next month for ttc x

 

[NewToAllThis]

DH doesn't want me to take the doppler, I may ask again in the morning though, he might have changed his mind now that he heard the hb too.

I'm going to a village called Ciudad Quesada which is slap bang between Alicante and Torrevieja. We fly into Alicante and its about a half hour drive. Have been 3 times over the past 4 years as my cousin and her family used to borrow a friends villa over the summer but how they've bought their own so we're off to see it. It sounds amazing, a 4 bed detached villa with its own large pool and a separate 1 bed apartment in the grounds (where we're staying).

I can't wait to chill for a bit as I'm so tired lately.

I hope you're doing ok

 

[NewToAllThis]

Great news about the doppler. Have a wonderful holiday NTAT.

So I'm feeling a bit upset right now. I got this email from prof Q today

"The team had studied the biopsy taken by Prof Brosens however, unfortunately despite looking at it *very thoroughly there was not enough tissue for us to give you and NK cell count. However, Prof Brosens felt that your medical history was such that you need treatment to support your next pregnancy"

It is just so annoying, I paid good money for the biopsy, had to go all the Way to Coventry and go through a painful procedure all for nothing. I just want to know the results.

Sure I'll perk up tomorrow but feeling fed up about it right now.

Beach roll on next month for ttc x

Oh Nicki, that's awful I would be complaining and asking for a refund

Sounds like she wants to treat you anyway, but that's not the point!
You need to know that that is definitely your issue before you start taking meds willy nilly.

I'm so sorry hun

 

[Nicki123]

Thanks Yeah I'll be asking for a repeat procedure at no extra cost (except the train fair I'll have to pay for AGAIN) or failing that a refund. The leaflet does not mention the possibility of not getting enough tissue. DH said he'll come with me this this time but that's 2x extra train fares that I'd just rather not spend, half a day off work and more waiting... Not a happy bunny this evening.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Thanks Yeah I'll be asking for a repeat procedure at no extra cost (except the train fair I'll have to pay for AGAIN) or failing that a refund. The leaflet does not mention the possibility of not getting enough tissue. DH said he'll come with me this this time but that's 2x extra train fares that I'd just rather not spend, half a day off work and more waiting... Not a happy bunny this evening.

Do you know what, she mentioned to me whilst doing my biopsy that she was concerned she wouldn't be able to get enough tissue due to my thin lining (which I was aware of) so she made an extra special effort to get enough. I would ask for her to do it this time, and not her "trainee" (I know he's not, but!)

I would mention your travelling costs, no harm - she may give you a partial refund for the inconvenience.

Argh, I'm so annoyed for you honey