A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Sooperhans]

Sorry Beach, I didn't see your post on my phone. Shit, I'm so so sorry I'm pleased they will continue to monitor you, do they know what happened? Why it may have happened? :'( big to you xxx

 

[BeachChica]

No, they don't know and this one is too early for them to be able to test any tissue. I am glad its sooner rather than later but I really wish these would stop happening. I mean, my eggs can't all be bad, right?

 

[Nicki123]

Hi Beach - so so sorry my lovely. You deserve a break and hopefully sooner rather than later... Massive massive and we are here for you.

I like to think the early mcs are just bad implanters and 'bad luck' and nothing to do with bad eggs or whatever. I don't know why, it makes me feel better to think that, but what I'm saying is please don't think all your eggs are bad. There will be some good ones there that will get their timing right eventually, I am hopeful of that.

Thinking of you Beach x

 

[lexi374]

Beach im so sorry. No i dont believe all your eggs are bad at all. xx

Mommylov we are doing well thank you just looking at baby swim classes dh wants to take her which will be good bonding for them x

 

[mommylov]

Beach, I am so sorry to hear hun This just breaks my heart. I know they cant test the tissue or anything but are there anymore tests they can run to see what is causing you to mc early? Maybe endo? I hope they can find out whats going on and get it fixed. Big hugs babe

Lexi, how cute! That sounds like it would be great for baby and daddy!

 

[NewToAllThis]

Beach - I'm so sorry if its any consolation, my last loss was like that, just don't think it stuck but 2 months later, here I am and do far this one is doing just fine

Soop - puppy pics you'll never look back, he will change your life forever. I got my dog after my second loss and he is my baby and I love him dearly. The puppy stage is hard, I won't lie but you'll get there and the rewards are endless

Lexi - glad you and baby are doing well. You need to take your ticker off as you're showing as 45 weeks pregnant I'm sure you haven't got time for that at the moment though

Nicki - nice to hear you sounding so positive - keep it up

Hi to everyone else.

I'm hanging on in here, feeling rough but not complaining (much)

 

[thurl30]

Beach I'm so so sorry to hear what's happening, you truly deserve a break from this, I'm thinking of you hun

Soop the puppy sounds like fun, fingers crossed that your late af doesn't turn in to an af, do you know how many dpo you are?

Lexi your little lady is gorgeous, so glad you are all doing well

Nicki have you been to Cyprus before? I can't recommend it enough, I have an album on my facebook you can look at, although a lot of the pics are me boozing there are a few of Cyprus itself

Hope everyone else is doing ok

 

[wookie130]

Oh, Beach. I'm so effin' sorry...that is certainly not the news I was hoping to hear from you.

Have you ever had any chromosomal/genetics testing done between you and your DH? That may point in the direction of some answers...

 

[Nicki123]

Thanks Thurl I will check out your (boozy ) Cyprus pics!

Night to everyone and extra big to Beach x

 

[mommylov]

Gnight Nicki!

 

[BeachChica]

Thanks girls!

Yes Wookie- DH and I have all sorts of RMC testing including chromosomes on both of us. Nothing to indicate why this keeps happening. The only issues that came out of the testing is low homocysteine and low progesterone. Both of which I take supplements for (although I wasn't very good about taking them this cycle because I was sort of NTNP. I don't know, the MCs that were tested were also both different issues. I was seeing an RE for over a year and they just chalk it up to bad luck.

 

[kmp]

Beach I was just catching up and so disappointed to hear the news. My heart really goes out to you as I know how hard two losses were. Just know it will all be worth it one day. Not to pester you with any more ?'s as it seems you have good drs., but have they considered doing anything like IVF where they can do testing on embryo's before they are "put in". I know it is often a last resort and you don't fit the typical profile as you don't have trouble getting pregnant, but maybe it would be successful since the embryos would be given a thorough check. Just a thought as I hate to see you go through this...

 

[kmp]

To the pregnant women farther along then me...WHEN DOES THE TIME START TO GO BY FASTER?!! Believe me, I try to cherish every day as I finally have everything I ever wanted, but I feel like its been MONTHS and yet I am only 8 weeks!

 

[NewToAllThis]

To the pregnant women farther along then me...WHEN DOES THE TIME START TO GO BY FASTER?!! Believe me, I try to cherish every day as I finally have everything I ever wanted, but I feel like its been MONTHS and yet I am only 8 weeks!

Awful isn't it. It's not going quick for me yet, it's dragging day by day.

I just try and take it a day at a time. 12 weeks still seems like a lifetime away.

Hang on in there

 

[Sooperhans]

Hey Beach, I agree with Kmp, is there any way they can look into IVF with you? I hope you are doing ok today x

Went to acu last night, she said there's no indication in my pulses to suggest I might be pg. Great. And my spleen is low, like really low. She recommended a Zita West book to look at diet a bit more and other factors to help me more alkaline and receptive. So I go home a bit upset, as she said it doesn't feel like af is on the way either. I don't know why my body just can't function properly. Then dh questions everything she has said and says I shouldn't be coming home upset and then questioned what she is doing to really help as there hasn't been results as yet. So we argue a bit and I'm getting more upset.

Just tired today x

 

[Nicki123]

Oh Soop - I have to agree a bit with your DH in that acu should be making you feel positive, not upset. I always used to feel amazing after acu. I think it's probably against some sort of ethics to say she thinks you're pg or not, I know my acu lady would not comment on it. I had a friend who's acu lady told her she knew my friend was pg before she did, but she only said that after her BFP as she didn't want to take that moment away from her.
If you think she is good in other respects it might be worth asking her to refrain from pg comments and try and say more positive stuff. Maybe your spleen is low but did she say any positives like how other parts of you had been responding well?
I'm not totally sure how acu works but for me the major benefit was I really liked my acu lady, we had a lovely chat at the beginning of each session and she always made me feel so relaxed and happy, and knew how to say just the right thing. If she's not doing that it might be worth trying out someone else?

 

[Sooperhans]

Thanks Nicki x I must admit I was a bit surprised, I didn't think she would be able to tell anything conclusively. I only said it was a bit confusing. Then she said to stay positive etc. Don't feel it today! Also I think she wants to help with the whole diet stuff but it does make me worry I must be eating the wrong stuff or something. Urgh, don't know what yo think x

 

[Ladyfog]

Beach, so sorry, that really is shit news Still, an early loss is less likely to mess up your cycle so as soon as you feel ready you can get back to TTC again Look at NSN, she got Louis after an early loss

Soop

KMP and NTAT, believe me it'll fly by at the end!! the first 12 weeks are the worst

Nicky - enjoy your holiday, I'd love to escape to the sunshine right now!

AYC - Looking forward to baby news soon!

Hi everyone else

Just starting to get everything ready for Elsa's op, have ordered new sleep suits and also need gloves and socks for when she's covered in wires and we can just keep each end warm! I think someone asked if we can stay with her - the answer is yes, both me and DH for the first 4 nights and then it'll just be me. I don't think I'd cope if I wasn't near her. Will keep you posted of any news.

 

[monro84]

mommylov---oh sorry got you mixed up with someone else on the low sperm count then. Well whats good is that you get pregnant pretty easily. That was me since the first time i was pregnant. The times when we were trying there was a max of a 4 month span and I was pregnant by that 4th month. Had to quit trying after the twin/triplet mc Oct 2011 and started back trying in April 2012 was pregnant in July but mc at 5 wks then got prgnant with this one in Nov. FX this is your month.

ayclobes--Can't wait for pic!!!

Soop--Awe a puppy will definately be good for you. I have 2 black labs that are my babies. 1 is almost 12 and the other is her son and he is fixing to turn 6. Soop so sorry but maybe she is wrong? Are you sure you O'd when the opk's were positive or maybe you geared to O but did not and O'd later . I know I see you use to temp maybe that would be more accurate

Beach-- So sorry . But don't say the your heading to the double digit mc club you still have a ways before you get there and I am praying next time you will get your sticky bfp. Yours sounds like the same kind I had in July a late bfp then I mc at 5 wks 1 day. I really believe it was b/c of the late implanter I think mine implanted on 13 dpo or 14 dpo. But then I had this one to implant on 9dpo and it stuck. So I bet the next one will be a regular implanter and it will stick. Maybe it has been bad luck and the next one will be your sticky baby.

kmp--lady is right the 1st 12 wks omg was soo slow. However I was never sure when 2nd tri started b/c I had people telling me 12 wks but some apps said 13 or 14 wks so that was confusing (I still believe it was 12). After 12 it went by kinda fast until you get close to finding out then it gets slow again. My dr probably will not do a gender scan till 18 to 20 wks but I got a call in to talk about that. I have an appt for a cervix scan next monday and i will be 16 wks so I was going to see if maybe they could have a peek then. But I feel like that after I find out what I am having it will go alot faster untill probably 30 wks it will slow down b/c you will be anxious for baby to get here. I AM NOT A PATIENT PERSON lol.

Lady- GL with everything.

 

[mommylov]

Monro, sounds like I am just like you with my pregnancies being 4 months apart . I sure hope that we are able to conceive a healthy lo this month. Im begining to think Clomid is an evil drug in that it makes you feel pregnant. I feel like I am starting to have symptoms like cramping and what not and Im only 4-5dpo. EVIL I tell you!!!! I really hope to join you pregnant ladies soon!