A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[BeachChica]

Mpepe - Good luck tonight!!

 

[Neversaynever]

Thanks AJ

Mpepe...get those rudies in

XxX

 

[patiently]

NSN!! im so happy that the bleeding has stopped, fingers crossed all is ok will be crossing everything for you this weekend!!

Beach - glad your getting support from your dr!!

mpepe - good luck tonight have funn!!!

AJ - it must be hard to see it daily especially because you work with children on a daily basis...hope you get your bfp real soon too!

NTAL how are you doing?

HI to everyone else hope your all doing fabulously!!

AFM I try not to give up hope but im so tired of seeing BFN's i took another test a minute ago and its still negative so...i really feel like im out...today i went to get my prescription for clomid so hopefully ill have my bfp soon!!! argh this whole process is driving me crazy!!! feel like packing it all in! have no job no money and most important no baby!!! argh!! i need a holiday!

 

[lexi374]

Just waiting - it was scarring from surgery from ovarian cancer 11 years ago. They removed one ovary and tube but left the other. So the ovary had a bit of scarring on it which she says may or may not have caused the 2 mc. Here's hoping as this is my week to dance! Wishing everyone luck. Nsn still thinking of you!

Lexi and patiently - I teach grade primary and so totally agree with you that it's so unfair that some can just get pregnant like that without even wanting them. I see it everyday. It's heart wrenching and maddening all at the same time.

I work in a nursery, so i see it all the time too. Makes this whole thing so much harder doesn't it?!

Mpepe get

Nsn keeping my fingers crossed for you

Im feeling moody today, tired generally and tired of ttc!! Oh well im sure in a week or so ill be back in the saddle again! x

 

[lexi374]

NSN!! im so happy that the bleeding has stopped, fingers crossed all is ok will be crossing everything for you this weekend!!

Beach - glad your getting support from your dr!!

mpepe - good luck tonight have funn!!!

AJ - it must be hard to see it daily especially because you work with children on a daily basis...hope you get your bfp real soon too!

NTAL how are you doing?

HI to everyone else hope your all doing fabulously!!

AFM I try not to give up hope but im so tired of seeing BFN's i took another test a minute ago and its still negative so...i really feel like im out...today i went to get my prescription for clomid so hopefully ill have my bfp soon!!! argh this whole process is driving me crazy!!! feel like packing it all in! have no job no money and most important no baby!!! argh!! i need a holiday!

I think im feeling in the same kinda mood as you today! You're not out yet though.

Maybe a holiday somewhere would be a good idea if you can afford it, and i bet as soon as you book 1 you'll end up pregnant! x

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi ladies

NSN - I hope you're holding up OK - that's such crap news if it's all over so soon . Hopefully the blood tests will be come back OK after all

Lexi - sorry the showed up but onwards and upwards and onto next month eh?

Patiently - don't count yourself out just yet, 10dpo really is very early to POAS. It's not over until AF shows but if she does.

Hi everyone else and welcome anyone new

AFM, had to go to Drs to today as got in a bit a panic as woke up and ALL my symptoms had gone I hadn't felt right last night and but just thought it would be different in the morning but it wasn't - no sickness no tender boobs, nothing. It's just so weird as was in bed feeling grotty early on Wednesday . I did an HTP just for reassurance but was horrified when the line was really faint. I took another one and the line was a bit better but not as strong as when I first tested at 16dpo. She's booked me into the EPAU - the earliest appt is Tuesday at 9.30 so I've got to wait it out. I think some of the symptoms have returned as I have a funny taste in my mouth again and my nipples are a bit tender, so desperately hoping it all worry for nothing and that MS will come back with a vengeance soon. It just feels like something has changed inside, I can't explain it but it doesn't feel good . How can things change so quickly?

 

[lexi374]

lady - thinking of you and hoping for the best, had you drank alot when you poas this time? They do say symptoms come and go alot in early pregnancy so hopefully its just that, and you will be back feeling yucky again soon xxx

 

[Ladyfog]

Thanks Lexi Also been doing some reading about the hook effect on hpts and hoping this could explain the lighter line.

 

[lexi374]

I had to google that, id never heard of it before! x

 

[Ladyfog]

possibly clutching at straws but it would explain by the HPT was stronger after my morning cup of tea!

Realised the postman had been and delivered the letter from the hospital today for my early scan - it's on Monday. When the Dr rang them this morning they had no record of it! I'm going to call them tomorrow to check it's still OK for me to go to that one instead of the EPAU on Tuesday.

 

[RaspberryMini]

possibly clutching at straws but it would explain by the HPT was stronger after my morning cup of tea!

Realised the postman had been and delivered the letter from the hospital today for my early scan - it's on Monday. When the Dr rang them this morning they had no record of it! I'm going to call them tomorrow to check it's still OK for me to go to that one instead of the EPAU on Tuesday.

I felt pretty much fine most of the weekend except tiredness. I think it's normal to have good and bad days. I'll be keeping everything crossed for you, though I'm sure you'll be ok xxx

 

[patiently]

Hi ladies


Patiently - don't count yourself out just yet, 10dpo really is very early to POAS. It's not over until AF shows but if she does.

AFM, had to go to Drs to today as got in a bit a panic as woke up and ALL my symptoms had gone I hadn't felt right last night and but just thought it would be different in the morning but it wasn't - no sickness no tender boobs, nothing. It's just so weird as was in bed feeling grotty early on Wednesday . I did an HTP just for reassurance but was horrified when the line was really faint. I took another one and the line was a bit better but not as strong as when I first tested at 16dpo. She's booked me into the EPAU - the earliest appt is Tuesday at 9.30 so I've got to wait it out. I think some of the symptoms have returned as I have a funny taste in my mouth again and my nipples are a bit tender, so desperately hoping it all worry for nothing and that MS will come back with a vengeance soon. It just feels like something has changed inside, I can't explain it but it doesn't feel good . How can things change so quickly?

hope you're feeling ok now...i have heard that symptoms come and go but its understandable that you will be slightly alarmed. i really hope your scan goes well and all is great!

Lexi - hope you're feeling ok i think were in the same mood right now...just hope soon we'll be talking about other things such as baby names or birthing plans etc argh!! soon i hope for us both!!!

Im actually 9dpo i think as I believe i OV last monday...yesterday i doubled over in pain...from the cramps i had i was in agony never ever experienced anything like that before...so i thought maybe it couldve been implantation cramps even though they were horrendous, but then today my hpt would be positive right? how long after implantation will a hpt be positive if pregnant? My nipples are still slightly tender and have never been for 9 days like they have been...so i dont even know what to think...

 

[Tweak0605]

Holy moly this thread moves fast....................

Lady - Thinking of you and hoping for the best! Try to stay calm though, for baby's sake. Rest up.

patiently - good luck glad the doctor prescribed you Clomid! I would love love twins too! sorry for all the BFNs If you just had implantation cramps yesterday, I'd give it 2-3 days before taking another test. It may take a couple days for the HCG to come into your system. It's different for everyone.

JW - good luck

Raspberry - love the symptoms! yay for a scan around 8-10 wks!

filipenko - sorry AF came

Welcome loulou & Sorry to hear about your losses

NSN - you!

NTAT - good luck, hope you get that + OPK!

Welcome momy Sorry to hear of your losses I had testing done after my 2nd miscarriage, and everything came back normal. Now, just trying to get that BFP again so I can be watched more thorougly by the doctors.

Glad you're back mpepe Good luck this month - you never know, it could be your month!

Applejack - glad you're appointment went well!

BeachChica - glad you called the doctor - I'm glad you're getting in early and getting tests and monitoring done!


Hope I didn't miss anyone!


AFM - CD22 and noooo ovulation yet. OPK was darker yesterday then the other days, but still not +. And no temp rise either - they're actually declining. Hope that means that ovulation is on it's way.

 

[lexi374]

Patiently i think you would need to give it at least 2 days after implantation before getting a positive hpt x

Lady good luck with the scan x

to all xx

 

[BeachChica]

patiently - it still sounds early.. FXFX!! I didn't get my BFP until 3 days after my missed period and I had 2 negative tests before that. Also my BFP was 2 days after I saw an implantation dip on my chart.

Ladyfog - FX for you too. I think the symptoms do come and go so don't worry. It seems like too after the losses, that we are more in tuned to them so as things change... our level of stress skyrockets. I have a feeling that by the time I finally get a baby I am going to have a full head of gray hair!!

Tweak - the temperature dip is definitely a good sign that OV is on the way!!! Get ready to get busy!!!

Hope everyone else is doing well :wave:

 

[mpepe32]

Thanks beach, nsn, lexi and patiently! DH had dental work last night after work, so I don't think we had a good run last night. Who knows. I'm trying to stay focused on positive stuff and not fall into my whirl wind depression. I'm planning on decorating my home for Christmas this weekend bc I have to decorate my parent's house the following weekend! I would love for Santa to bring me a sticky bean but I won't hold my breath waiting

lady -I'm sure all will be well, pregnancy symptoms come and go.

GL to any testers out there

 

[Applejack1]

Anyone else frustrated by partners willingness and availability? Why do I get so uptight when it's time to do it. I seem to get so pissed off when things get in the way of doing it. Anyone have any ideas, suggestions on how to just relax and let it happen. Why does it feel like the end of the world if we don't do it?

 

[Tweak0605]

Lexi - hope you're doing well

BeachChica - it definitely was a good sign .. + OPK when I got home!

Applejack - I got into huge fights with my DH around ovulation time because he "didn't feel like" DTD. To me, it was like he didn't want a baby as much as I did. I even threatened going to a sperm bank, even though I would never do that, to get my baby. We had a huge talk, about how much I wanted this and how much he did. And that I only have a 2-3 day window of opportunity to get pregnant every month. Ever since that talk, he has been so much better about DTD. Very rarely complains, and if he does, he still gets it done. Have you tried talking to him about it?

 

[BeachChica]

Applejack - Not sure why if feels that way but sometimes it does. Maybe some of the other ladies can offer some better advice but I know for me (particularly with the first couple pregnancies) it seemed like we were always on a schedule to do it. Now we've relaxed a bit about it but when my "fertile window" is coming up I advise DH in advance (in a joking sort of way) to mark his calendar for Wednesday, Friday and Sunday (for example). LOL He has not complained about that approach yet and I think it helps him get mentally prepared too that he will be "getting lucky" those days!!

 

[BeachChica]

BeachChica - it definitely was a good sign .. + OPK when I got home!

Tweak - that's great!!