A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[RaspberryMini]

NSN - I am so sorry. Thinking of you

 

[BeachChica]

yes, I just got my BFP on the 13th so I am freaking out a bit!!!

 

[momywanabekat]

yes, I just got my BFP on the 13th so I am freaking out a bit!!!

i hope tht this time your sucsesfull and really happy for you keep me informed xxx

 

[mpepe32]

oh, nsn - i'm so sorry, been there so many times myself, its just rotten PLease take care of yourself Can I ask if you were taking pregesterone or doing anything different from the other times?

HI to everyone and the new ladies and sorry for everyone's losses and heartache. Sorry I've been MIA, busy at home. DH and I did start ttc again but I don't think this will be my month. Despite my epo, my cm has not been great so not optimistic

 

[Neversaynever]

Mpepe...I haven't done'taken anything different this time..was expecting the panic to kick in closer to the 8 week mark

I'll be ok though ladies

Sorry I am not up to responding to individuals right now

XxX

 

[filipenko32]

Sorry for a selfish post ladies....

I've had a bleed this morning so looking like third time wasn't lucky for me

I'll probably be lurking for a while but wanted to say good luck for you guys in TWW sticky to the other preggos and happy for you lots on the run up to O

XxX

Aww, NSN sending you massive hugs, we're all here for you x 1 million. You know you got a 75% chance of it working out next time, it's just been extrmemely bad luck. You'll be pregnant again in no time and the next one will definitely stick! In the meantime we're all here for emotional support, you're numero uno priority isn't she ladies?

 

[lexi374]

Wow this has taken me forever to catch up with this thread.

Nsn not what i was expecting to read, i hope that it isnt the worst for you, i know you have no hope and i would be the same, praying for you xxx

Welcome lou, apple and momy Momy ive had the blood tests almost 8 weeks ago and am still waiting on results.

Beach congratulations!! x

Hope you preggos are feeling crap and puking loads xxx

Did you enjoy Edinburgh Raspberry? My dad is from there x

Welcome back Caz x

Fili sorry the witch got ya

Patiently, mpepe, jw, pink, ntat, tweak, lady

Sorry if i missed anyone xxx

Afm im shattered, will be glad to go to bed tonight, legs are killing from walking everywhere, nice to get away though. Had the urge to poas yesterday so made dh go and get 1.... BFN.

due today and just went to the toilet and looks like shes about to make an entrance! Back to the drawing board again!

Good luck to those in tww xxx

 

[Applejack1]

Thinking of you nsn!

Appointment went well this morning! She was very happy with everything she saw during the surgery. *Was very optimistic. *Removed some scarring that could be the problem and reasons for the two mc *She gave me a prescription for clomid, but suggested I wait until January to start because with this surgery some women will fall pregnant 3-6 months after. *The clomid would just speed things up. *She also said there would be a 70 percent chance of another mis but did not seem to concerned. *Wish I had of asked what the percentage is for most. *But didn't think of it until after! *Anyway all in all was pleased. Hubby was too but sure doesn't like to talk about it!

 

[NewToAllThis]

yes, I just got my BFP on the 13th so I am freaking out a bit!!!

Thanks for answering my question re your previous m/cs.
Nice to know they didn't find a specific problem I suppose but still not nice to not have answers.
I think my losses were chromosomal. Just a gut feeling but make me more positive for a good outcome next time.
I take extra folic acid - just take two of the regular 4mg that you can buy in shops. I figured it can't hurt midwife told me your body will get rid of what it doesn't need.

I also take Royal Jelly, CoQ10 and Zinc. All are supposed to 'help' with egg quality and god knows, my eggs need help!

Hope you are feeling ok and staying calm x

 

[BeachChica]

NTAT - I read that most miscarriages are due to chromosomal problems. Not sure if I mentioned it or not but my 3rd MC was tested and it was due to a Trisomy 12. The doctor said that doesn't really mean anything since typically miscarriages are due to chromosomal problems and doesn't mean that my first two resulted from the same problem. Hopefully I won't have to have any more tested.

I broke down today and called the doctors office. I have an appointment on Thursday. I know it seems early but I think I will feel better once they start doing some testing and monitoring.

How's everyone doing?

 

[NewToAllThis]

NTAT - I read that most miscarriages are due to chromosomal problems. Not sure if I mentioned it or not but my 3rd MC was tested and it was due to a Trisomy 12. The doctor said that doesn't really mean anything since typically miscarriages are due to chromosomal problems and doesn't mean that my first two resulted from the same problem. Hopefully I won't have to have any more tested.

I broke down today and called the doctors office. I have an appointment on Thursday. I know it seems early but I think I will feel better once they start doing some testing and monitoring.

How's everyone doing?

you must feel so overwhelmed right now. So many emotions.
Know that we are all here for you

 

[justwaiting]

beachchica, I completely understand the need to see the dr now. YOur emotions are everywhere i'm sure. will your dr do constant monitoring? I hope you get the support and reassurance you need.
My FS has me doing cycle tracking, so I will find out at 10dpo if I'm pregnant and they do progesterone tests from 8dpo, I will also have weekly u/s until 8 weeks and then fortnightly. My fs said after 8 wks if there is a healthy strong bean your chances of mc dramatically reduce.

Applejack - You mentioned scarring during your surgery, what kind and where? What did they do the surgery for?

It also took about 8 - 12 weeks for all of my testing to come back. especially the chromosome testing. I'm happy to talk to anyone who wants to talk about testing. I've had most done since june. My fs said that about 50% is unexplained and thats why they do the monitoring I talked about earlier. ALso infertility and mc is 50-50 a male or female problem, so I know we blame ourselves first all the time but it maybe an issue with oh.

Aspirin I have heard can do no harm but then I have also heard of women who spot on it before af is due and also can cause issues when pregnant, make sure you check with your dr before starting it. Progesterone, is apparently a very common issue for ppl who have had mc's. I will be making sure that my levels are checked with every beta test.

NTAL - I hope af doesn't show but if she does just think that you could get the most fantastic xmas present of all!

NSN - I'm so sorry again, I have replied in your journal but my heart goes out to you and I hope for good news on your beta's tomorrow. massive hugs.

Sorry if I missed anyone I tend to go of memory.

 

[RaspberryMini]

Did you enjoy Edinburgh Raspberry? My dad is from there x

we had a brilliant time. It's a lovely city but I was shattered by 8pm every night!

Fili - sorry to hear AF got you. Onto the next cycle

NSN - still thinking of you, let us know if there's any news

Hope all the other pregnant ladies are feeling lots of symptoms and trying not to stress too much. I'm just about to start on some counselling, as recommended by my Dr, to help me cope with this pregnancy and previous losses. Hoping it's useful to talk to someone but to be honest I don't feel the same fear I felt on my second pregnancy. Last time I felt like I was just waiting for it to go wrong, this time I don't feel like that but I don't feel like I can look too far into the future either I'm sure I'll feel better about things after first tri is over - hoping I get that far.

To all the ladies who are starting a new cycle or in TWW, GL and

xx

 

[patiently]

NSN you are still in my thoughts

Raspberry glad your feeling less stressed this time...a good sign i think

NTAL i hope AF doesnt show

AFM i know i am out this month...yesterday i was doubled over in pain i couldnt sit up or stand up for about an hour from the most intense cramps ive had in my life...even going through my mc's i never cramped this bad it felt like my uterus was contracting so tightly i had to lay down for about 3 hrs before the pain started to subside...so i know definately im out i also tested this morning at 9dpo and BFN so im gutted...i really feel to give up guess i have to try clomid next cycle but sometimes i think whats the point how can it be this hard to have a baby...in school all the teachers talk about is how easy it is to get pregnant i just feel cheated like were never told the difficulties we can face and how hard the process of conception can be! im just really annoyed today no job no baby what have i got going for myself i just feel like a waste of space! sorry for the rant i know everyone is having their own things to deal with...

 

[lexi374]

Patiently i feel the same, who could have known it would be this hard?!?

And then there are people that dont want them and dont care for them pumping out children left, right and centre, it pisses me off!!! x

 

[patiently]

aww me too...people even have one night stands and go on to get pregnant here i am timing, using opks spending so much money, watching everything i eat, doing everything i possibly can to optimise my chances and what da heck have i got to show for it!!! argh!!! sorry again ladies for my rant im just soo p'd off!!!

 

[BeachChica]

Justwaiting - yes, I am going back to my specialist that did all of my testing so I am hoping that they will be able to do some testing and monitoring, not sure if my regular OB would be able to do the same amount of monitoring. It will give me some peace of mind for them to do some checks and bloodwork at least at this point.

RM and the other pregnant ladies - have you joined any of the PAL forums? I just joined 2 of them: PAL - July 2012 babies and Pregnancy is scary after a loss. It might help to talk to others that are in the same stage of pregnancy about your symptoms and feelings. Its a lot to go through after a loss. Would love to see you there!!

Patiently - you're not out until AF shows up!!! I know how you feel, I never thought it would be this hard to have a baby. I really believe that after all that we've been through, the reward at the end will be even greater!! Stay positive and don't give up hope!!

 

[Neversaynever]

Thanks to you all for your lovely supportive comments well after that bleed yesterday morning..there has been nothing..nada so I really don't know what is happening I am having betas checked but as it's the UK...akes forever so won't know anything till Monday probably I'll carry on waiting...just like we all do with TTC

Patiently...the cramoing could have been implantation...please don't rule yourself out just yet...never give up the hope

Lexi....sorry you biught thre hag back with you I too hate how easy people get pregnant without even trying or carry a child so easily...life really isn't fair at times

JW...hoping this is the cycle for you...at least you will be monitored from early on thaks for your support

Beach...I don't blame you for getting in and be seen even if it is early. At least by having beta checks you have some idea of what is happening

RM.. and I think you are struggling so it is good that you are seeing a counsellor it really is such a nasty horrible journey that no one should have to endure. I hope you get some inner peace

Lady..you chucking up?

NTAT...I also think my issues have been chromosal due to mine and OH ages but we will never know. Sending you the biggest bucket of for your O

Pink...super star and thank you hope you are holding up ok too

Fili...sorry the hag came

to everyone else, sorry if I missed you wasnt intentional

XxX

 

[Applejack1]

Just waiting - it was scarring from surgery from ovarian cancer 11 years ago. They removed one ovary and tube but left the other. So the ovary had a bit of scarring on it which she says may or may not have caused the 2 mc. Here's hoping as this is my week to dance! Wishing everyone luck. Nsn still thinking of you!

Lexi and patiently - I teach grade primary and so totally agree with you that it's so unfair that some can just get pregnant like that without even wanting them. I see it everyday. It's heart wrenching and maddening all at the same time.

 

[mpepe32]

to all the ladies!

patiently - huge hugs to you but like others say, until af shows, you're not out.

nsn- glad the bleed stopped. a friend of our bleed her entire preganancy, and bled alot but had a very healthy baby boy so f'x for you

afm - giving it one more shot tonight hopefully as my temps haven't rasied yet.