i have had my oldest and middlest adopted, noot a choice i made lightly, oldest was adopted at 16 months old and middle child was adopted at 5 months old, thought i was ready when had oldest and wasnt , with 2nd , i was homeless and abotion wasnt option as had no signs, on concerpetion and was 7 months gone when i found out, we now have a 3rd girls and , i have contact via letters and pictures but refuse to do it as dont want to confuse the kids and youngest is allways told about the her sisters and that they would love her, she will allways no, think befor adopteing as it isnt as easy as may think on birth parents side as , u now no from someone who hass had 2 of her birth children adopted, it was nice to no ,my 2 lovely girls went to people who couldnt have kids, it made it easyer, iam uk