AF on 20th - Anyone else?

[stickylizard]

I need a slap on the wrist!! I have no willpower, I took the CB digi with 2nd pee of the day, BFN. Hubby went out and I even called him and nonchalantly asked for tests "just in case"! He bought 2 cheap ones 25miu, BFN :[ feel disheartened xx

 

[MissRoseMama]

I need a slap on the wrist!! I have no willpower, I took the CB digi with 2nd pee of the day, BFN. Hubby went out and I even called him and nonchalantly asked for tests "just in case"! He bought 2 cheap ones 25miu, BFN :[ feel disheartened xx

I don't know too much about these things, but 25 seems fairly high for this many days post ovulation at this point. I'd try something with a higher sensitivity (5-10 m ) if you can find it.

 

[stickylizard]

Aww :[ FRER BFN 9dpo :[ feel like I'm out xx

 

[stickylizard]

I don't understand this 6 days before day of missed period thing. AF due Weds. So Weds Tues Mon Sun Sat Fri. Friday would be 6 days before... 7dpo?? Or does it assume a 14 day luteal phase? Mine is 11... xx

 

[M&S+Bump]

It assumes a 14 day LP, implantation early and hormones doubling every 24 hours - in other words, ignore it.

At 9dpo the chances are pretty low of getting a bfp - look up countdown to pregnancy and it gives you a handy piechart!

 

[MissRoseMama]

Aww :[ FRER BFN 9dpo :[ feel like I'm out xx

Aww only 9DPO, it's early still!

But I know how you feel, I feel the same way. I refuse to test now for the next few days. I've seen enough white and "No's" to last me a good long time. I'm just going to temp, which I promised myself I wouldn't do because it makes me obsess too much, but it's cheaper and less depressing (slightly) than negative tests...

 

[stickylizard]

I've never temped before! Got one standard cheapie left and one FRER. Going to TRY and not test til Tues with FMU BUT chances are I will cave and do it tomorrow! Thanks for the words of encouragement. I had what seemed like IB and associated period pains yesterday but I think hormones rise before implantation, is that correct? Jeez I am sure all this is not healthy! Xx

 

[MissRoseMama]

I've never temped before! Got one standard cheapie left and one FRER. Going to TRY and not test til Tues with FMU BUT chances are I will cave and do it tomorrow! Thanks for the words of encouragement. I had what seemed like IB and associated period pains yesterday but I think hormones rise before implantation, is that correct? Jeez I am sure all this is not healthy! Xx

I'm honestly not sure. Someone told me if you have IB that the hormones probably are not at a detectable level yet. What I do know is the last time I had IB, it was around the time I usually get AF, though very light, ended after three days. I didn't test until CD 32 and got a faint, but clear positive. I had betas done three days later and my HCG level was a 27, so I assumed when I tested it was probably around. 9-12. But that pregnancy did not end up being viable ��

 

[M&S+Bump]

I always thought two days after implantation was the earliest it would be physically possible to get a bfp. I'm not sure where that came from though, or how true it is.

I am kinda glad I didn't catch ov on opks this month - I don't know for sure that it has happened, or if it has, when, so once again I have nothing to count from and I think it'll be better for me that way - I can't obsess as much!

 

[stickylizard]

All I can say is. Baby dust, a shitload of it, for all you beautiful ladies. I have come to the conclusion that what is done is done this cycle, I am going to assume I am not pregnant and carry on as normal focusing on other things. Then if I get a BFP it'll be a bonus! Have a stinking cold coming too which totally sucks :[ will keep updating xx

 

[MissRoseMama]

All I can say is. Baby dust, a shitload of it, for all you beautiful ladies. I have come to the conclusion that what is done is done this cycle, I am going to assume I am not pregnant and carry on as normal focusing on other things. Then if I get a BFP it'll be a bonus! Have a stinking cold coming too which totally sucks :[ will keep updating xx

Feel better soon!! That can't help matters any, I'm sure!! ❤️

 

[MissRoseMama]

Well, I am out. Seems like AF decided to mysteriously come early ��

 

[stickylizard]

So sorry the witch got you xxx

 

[London Kiwi]

I'm with you Stickylizard, assume it's a no-go and if AF doesn't show on 20th (I'm a very strict 28days) then I'll do a test.

I also don't chart my temps, do you ladies think it's worth doing next month or is it just something else to obsess about ha?

 

[London Kiwi]

Well, I am out. Seems like AF decided to mysteriously come early ��

No way!!! so sorry to hear that. I actually thought you might be the lucky one in this group. Damn it!
Next month MissRoseMama X

 

[MissRoseMama]

Well, I am out. Seems like AF decided to mysteriously come early ��

No way!!! so sorry to hear that. I actually thought you might be the lucky one in this group. Damn it!
Next month MissRoseMama X

Who knows what's going on...I am 98% sure that I'm out...but I'm going to wait until tomorrow to say for sure what's going on with this.

 

[MissRoseMama]

I'm with you Stickylizard, assume it's a no-go and if AF doesn't show on 20th (I'm a very strict 28days) then I'll do a test.

I also don't chart my temps, do you ladies think it's worth doing next month or is it just something else to obsess about ha?

For me it's something else to obsess about, but some people swear by it.

 

[MyFavSurprise]

Well I went ahead and tested today, 4 days until AF and no hold, and I'm not sure what to think. I see possibly the start of something
https://i66.tinypic.com/fdbq84.png
Or maybe I'm nuts?

 

[sarah_anne]

I had very mysterious brown-ish CM today. I've only ever had this once before and it was the day before my period was due and came. Today was 3 days before my period is due, so I'm not sure if my period is just coming early or if it was implantation bleeding. I had some mild cramps this morning, but nothing since. I'm praying that this is finally it for me!

 

[London Kiwi]

Sounds like people are having some positive signs.
I'm still not sure what to think, I've had basically nothing besides a few odd cramps. This morning I have very sore nipples which I don't think I have had previously but then maybe it's a sign of AF I've never noticed! I don't want to get hung up on thinking AF signs are signs of a BFP.... Almost contemplated buying a test but don't want to be disappointed so I shall patiently wait another two loooooooong days! X