Mushymilkfor2
Tabatha
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Normally this wouldn't really matter, but she's been unable to get pregnant due to PCOS. She already has one son, he's 2.5 but has been trying since he was 1 to get pregnant with a second.
Whenever babies are mentioned, or someone talks about pregnancy in anyway she gets super sad and totally shuts down. Even when I announced my first pregnancy she was happy for me, but sad for herself and she was only around 5 months into her TTC a second.
My husband and I don't want to wait to announce to anyone, but I really don't want to blindside her with an announcement in any way. We are friendly to each other, but I wouldn't say we are exactly friends.
I do think I should tell her first, but I have NO idea how to go about it. Any suggestions?
Whenever babies are mentioned, or someone talks about pregnancy in anyway she gets super sad and totally shuts down. Even when I announced my first pregnancy she was happy for me, but sad for herself and she was only around 5 months into her TTC a second.
My husband and I don't want to wait to announce to anyone, but I really don't want to blindside her with an announcement in any way. We are friendly to each other, but I wouldn't say we are exactly friends.
I do think I should tell her first, but I have NO idea how to go about it. Any suggestions?