I am 7 weeks gone and about 2 st more. I am stressed about the baby's health and my own...maternity clothes, a nice defined bump, hearing heart beats and really feeling kicks. I think the first time I just had no idea what to expect so everything was new & easily accepted as normal. This time, nothing is the same and I'm older. Because I had such a great pregnancy last time and have been such a natural mum (totally unexpectedly so) I know the stakes and I can't seem to forget that I've increased the risks by being 16st 10.