today he was playing with my daughter and her blanket doing peekaboo. he did it 5 times. im not so bad with 5 i can tolerate it but i couldnt today and he had to do it one more time. stuff like that..
Haha that sounds oh so familiar!... I can tolerate 5 also, as in my head: it's half of ten which makes it sort of an even number to me! I can cope with 15, 25 etc! But I can't listen to the radio or watch tv etc on volume 9 say! I often ask my husband to turn up/ down one notch! Sounds silly when you type it out eh?!
I have lots of funny quirks but (depending on my mindset at the time) often try and purposely do something against my OCD 'rules' to try and combat it by myself! But... sometimes I can't!
Sometimes I feel like a fruit loop for getting so uptight about something not being done 'right'!
im exactly the same with the radio and stuff! i do too feel like a nutter because saying it outloud someone would say " whats the big deal" lol but its a huge deal 3 is the worst for me its just disgusting lol. my mum changed the volume on her radio and she usualy puts it on an even number. but as she was driving she just changed the volume fast and i didnt say anything it was on 11 and for that whole car journy i felt like absulute shit but i imagined to ignore it . but most of the time i cant , i have no clue why i find it so bad lol. what do you try to do against your ocd?
what are your funny quirks? and do you have a number you hate the most. i think im not as bad as i used to be if someone gave me 3 sweets annoyingly id give one back! even tho i love sweets
lol when i did that my mum realised i was being serious lol. but now i can tolerate 3 things in food like 3 fish fingers. most of the time. when my husband made us some he ate my 3rd fish finger i was like " waaiiit" lol and he was like 2 but u hate 3s" lol i was like " yeh but im starving" lol so it wasnt bothering me that day. thats something people dont understand ur ocd can change depending on the day!! lol xx
I am exactly the same that some days I can tolerate it but some days things will just bug me 'til I "put them right" so to speak! I usually try and do something deliberately that I wouldn't usually like (obviously when I'm in the right mind frame), for example I will purposely peg washing out with odd colour pegs or deliberately not change volumes to even numbers or not line things up in the right way and just walk off! Sometimes though after a while I have to either change the volume back or say go back in the room to line things up! Sometimes as well the peg thing bites me on the ass cus if I pick out the same colour just coincidentally then I worry about "changing my choice"! Or sometimes I'll be ok with the colours being odd but they have to be coordinating colours!!
I have loads of things I do! Some examples are...
Washing up liquid/ hand wash/ antibacterial gel have to be lined up in size! Same with bath products on the bath! Same colour pegs on the washing line! I have to take cutlery out the dish washer rack in order of the slots in the drawer! The volume thing! I arrange coloured things in to "matching" colours (I have like partners for colours)! I arrange words and numbers in my head in to patterns depending on vowels and consenants, and used to pair letters up and swap in words! I set myself targets ie get to the top of the stairs before xyz happens!
Oh my gosh I sound like the craziest fool!!! I've always shrugged it off as a problem as to me OCD seems a cleaning type thing and I'm not obsessed with cleaning as far as I don't Hoover at 3am and don't clean my skirting boards with a tooth brush and bleach!! But... typing just a few little examples out makes me think I'm nutty myself!
People around me do know certain quirks but I'd say I hide it pretty well!!?? I do however panic at times about things like slipping in the kitchen with a sharp knife around LO or dropping her over the banister! I don't tend to worry about health though! Funny how there are completely different spectrums!
I've always thought that it doesn't control my life so it can't be serious, therefore it's not a real problem!? I can often talk myself out of "rules" etc by sort of setting new rules! Like if I miss a knife on the knife's turn (gosh what a fruit cake) then I can leave a fork and a spoon and resume the order at the end!
I tend to deal with my OCD by being super organised! People I know pretty much see this part and don't probably notice the extent of the stuff in my head! The bit I hate about this is that I don't tend to do much without LO as I hate losing the control and passing duties to other people! If anyone does have LO (even DH) then everything is laid out and in the right place beforehand! I'm only just starting to get bugged by this with now liking the idea of having the odd social outing! I do have bouts of wishing things away though, sort of! Like if I feel I want to get organised foran event then I want it to be here so all can be sorted and everything can have gone well etc! I do find myself wanting to do things really early etc!
I don't really have a hated number as I can usually talk myself round to it being ok! Like the 5 being half?! 9 is a squared number and double 11 is 22 which is a good number! I wouldn't be bothered by 3 say pieces of food etc but sometimes I have to do certain things an even number of times?! I don't envy you having to pass up food for it
!!! Isn't it weird that there seems to be no rationality as to what's acceptable from one OCD sufferer to the next?!?!
I also get the jaw ache thing that a previous poster mentioned! It tends to be worse when I have a lot of tasks on and start to feel unorganised! I then have an episode where I write a list and get down my to do list!
What quirks do you have hunni? I'm really sorry for the long post, I don't blame you in the slightest if you didn't get to the end!!! It's just I've never really got this off my chest, and once you start...
Edited... reading this back I would be thinking I'm crazy but I don't tend to think it takes over my life! I have always been adamant that I'm not going to label myself or seek medical help! I work hard at dealing with it and others wouldn't really notice! I am adamant not to have it be a problem I pass on to LO!