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Right there with all of you.
I have trouble sleeping at night and I can swear I hear my son crying and he's sound asleep.
I'm too protective of him and for the last few weeks I've refused everyone who asks to watch him or take him for a night. I need him home with me.
Same here! I always think I hear Charlotte crying when in fact she's sound asleep.
I also feel insecure about anyone watching my girl... it makes it hard to get much-needed alone time.
This is me too, I have anxiety, I am on sleeping tablets as part of my PND, I go to sleep but cant get back to sleep after the first feed - he still wakes up 3 plus times a night. I always think i hear LO crying when I am in the bath, and shout down to DH to make sure LO is ok, or when I have the radio on.
Take care girls xxxx
hey hun why dont you stick around xx
what helps your axiety? xx
I hope ive replied to everyones post. that annoys me when i miss a message as i hate not replieing to people lol.
I have questions..
When did your ocd start?
when was it at its worsed.
what helps it get better.
does your oh understand ur ocd and help?
how has other people around you reacted to your ocd do they understand.
when did you start meds?
does anyone elses ocd make them ask alot of questions lol i find when i am out for example when i was at school i used to ask questions constantly even while i was asking i could tell myself getting axious.. also with my husband i ask soo many things" have u done this. how did you do it? why did you do it like that? can you explain why you did it like that? drives him mad..
Thanks Hun, i will stick around If I have a decent (hah) 5-6 hours sleep, I am a lot more rational! Other than that taking each day hour by hour at the mo. I have been on and off lots of meds as have had anxiety/depression since I was 17-18 ( am 31 now) I am now on an antidepressant- venlafaxine, the highest dose my Dr can prescribe, along with Zopoclone -sleeping tablets and periciazine to help control my panic attacks I have had CBT for 18 months about 3 years ago and it did help at the time. Unfortunately I have hit a bad patch and am now under the local Crisis team OCD is new to me, but LO was just over 5lbs and I somehow got it into my head that everything had to be clean or he would get ill and loose weight ( this happened with my friends prem baby), and have to go back into hospital, so cleaning and hygiene and sterelising are out of control and have been since he was born
When did your ocd start?
Just after LO was born-BUT I have always checked doors, washed my hands lots, showered lots, cant waer clothes even if just tried them on before they have been washed ago-so maybe a long time really!
when was it at its worsed.
Now!
what helps it get better.
Working on this!
does your oh understand ur ocd and help?
Not sure he totally understand, but is fantastic and trys to help as much as he can.
how has other people around you reacted to your ocd do they understand.
I havent really told anyone other than hubby and my mum.
when did you start meds?
See first part of post!
does anyone elses ocd make them ask alot of questions lol i find when i am out for example when i was at school i used to ask questions constantly even while i was asking i could tell myself getting axious.. also with my husband i ask soo many things" have u done this. how did you do it? why did you do it like that? can you explain why you did it like that? drives him mad..
I am always quizzing hubby-has he done this, if he get LO bag ready when we go out I check it!
I wouldnt wish OCD/Depression/Anxeity on anyone, but i think it helps to know I am not alone with this, but sorry you girls, have suffered/are suffering too babyandbump is great for support for all kinds of things.
Take care girlies xxxx