Good morning ladies, sorry for being quiet so long again. Dominic has changed from the happiest sunniest most smiliest boy into a whiney needy little thing lately and it is difficult to be absent from the sitting room (where both boys are) for more than 5 to 10 minutes at a time before he starts wailing at the gate. Even when we are in the room he isn't always happy to get on with things. Not sure what is going on. I don't think it is teething as he has never had problems with this and he has no red gum, nappy rash or any other symptoms.
Any way I try and write this post before their breakfast is due as I rarely have time to after.
Claire I am sorry Lucy's egg allergy is still going. Is there still a chance of her growing out of it now? But I suppose it is good news that you can go ahead with the MMR. We have to schedule our boys too but I am reluctant as my brother keeps scaring me. His children have not been vaccinated at all and he keeps telling me to do so is to poison them.
Anyway I hope Lucy has recovered from those blood tests and doesn't dream about them any more, poor little sweetie!
Have you managed to defer your jury duty yet? My own was boring as heck. I was sitting in the waiting room at Old Bailey for about a week and was called once but didn't make it into the selection of the 12 as I stood in the back (and it was in one of those famous old oak panelled courtrooms too!) and I think that was for a gang killing or something like that. After that I was transferred to the court at Blackfriars where I sat about for another week. I thought I had escaped but then on the last day I got a case of GBH which was no such thing and was really just a petty argument between two weirdos lol. It only lasted 3 days so that was ok. While at the Old Bailey I heard they were trying a case of child murder and I was so scared to get something horrific like that!
Charlie you poor sleep deprived thing! I hope it is better now with S' sleeping and napping? That story about being offered help in M&S is just so depressing! You poor thing!
Sabrina thank you for your advice re the milk. I find it reassuring that you give more still too. We offer water throughout the day and also juice sometimes but I am not sure they really are thirsty or just enjoy drinking cause they always down everything offered. I must admit, the juice we give is delicious! It is by Annabel Karmel and I wouldn't mind drinking that myself! Had I known about this juice during pregnancy I wouldn't have had such trouble finding something to replace the Diet Coke!
I love your stories about your cats. They sound like proper fur persons! It always makes me smile to hear about them
How is your OH's rib? Is it in fact broken? I think that is very painful if so but nothing much can be done in that case. I know what you mean about being annoyed with your OH about household stuff. My OH does pretty much nothing unless asked multiple times. Well, except clear the sitting room of toys and mats in the evening and do the cooking. He does that every evening I must admit. But there can be a full and tied up rubbish bag sitting in the middle of the kitchen and he dances around it while cooking and won't take it out unless I remind him over and over again. I don't get it. I often do it myself in the end even though it is hard on my back.
Yay for getting Blueberry stains out! I must try the Tesco stuff cause Dylon is rubbish for colour runs!
Oh and I absolutely love your pic of Finn and his new shoes. So cute!
How is sleeping going? Still fussy? Hope you manage to get some good sleep
Borboleta Thank you also for your reassurance about the amount of milk we give the boys. They eat their solid foods very well but because of Sebastian they are still on stage 2 foods
I guess we shall wait till he gets molars lol.
I am glad T is taking so well to not being rocked to sleep at night any more. I wonder if perhaps it took so long usually cause it was actually keeping him up and now he falls asleep by himself and it is much quicker?
We bathe the boys separately and use an inflatable duck to sit them in. Only since we got this, does Sebastian not scream the house down every time! I think he was scared in the bath seat and the big bath. But in the duck he feels more snug? Not sure. We probably will bathe them together eventually to save on time (it takes us an hour at the moment to bathe them both) but so far we really love the duck and want to use it till it grows too small
As for your question about restaurants, no we do not take them anywhere like that. We take them to a café occasionally after shopping but it is small and they know us there. Usually we go around 3pm so that they can have their milk and be happy. If we drink stuff and they don't get anything then especially Dominic will protest loudly! lol
Good luck with your gymboree classes and the other things you are going to try out. I hope you find one that is not too expensive and fun for both you and T
Jules how are you doing? So close now! And you are not going to have a Shrek Baby! I am sure he will be very cute
I didn't know your area was dangerous to walk in in the evening?! I had such a lovely image of Dulwich! It seems so leafy and quiet. But then again I only know the part around the Picture Gallery and you said that isn't where you are. No wonder you want to move away from there. Your hallway looks lovely and elegant though. So you obviously have a very nice house
And to butt in on your conversation with
Borboleta about the makeup, I know what you mean about being scared of having it done professionally! I used to go to a lot of balls when I was younger and once I did have my makeup done by a makeup artist. Well... I am very pale, I know but I always liked that. And I had the most ravishing red dress (there is a picture of me wearing it in one of my FB albums) that made my skin look translucent, which I loved, even if I say so myself. Well the make up artist thought since this was the South of France and summer, I needed a tan!
So she put this brown stuff in my face and over my shoulders too when I told her the dress was sleeveless etc. It was too late to wash it off and it isn't obvious on the picture but wow that was the last time! lol Also, I never wear foundation as I don't like how it makes one's skin look like suede lol.
Clio your sister makes me shake my head. Online presence these days is hard to avoid completely anyway. And yeah we do share a lot on here but I think she was in much greater danger to meet a nutcase on a dating site than that one of us ladies turns out to be such a perv! She sounds a bit scary too in that you are afraid of her temper. I wonder how her man is coping with that?
Glad your exam and paper work is done. Sounds like hard work with J there too to look after especially. Is there a vacation now or does term continue with lectures? I hope you can sort something out with daycare. I think J especially would probably enjoy interacting with other kids and have lots of activities?
Thank you for your reassurance about Dominic's daddy fixation. It still continues but not as bad I think. We haven't had a proper meltdown like that one again but he often does cry for his daddy still.
I hope the visit with your mum will be fun and that you will indeed still love her by the time she leaves lol. As for cleaning the house, see, although I loathe cleaning and it occasionally makes me cry when I see what a mountain there is, I always have to clean before anyone comes to visit. We are so messy that there is no way I could live with it. I am too ashamed. lol I would even be too ashamed for a cleaner to see it as is
No I exaggerate, but not by much lol.
And J's favourite words and sentences are very effective. Very clever little boy lol
Btw the night before last Dominic also woke at 4am and cried. First time in months! So OH went in to close the window cause we thought maybe he was cold and rocked him a little. Big mistake. He cried much worse when OH left and OH went in again after 15-20 minutes and tried again to get him to sleep. But he isn't used to being rocked any more I guess and wouldn't fall asleep and then it took another 20 minutes for him to fall asleep on his own. All in all it took an hour and a bit.
Thing is, how does one know everything is ok without going in and checking? I cannot see over the monitor if he leaked maybe or scratched himself bloody or something like that? It is not easy, sigh. Luckily last night he didn't wake till 6:15 this morning which is early but within normal range.
Rowan if you are reading this, we are missing you and would love to hear news about how things are going with your MnMs
How are you
kosh, Leeze and
Storm?
CeeDee are you still here with us too?
As for us: nothing much else new. Sebastian refused to nap in the morning yesterday even though they usually sleep over an hour in the mornings now. He woke Dominic who therefore only had 15 minutes in the morning too. They then both slept for an hour and twenty in the afternoon which is unheard of, Usually it is only half an hour. So I wonder if perhaps I should drop the morning nap and just have them nap after lunch? But usually Dominic drops off for his morning nap within 2 or 3 minutes of being put in the bouncy, been given his dummy and muslin. So I think he does still get very tired? Not sure what to do there. Any ideas? How much do your LOs nap?
ETA Also what kind of games do you play with your LOs at home? I mean I sing with them and have the nursery rhymes on the HD on tv and I hop them on my knee and I lie down on the floor so they can climb over me and let them pull my hair (not willingly!) etc but what games can I play with them? I roll balls and clap hands and imitate their sounds etc but to be honest it does get a little boring for me at times. And I feel bad for admitting it but there you are
So I need suggestions what other "games" I could play with them please?
Ok got to go. OH has been looking after the boys while I finished this. And I always feel guilty being online when he is with the boys. :/
Hugs to all!