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borboleta - how did the appointment go? I hope you got some answers. is it mainly the eye contact that is worrying you? I'd imagine that different babies have different levels of eye contact and also react different in different circumnstances? as for the language, as a mum of another bilingual child, I wouldn't worry about his language development. i think it's normal to have a regression at some point. I know Gael used to say words that he doesn't use now. also, he is much more comfortable with 'words' like mooo and woof woof, probably because they are the same in both languages. as clio said, I think their brains are just trying to figure things out. if you think about it what they are doing is a massive task!!
clio - Gael also sometimes tells us when he had a poo. I don't think that is a signal that they are ready for toilet training, just that they are more aware and probably uncomfortable? Gael even tells me when he farts
a while ago you asked me if G's sleep was any better. short answer? no. it does vary though, it goes from bad to utterly crap you also asked me if I could leave him with DH for a night. again, short answer: no. long answer: he'd be ok-ish to go to sleep at bedtime, but if (if?? ) he woke up during the night he wouldn't settle and would get very distressed etc etc. of course I could still do it, but I don't think I'd relax and rest anyway. I think claire and leeze may relate to this....
angel - you asked me if I had any thoughts re BF. In an ideal world I would like to BF until 2yo minimum and after that let him self-wean. but reality may be very different! I go back and forth re. night weaning, as some believe it would help his sleep, but tbh, I'm not totally convinced it would be the solution to all the 'problems'.
anyway, talking about sleep - for the last week or so Gael slept on a mat at nursery!! it took him 2 months!!!! i wonder if this would affect his nightime sleep but no (positive) changes so far.
re. DH - I feel I have to say something, as many of you thought he was totally unsupportive and unhelpful. Unfortunately, DH is almost useless at night because now G only wants me, but during the day, what does he do? he gets up with G in the morning so I can sleep a bit longer. He changes him, dresses him and gives him breakfast everyday. He feeds him (if I ask ) and baths him (if I remind him ) and plays lots and lots with him. So he does help. I guess what still upsets me is that I was hoping/expecting he wouldn't just help, he'd share, if that makes any sense. And what drives me nuts is that when he's tired/ill/stressed he thinks it's ok to go and sleep/rest/relax because I will take care of G anyway On top of that, when he's stressed (which is very often) he gets incredibly grumpy and I just can't stand it. I used to be more patient, but i don't have the energy anymore. We've been talking about this again recently and he said I was right, so I hope the penny has finally dropped!! we'll see.
clio - Gael also sometimes tells us when he had a poo. I don't think that is a signal that they are ready for toilet training, just that they are more aware and probably uncomfortable? Gael even tells me when he farts
a while ago you asked me if G's sleep was any better. short answer? no. it does vary though, it goes from bad to utterly crap you also asked me if I could leave him with DH for a night. again, short answer: no. long answer: he'd be ok-ish to go to sleep at bedtime, but if (if?? ) he woke up during the night he wouldn't settle and would get very distressed etc etc. of course I could still do it, but I don't think I'd relax and rest anyway. I think claire and leeze may relate to this....
angel - you asked me if I had any thoughts re BF. In an ideal world I would like to BF until 2yo minimum and after that let him self-wean. but reality may be very different! I go back and forth re. night weaning, as some believe it would help his sleep, but tbh, I'm not totally convinced it would be the solution to all the 'problems'.
anyway, talking about sleep - for the last week or so Gael slept on a mat at nursery!! it took him 2 months!!!! i wonder if this would affect his nightime sleep but no (positive) changes so far.
re. DH - I feel I have to say something, as many of you thought he was totally unsupportive and unhelpful. Unfortunately, DH is almost useless at night because now G only wants me, but during the day, what does he do? he gets up with G in the morning so I can sleep a bit longer. He changes him, dresses him and gives him breakfast everyday. He feeds him (if I ask ) and baths him (if I remind him ) and plays lots and lots with him. So he does help. I guess what still upsets me is that I was hoping/expecting he wouldn't just help, he'd share, if that makes any sense. And what drives me nuts is that when he's tired/ill/stressed he thinks it's ok to go and sleep/rest/relax because I will take care of G anyway On top of that, when he's stressed (which is very often) he gets incredibly grumpy and I just can't stand it. I used to be more patient, but i don't have the energy anymore. We've been talking about this again recently and he said I was right, so I hope the penny has finally dropped!! we'll see.