Welcome to my super-long, totally behind, post. First:
Thanks everyone for the suggestions!
Leeze, I hadn’t even thought of play doh! And
Indigo, your suggestions about drawing made me think about painting (IKEA has that easel...) Thank you! Sadly,
Angel, he had MegaBloks, but I just gave them to charity because he never played with them (I did a culling of his toys). And
Borboleta, the Leap Frog DVDs just arrived! When do you let T watch them? Can they replace the before-dinner Pocoyo? And
Storm, J loves that car and the pram and the dolly, which are at Grandma's and Oma's houses. I don't know if I should "double up" on toys he can play with elsewhere. Agghhh! Why does this have to be so hard? And I'm also tired of spending money on things he doesn't use.
And
Storm, what is a Gruffalo bake set? Do you make little mice cookies and then comment "and the mouse looked good"?
OH just came back from the second hand store and bought J a kid's table and matching chairs, a Vtech "computer," and a toy truck. As you can see, he loves his new "desk" and his own computer!
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Re: TV--can't remember who asked. We use TV purely as a means of survival for the half hour before dinner. Because he takes his only nap at
nine in the morning, and he honestly doesn't stop moving for the rest of the day, by the end, Pocoyo is our saviour. He will watch up to half an hour, but I don't really care. OH and I have come to realize that
so many of J's funny idioms come from Pocoyo! So, if it's teaching him language, I have no trouble with it. Anyway, my parents cut me off completely from TV until I was in my teens, and I am now addicted to it. OH had unlimited access his entire life, and watches almost nothing now, so I think it's up to the personality of the child.
Oh,
Indigo, I just read your post about the TV and language study. I've decided not to look into it, because I will suddenly become afraid that I've damaged J somehow. Ignorance. That's what I want in this situation. Ignorance.
Borboleta--I thought you'd get a kick out of this! J was pushing one of his new toddler chairs around, and saying "Going to Pato's!" and then "Going to Ellie's!" Then, finally, "Going to Sleepy Bird in the Vamoosh!"
And this morning he was making Pato a cake to bring to him in the Vamoosh. The cake was a box full of diaper wipes.
Oh, and this morning, I couldn’t help but pop the letter DVD in. We only watched up to letter J, I think, but immediately afterwards, J started to sing the alphabet up to D! Good call, Borboleta!
Indigo--do you have the Plan Toys drum? It's wonderful; it allows you to do chords and to play melodies because of how it's constructed. Do you have other Plan Toys that you think J might like?
I would love to take J outside, but sadly, winter is already here for us.
It snowed for two days a few days ago, and although it melted, we've only got a few days left of good-ish weather. And no one plays outside in the winter here. Though, who knows; I've never lived in a neighbourhood full of so many children. Maybe they will defy the elements.
Oh, and
Charlie's Sophia is J's intended, so hands off my future daughter-in-law!
Charlie--speaking of J's intended, I loved your description of little S! She sounds like such a delight! Oh my--I just looked at her age! Her birthday is so incredibly soon! How are you feeling about that? Are you throwing her a party?
I hadn’t thought about a fort. Thanks!
Thank you for the reassurance re: J and his inability to sit in a circle. And about the playgroups, I went to a few and didn't like them either. To be frank, I have nothing in common with the other mothers, as well, and I can’t talk anyway when J is constantly on the move and often out of sight. I'm going to try and do some research about this age group and socialization. I think we're being pressured too much at far too early an age to do these group things. What's the age again that LOs begin to even acknowledge other children?
Can anyone remember?
And what kind of competitive things do the mothers talk about? You should tell them that it all evens out by the age of three. And then tell them that your baby is almost fluent in Swahili and can already fly (jet fighters, that is. Real flying is just silly).
Storm--Wow! That is a lot of Christmas presents! From stingy ol' us, J'll only receive one or two gifts, and the rest will come from both sides of his extended family. I figure he won't know. Luckily Oma goes absolutely NUTS when it comes to gifts for her grandchildren.
And poor you with your bump and limpet! You, and Rowan before you, deserve medals! I couldn't do what you're doing, and you're among the busiest of us all! When does your mat leave begin?
And I can totally sympathize re: the incessant talking! "Whads Dat???" drives me round the bend, especially because J knows exactly "whad dat" is.
And saying, "you tell me" all the time is exhausting, too. Books are such a chore now, because he just wants me to identify all the objects in the pictures, not read the story to him.
Any more news on the moving truck problem? That always falls to me, too. And there are
always problems, aren't there!
SK--Do I ever relate to you right now! As you might remember, J was a nightmare when I worked at home. And now we have a Day House. Oh, a nanny. That's very posh! :wink wink: I wish I had had one!
And I'm impressed by your determination! Look at you go! You will get a position in no time. I wish I still lived in TO (okay, I always wish for this), because if you get the job, we could at least meet up in person when I visit home. J and F could meet!
Kitty--Good luck on the 2WW! How many sleeps until you can test?
for you!
And thanks for your reassurance regarding being an only child!
Charlie reported the same experience. I also disliked my sister growing up, and still do. I think I liked her for a year or two during our twenties.
Yay for Blake with the food, but boo for the tooth! Poor thing. But that's fantastic about his standing! Is he cruising yet? I know what you mean about learning so fast; it is truly shocking. As in, I once walked into J's room, and he was standing up in his crib, and I was shocked beyond words!
Claire--I'm so glad your mother's on the mend! When do her staples come out?
AFM—So the mj license is a no go. The substance abuse doctor at the pain clinic interviewed me (a pre-requisite), and she said that she couldn’t prescribe me the mj because of the Bipolar I psychosis I had when really sick in my 20s. They think it’ll happen again, so I’m automatically off the list. So legally, I’m still a criminal, but she said she doesn't judge me. Well, thank you, substance abuse person. But she did run some cognitive and memory tests on me, and this pothead scored in the 98th percentile. So there you go, substance abuse person!
Oh, and I just bought J some PlayDoh, which OH is considering vetoing because it contains wheat. Good thing I kept the receipt.
Okay, I am now posting this behemouth, even though I’m certain it’s out of date, and incomplete!