SK--I'm sorry about your tooth socket (ew!), but it must be a relief to have it gone. And I'm glad that little F has been moved up to the toddlers. Frankly, I think it'll speed up both his talking and balance. Of course, I base this only on the experience I have with J, but whenever J is at the day home and hangs out with the woman's five year old son, his language abilities make a huge jump, even in one day. I assume it's because if he wants to play, he has to figure out how to make himself understood. As for the walking (why is F still considered a wobbler? Surely they divide them by age, no?), Gymboree fixed J's wobbling pretty darn quick, especially when he wanted to interact with the other kids. I'm glad F has toys there that he's familiar with, and yay for no bitings today!
And, although it may seem like I'm living in the Arctic, I still have access to all things American, so if you want me to send things along, too, it's no problem. As for the book idea, it's a pretty good one. It's good that it's Daphne who is the detective, because, as it has been definitively proven, Morgan isn't very bright. Though she will point out that it was her "string bean theory" that allowed them to go back in time, so she deserves some props. Actually, during our years of infertility and while I was pregnant, we used to make up story after story about Morgan, some of which made us laugh until we cried. I did have a story written very clearly in my mind about Morgan's first Hallowe'en, whereby she made herself a cat costume and was furious at the end of the night because she had been given candy, when she had been led to believe it would be a night of endless kibble. And then there is her ever-present nemesis, Bird...
Storm--I agree with Borboleta, and seriously wonder all the time: how on earth do you do it? I'm sorry about the sick cat, though. It sounds, well, disgusting. Turns out this little one here is a bit of a "tooter"--she's been letting some silent but icky gassers go throughout the day.
Borboleta--that does not sound like a good visit to Santa. Wow, a lot of our OHs are being jerks these days, aren't they?! It's when things are so blatantly unfair, like when you have to hold little T for THREE hours and then are chastised for eating dessert, that you wonder how on earth they possibly think their behaviour is fair. Have you ever tried holding T up on your shoulders? I started to do it after OH told me that it was actually easier than holding J (it evens out his weight across my back). Other times, though, I carry him like a football under my arm when we're out, because I can't control him any other way. We went to our version of Barnes and Nobles today, and I had to do the football carry when he began to make himself a dead weight when I took his hand. Though, for a while, I did slide him through the store with his arm while he lay on the ground, whining.
Turns out, I actually don't care what other mothers think of me!
I'm glad that your OH apologized and wrote the sweet text. It's always such a relief, isn't it, when they finally get it right.
And what an odd story about your friend. She must have felt very strongly about the lighting if she and her husband went to such great lengths! I wonder what that was all about... Probably another trick her mind was playing on her.
Your organizing sounds very cathartic. Can you take pictures of your Christmas decor? OH is doing some similar organizing after I mentioned that the shelves in his room--which contain no books but random things like my flute, a screwdriver and a dining room table leg--were a national disgrace. He brought the table leg and a collection of socks with holes down this evening, and intends to continue to do it, bit by bit, until it's all organized. Sure. And I'm the Queen of Sheba.
Re: the drinking--OH drank one bottle of wine and a beer he found tonight. Then he said that he might as well go to bed, because he learned he was drinking, in large part, out of boredom. I don't expect him to drop below one bottle, though. Since it doesn't make him drunk, it's a battle I have chosen not to fight. Plus my parents, and his parents all drink a goodly amount of beer and wine after dinner (or before dinner, in the case of my parents), so it doesn't actually bother me.
Oh, and did I mention that I dropped all painkillers, including the pot, except for my slow release pain pills I take in the morning and the evening? This last bout of depression made me wonder if the instant relief pills and weed were causing it. Turns out, nothing changed mood-wise, but I realized that my joint pain was hardly noticeable, even without them! So, something has gotten stronger down there, muscle-wise, which must be holding the joint in place. So...
Oh oh. J is crying in his bed and we're in that no-man's land where we can't give him anymore drugs for at least a couple more hours. This might be a long night! Well, I'm going to go to him now, and wish you all a good night, or a good day, or whatever the case may be! xox!