SabrinaKat
Delighted Mum to Finn
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We had another night of LO in tears....growl. Rereading some recent posts by Clio, Leeze, etc., sounds like our OHs don't get it -- re: sleep, I mean!
I usually rock LO to sleep and sing a little bit to him, and 90% of the time, he's asleep for naps within 5-15 mins, but obviously, maybe once or twice a week, it doesn't work. Getting to sleep at night is much harder and twice this week, LO has struggled....he'll fall asleep around 9pm, but then wake up around midnight and it will take an hour to 2 hours (last night) to re-settle him (on Tuesday and Thursday nights, he slept through from 9 to 6 am on Wednesday night). My OH buggered off to bed, so when LO woke up screaming with teething pain last night at 11.30, I called for him to come and help (he sleeps in the spare room 5/7 nights (takes LO 2/7 nights), we gave him some calpol, etc., and he settled down but not to sleep....every time I though I could get LO into his basket/cot, he would wake up and this went on for an hour (did I mention my OH had gone back to bed?), and my OH's solution was to put LO in his cot, stand over him, whispering 'sssh, go to sleep', with the baby crying and ultimately, screaming. It was, in my opinion, the cruellest way to deal with a baby in obvious pain and/or crying/screaming also due to tiredness. My OH help insisting that the baby was falling asleep even though only the screams were getting more hoarse, and I told him to eff off back to bed, and I finally got LO settled via rocking and singing. Needless to say, I'm not happy with him today....
growl.....
ps. he is otherwise very good with LO, e.g. changes nappies, makes formula, plays with him, but in terms of getting LO to sleep? Useless!
I usually rock LO to sleep and sing a little bit to him, and 90% of the time, he's asleep for naps within 5-15 mins, but obviously, maybe once or twice a week, it doesn't work. Getting to sleep at night is much harder and twice this week, LO has struggled....he'll fall asleep around 9pm, but then wake up around midnight and it will take an hour to 2 hours (last night) to re-settle him (on Tuesday and Thursday nights, he slept through from 9 to 6 am on Wednesday night). My OH buggered off to bed, so when LO woke up screaming with teething pain last night at 11.30, I called for him to come and help (he sleeps in the spare room 5/7 nights (takes LO 2/7 nights), we gave him some calpol, etc., and he settled down but not to sleep....every time I though I could get LO into his basket/cot, he would wake up and this went on for an hour (did I mention my OH had gone back to bed?), and my OH's solution was to put LO in his cot, stand over him, whispering 'sssh, go to sleep', with the baby crying and ultimately, screaming. It was, in my opinion, the cruellest way to deal with a baby in obvious pain and/or crying/screaming also due to tiredness. My OH help insisting that the baby was falling asleep even though only the screams were getting more hoarse, and I told him to eff off back to bed, and I finally got LO settled via rocking and singing. Needless to say, I'm not happy with him today....
growl.....
ps. he is otherwise very good with LO, e.g. changes nappies, makes formula, plays with him, but in terms of getting LO to sleep? Useless!