starshinebby
Proud new mother!
- Joined
- Mar 10, 2012
- Messages
- 388
- Reaction score
- 0
Well, ladies, it seems that my original NTNP plan until the serious TTC in the summer is not going over so well. I'm not trying (just hoping) but he's the one preventing. We DTD twice and both times he pulled out and, well, you know, finished. I asked him about it afterwards this morning and he couldn't give me a real answer. Looks like someone has cold feet about actually trying. So hopefully I can talk to him more after I get off work, but it seems like I'm waiting to TTC. I mean we could at least be NTNP but that doesn't seem to be working out..
I'm so upset about this. I finally get a chance to try after 2 years on depo and he changes his mind at the last minute. I know he doesn't mind waiting, but I'm been ignoring these baby urges for 2 years. Ughh. I just don't know. I'm tired of waiting, especially when I know I'll be waiting anyway for a while until depo is completely gone (6 months-1 year!).
Sending you massive amounts of hun, you sound like you could really use them that sucks hun, i think a heart to heart is in order to find out whats wrong and how to proceed, hope you get it back on track huni xx
Thank you, I really appreciate it. And yes, a definant heart to heart is in order. Earlier this year, before my depo ran out, I had mentioned going on a low dose birth control pill to help regulate my period so I hope he doesn't bring that up. This was all before I actually got it on my own, but who knows if it'll even show this cycle.
I think that now our plans are starting to seem more real to him he's backing off and rethinking things. He'll probably end up pressuring me to wait and that we'll get a puppy or kitten instead after we move this summer. I'm all for that, as my beloved cat went missing last December and I'm pretty sure someone picked her up and kept her, even after going door to door asking everyone in the neighborhood (plus shelters and what not). But as much as I love our furry 3-year-old pit/boxer mix, I want my own child.. Sooner rather than later. ):