Calibeachbum
Mom to DS
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My husband made me sad today (not intentionally, just something he said). Right now we only have one car so I had to take him to work. On our way home he was talking about the car we are planning on buying in the next month or so and he was really excited about it. I was joking and told him that he seems more excited about the car than he was when I told him our little bean stuck. He got all quiet then said that he doesn't want to get his hopes up because of my two miscarriages, he feels like he is waiting for something to go wrong so he doesn't want to get attached just in case.
I feel the same way, it just doesn't feel real yet. I don't think we will be fully excited until my scan which hopefully shows that everything is progressing well. My doc is letting me come in 2 weeks early, so I will be getting my first scan at about 6 weeks 4 days, and then the normal 8 week scan 2 weeks after that.
My dh is the same way. It just has not set in yet. I'm sure after we see the heartbeat on the 22nd it will feel more real. I also downloaded a pregnancy app for his phone so he felt more involved in what was going on. He opened the app and was like "we are still an apple seed?". Lol
I'm not having any symptoms except for fatigue. I'm hoping I don't get ms since I am flying next weekend. I'll be at the 6 week mark which is when everyone's symptoms seem to start.