I've been having some new pains today: lower abdominal cramps, pain in the back of my pelvis/lower back, and pain in the back and inside of my thighs. Of course my mind always goes to worst case scenario. No bleeding/spotting. Probably all normal. I feel like I can't talk to DH about it as he gets annoyed with miscarriage worries. He thinks its very out of the ordinary for a woman to worry about miscarriage (especially if she's never had one before). First doctors appt (and u/s) is in ten days. I always pictured pregnancy as this amazing, beautiful time and instead I (sometimes) just feel worried and crazy...
I've learned recently that the worried and crazy part of pregnancy is never talked about when you ask someone who has had a baby what they went through, which sucks for the rest of us. All I know is I will be brutally honest if someone ever asks me what I went through. Many women paint this picture that pregnancy is the easiest thing in the world, all you have to do is think about it and your pregnant, that the pregnancy will stick (because miscarriage is another one of those things women rarely talk about) and that the whole experience is the most amazing thing. In hindsight maybe it is, but I remember from my sister and friends experiences that pregnancy can be a miserable time. For me, I say bring it all on, as long as that means this bean is sticking I will happily have morning sickness and want to eat everything in the house at the same time.
As for your husband, right now he is excited and doesn't want to think about things going wrong, but don't think you're crazy , so it is not that he isn't being supportive he just wants to remain blissfully ignorant to the bad things. Worrying comes with motherhood, and it is something that will never go away (I'm 26 and my mom still calls everyday to make sure that'm okay). So whatever fears you have, you have us to talk to and know that we are all afraid of the same things right now