maybebaby3
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I had my first scan this week at 10 weeks and will get another on the 6th March. The baby is fine, but I found out I have a heart-shaped uterus - so that means there is a slight 'wall' and my uterus is spilt into two sections. The baby will have a little less room to grow and therefore might be premature. The worst case scenario doesn't bear thinking about so after a few days of moping around, I have decided that it's out of my hands and I'm going to just try and take each day as it comes.
The reason I mention this is because I've spent weeks worrying if the baby is ok and at the end of the day, the only problem that occured is one which had never crossed my mind (I hadn't even heard of this problem prior to my appointment).
So in my humble opinion, I think we all have to try and chill out and enjoy our pregnancies because there's absolutely nothing we can do to change what is going on in there. I was born with my strange uterus and it has never been diagnoised despite regular check-ups over the years....in all honesty, what difference would it have made? I would have still wanted to have a child one day so I was always going to have to face this so here we are. And I can't spend the next 7 months feeling down - because when the baby does come along, surely I'll regret wasting this amazing experience feeling scared of the 'what ifs'....anyway I'll get off my soap box now, but just thought I'd get that off my chest
My friend had the same heart shaped uterus. Her both babies were born around wk 37/38 weighing about 5lbs but perfectly healthy. She was told lots of horror stories before she got pregnant but she was fine all pregnancy!