K.N
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Aw Melody did you miss your ovulation after that awfully long cycle? Sorry to hear That's so frustrating!!! Have you got plans in motion for your next ovulation? - Provided that your cycle behaves and gives you a good egg!! Fingers & toes are crossed!
6 sheets of tests? WOW that is a lot!! Thankfully they put a lot of mine together - like 4/5 vials of blood per lot, so i only need to go in 3 times; but 6 times? Man, poor you! So far I've given 8/9 vials - hopefully only 3/4 to go!! That will be on day 2 of my period - when they do the next lot. THEN hopefully, all the initial bloods are done.
Have you registered with your clinic? I've registered with mine - so I guess that's why I'm so easily able to ring them up and ask queries etc - they have on call nurses as well, for any medical queries. But the receptionist seemed pretty clued up too. Except when I initially rang and she asked for my "oh's" birth date and i accidentally told them he was 2 years older than he is!! Blamed it on a blank moment and bad day haha. We went by today to drop all the forms off, and she copied it all and passports and stuff - and we now officially have our own "fertility file" - so its a medical file, but separate to my GP one - and only for the clinic.
It all seems so real now!! Starting to get really nervous, Keep thinking what if they find out my donor and i aren't partners! What if we end up in huge trouble or something! I know they won't find out, and even if they did - theyd just pull the chance for any funding. But still, I'm a worrier - even on a good day hahaa. I just hate it - i never wanted so many people to be involved in my trying to conceive! Never expected any of this - But i guess, what will be - will be, least im in the right place Just nerves kicking in is all haha.
Fair enough that you've had enough of your gp!! I've been lucky enough that because of how long we've been ttc - i only needed to speak to my gp twice about it all; But definitely enquire about whether your clinic has a help line etc What's the name of your clinic melody? Can i google it? I'm curious about what other clinics around the world are like and what they offer etc!
But on other notes, I agree with melody about maybe your donor got cold feet kylasbaby it sucks just so much, its hard enough for us single ladies to trust a guy to be a donor - let alone to have him not turn up on the first month *hugs*
6 sheets of tests? WOW that is a lot!! Thankfully they put a lot of mine together - like 4/5 vials of blood per lot, so i only need to go in 3 times; but 6 times? Man, poor you! So far I've given 8/9 vials - hopefully only 3/4 to go!! That will be on day 2 of my period - when they do the next lot. THEN hopefully, all the initial bloods are done.
Have you registered with your clinic? I've registered with mine - so I guess that's why I'm so easily able to ring them up and ask queries etc - they have on call nurses as well, for any medical queries. But the receptionist seemed pretty clued up too. Except when I initially rang and she asked for my "oh's" birth date and i accidentally told them he was 2 years older than he is!! Blamed it on a blank moment and bad day haha. We went by today to drop all the forms off, and she copied it all and passports and stuff - and we now officially have our own "fertility file" - so its a medical file, but separate to my GP one - and only for the clinic.
It all seems so real now!! Starting to get really nervous, Keep thinking what if they find out my donor and i aren't partners! What if we end up in huge trouble or something! I know they won't find out, and even if they did - theyd just pull the chance for any funding. But still, I'm a worrier - even on a good day hahaa. I just hate it - i never wanted so many people to be involved in my trying to conceive! Never expected any of this - But i guess, what will be - will be, least im in the right place Just nerves kicking in is all haha.
Fair enough that you've had enough of your gp!! I've been lucky enough that because of how long we've been ttc - i only needed to speak to my gp twice about it all; But definitely enquire about whether your clinic has a help line etc What's the name of your clinic melody? Can i google it? I'm curious about what other clinics around the world are like and what they offer etc!
But on other notes, I agree with melody about maybe your donor got cold feet kylasbaby it sucks just so much, its hard enough for us single ladies to trust a guy to be a donor - let alone to have him not turn up on the first month *hugs*