Anyone who doesn't get their BFP this month, TRY SOFT CUPS NEXT CYCLE! I am the biggest advocate for them now. They are the ONLY difference between last cycle and this cycle for us.
Literally.... July - DH was away but he made sure to not, ya know, for like 5-7 days before coming home so swimmers would be good and built up, BD the day before I ovulated(also the day he got home) so only 1 BD in fertile window and it was a BFN last month.
August - didn't BD for 4 days to let the swimmers build up, BD the day before I ovulated (we got lucky both times that I ovulated the next day because both months it was a few days early), inserted soft cup after laying there for 20-30 mins, went pee, got back in bed and went to sleep, 10 days later, BFP.
Please try soft cups ladies! I'd be more than willing to even mail some to a few of you who don't want to go out and buy a whole box, I have almost an entire box left.