Anyone else about to try straight after mc?

[laylas]

wow, nausea is such a good sign, fx'd for you!!!!

dpo 8 today, testing this Friday, hope I can make it!! Symptoms are: acne, bad backache yesterday, watery cm, uterus tugs.

 

[JoLM]

Laylas fx'd for you too. They all sound like good symptoms as well. x

 

[Little_1]

Hey girls, internets messin up again so I'm stuck usin my phone.. Took another hpt 2day and its still pos...not getting any lighter..mum actually thinks line is gettn darker but I'm puttin that down to bad eye sight lol anyway rang maternity and explained everything to midwife who says that it shudnt b doin that and at a push it should be very very faint, almost not exsistant at 3 weeks after ERPC but def not 4 weeks. So she said that I had to ring early pregnancy clinic first thing in the morning and get an appointment. Heads just been all over the place 2day..the thought of goin bak to that clinic 4more blood tests wen I no I'm not pregnant yet sitting surrounded by pregnant women is upsettin me. Hope everyones keepin well! Got my FXD for you Laylas! x

 

[laylas]

Hey guys...so....driving home tonight I started wondering...I only took one test after my three days of bleeding with my chemical on 9/22/11--it was an IC and was stark white, but still, I started freaking out-what if it was wrong? what if I had been pregnant this whole time? CRAZY, LOONEY RIGHT?? So...I decide to go home and take an IC at 9 dpo so that I could see a for sure negative or a brilliant positive (I would be like 7 weeks-ya right). But...when I got a positive on my IC this evening I immediately used the same pee (held for 5.5 hours-couldn't stop at work this afternoon too busy then had a long drive home) on an Answer early result...second pink line--darker at 9 dpo than my 12 or 15 dpo ever was last month...help

 

[laylas]

ok, here is the pic...I know its not super duper dark but 9 dpo, omg--

I need your opinion, 9 dpo, 7 weeks, or ??

 

[BabyBumpLove]

Hello ladies I miscarried last Thursday Nov. 10/11 at 7 weeks. I am anxiously waiting for the bleeding to stop so I can start trying again. I’m on my 5th day of bleeding and I already so sick of it. It feels like a daily reminder of our loss. I’m glad I found this thread, you ladies truly understand what it is I am feeling, because you are feeling it too.

 

[freddie]

ok, here is the pic...I know its not super duper dark but 9 dpo, omg--

I need your opinion, 9 dpo, 7 weeks, or ??

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So you're thinking that there's a possibility you never had a chemical at all?? Hmmm it does look like a dark only 9dpo, but also maybe too light for 7 weeks? Maybe you should try a digi with the conception indicator?? It's exciting either way!!!

 

[freddie]

Hello ladies I miscarried last Thursday Nov. 10/11 at 7 weeks. I am anxiously waiting for the bleeding to stop so I can start trying again. I’m on my 5th day of bleeding and I already so sick of it. It feels like a daily reminder of our loss. I’m glad I found this thread, you ladies truly understand what it is I am feeling, because you are feeling it too.

Sorry you're going through this Welcome and feel free to let it all out here as everyone understands what you're going through xxx

 

[JoLM]

Little_1-I hope everything is ok with the scan and please let us know how it goes. xx

Laylas-Thats looking like a strong positive too me, I'd try a digital with conception indicator as well. Regretfully i'm getting more normal cramping pains and have a feeling AF will be showing right on time on Friday. xx

Welcome babybumplove and i'm sorry for your loss we're all here to listen to your vents, questions, worries and hopefully joy when you conceive again. Jo xx

 

[Little_1]

Omg Laylas go poa digital stick right now lol.....we all need to no the answer to ur question lol it def looks pretty positive to me my dear but I'm not sure if its 7 weeks pos but as rachel said it is very dark 4 9dpo....I'm excited 4 u . Jo I rang maternity, iv got an appointment on friday at 9am...my heads really all over the place about it, I no that ther just goin to say that my hormones are just taken their time to go bak to normal but becuz of that one time we dtd 2weeks ago I hav that tiny bit of hope in my heart but I no I'm just settin myself up 4 more hurt..just can't wait until friday. Babybumplove welcome, we all no exactly wat ur goin thru and from my experience I can honestly say that I don't think I'd be as emotionally and mentally stable if I didn't have these girls to torture with my problems and questions...I'm all ears if u need me! Jo keep ur head up, it aint over until the ugly witch rears its head x

 

[BabyBumpLove]

Thanks for the kind welcome. I am so very sorry that you ladies have had to go through this pain. I am fighting an internal dilemma right now, maybe you ladies can help me. The day after my miscarriage I asked my doctor when I could try again (I feel kind of guilty saying that). Initially she said 6 MONTHS!! I said NO WAY! I had a natural miscarriage at 7 weeks and according to my ultrasound I have passed the baby bean, the sack, and all the tissue. Why would I wait 6 months when I am 100% ready to try again? Today I went to a different doctor for a final check-up (my doctor is out of town and she referred me to this doctor). At the end of the appointment he said now I want you to go home and start trying! (As soon as the bleeding stops of course) He went on to tell me that all the newest research is saying that it is better for women to begin trying right after a miscarriage. Mentally it helps the healing process and physically there is no evidence to say that waiting is more beneficial. Mom mother had a miscarriage before conceiving me and I was conceived before she ever had her first period. So my dilemma is do I wait for AF to arrive and try after one healthy cycle, or should I try for the ovulation that often occurs 2 to 3 weeks after a MC?

 

[freddie]

It seems every doctor has different advice on this but in my personal opinion I think if you're ready then go for it. I was told by the first nurse that I saw that we could try again right away and then the next nurse I saw said to wait 3 months!! We are not waiting at all. I am physically and emotionally ready and personally feel that I will only fully "heal" once I am pregnant again... My first nurse directed me to the Miscarriage Association's website and they have some really helpful advice, including a section on trying again- https://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/support/trying-again/

Hope that helps x

 

[freddie]

Laylas... I'm desperate for an update!!

 

[Little_1]

Babybumplove when i had my mc no-one told me anything...and i mean anything...so iv just listened to my own body and the advice from the women on here....if u've stopped bleeding and u feel inside that your ready to try again...go for it and make sure u have fun on the way only u will know ur own body!.......Laylas, im like rachelkt....pee faster and let us no *hugs* to u all x

 

[laylas]

Hey guys! Jolm-hopefully those aren't AF cramps-I have been crampy the whole time, fx'd!!

I would love to take one of the conception indicators, but we don't have any in the US I don't think? I haven't been able to find them. I haven't tested again, but am going to either tomorrow or Friday morning with FMU. My chart went triphasic today with the highest temp I have ever had, 98.8 and believe me I was my own personal heater last night! My husband commented on it this morning! I have my first obgyn apt. on Monday--didn't even go with my early mc--so I hope I get good news. My hubby and I are very timid. I'm thinking this is a new pregnancy (I bbt and I o'd on cd 15, no period since MC at 4 weeks 3 days) just crossing my fingers its a strong, sticky bean!!! I will update you guys with my second test. Thanks for your support, I am excited but so worried...I'm sure you guys can relate.

 

[laylas]

Little-don't lose hope, there is always a chance! fx'd for you!

 

[BabyBumpLove]

It seems every doctor has different advice on this but in my personal opinion I think if you're ready then go for it. I was told by the first nurse that I saw that we could try again right away and then the next nurse I saw said to wait 3 months!! We are not waiting at all. I am physically and emotionally ready and personally feel that I will only fully "heal" once I am pregnant again... My first nurse directed me to the Miscarriage Association's website and they have some really helpful advice, including a section on trying again- https://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/support/trying-again/

Hope that helps x

Thanks I will check it out!

 

[Little_1]

Hey guys! Jolm-hopefully those aren't AF cramps-I have been crampy the whole time, fx'd!!

I would love to take one of the conception indicators, but we don't have any in the US I don't think? I haven't been able to find them. I haven't tested again, but am going to either tomorrow or Friday morning with FMU. My chart went triphasic today with the highest temp I have ever had, 98.8 and believe me I was my own personal heater last night! My husband commented on it this morning! I have my first obgyn apt. on Monday--didn't even go with my early mc--so I hope I get good news. My hubby and I are very timid. I'm thinking this is a new pregnancy (I bbt and I o'd on cd 15, no period since MC at 4 weeks 3 days) just crossing my fingers its a strong, sticky bean!!! I will update you guys with my second test. Thanks for your support, I am excited but so worried...I'm sure you guys can relate.

oh laylas i think im feeling your excitement and fear along with you lol i look forward to your update with second test! i just cant wait to get to the clinic on friday to find out wats going on...at least if they tell me its just my horemones taking their time to go bak to normal then i no it will be just round the corner before we can properly start trying again! x

 

[JoLM]

Babylovebump-I agree with everyone else its really up to you when your most comfortable to start trying again, hubby and I started straight away as soon as the bleeding stopped. My GP told me it was fine to start again whenever we were both ready.

Little_1-I think i'm going to have to sneak on to this site at work on Friday for an update on your appt, my FX'd that one time worked. If not at least they can hopefully give you some answers.

Laylas-Thats a pain you guys don't have conception indicator pregnancy tests, if its any help you can buy them on amazon but they do cost £6.50 for 2. My fingers are still crossed for your second pregnancy test. Are you going to try a different brand?

Well general update on me still cramping very similar to normal AF pains but not quite as painful, I suffer badly with heavy flow however still having nausea spells and my breasts were so sore I could barely touch them tonight. xx

 

[BabyForMe83]

Laylas, I'm so excited for you! Praying this is your sticky bean!

AFM, AF has showed herself today so I'm planning to try Soy on days 3-7. I'm quietly excited -hoping it will make me ovulate!