Anyone else now trying again STRAIGHT after a mc? NTNP?

[chistiana]

I have just emailed and texted everyone, better to do that than wait and people put their foot in it in weeks/months and we have to go over it all again. So desperately sad, so scared that I will never be happy again, just last week we had everything in the world to look forward to, now it's all i can do to get up in the morning. Hope you are doing ok, are you pregnant now, sorry if I misunderstood that, how do you find the strength, such respect for you xx

You will be happy again..i promise...and you will get your baby...i couldnt even walk after my mmc..i would drag my feel it the street, cry myself to sleep...i thought I would never be happy again..but you will find the strength to get up and fight for it because you want this...this is what drives me...after my 2nd mc i said NEVER AGAIN...but i m pregnant now because i just can't give up on my dream...ttc made my recovery easier the 2nd time round...it just made me feel i was trying again..i m not saying you have to try straight away, after my 1st mc i coudnt even imagine trying again..but it got easier day by day until i stopped counting the days. PLease pm me anytime you need to talk..my heart goes out to you

 

[chistiana]

FIli- (i am not a good support to poas addict!)

 

[filipenko32]

Chistiana you're feeding my addiction!! I'm going to report you to poas anonymous!

 

[kmp]

Hello everyone, I'm back! I was on this site a lot in the summer and on this thread a lot after my very early mc at the end of Aug. Then I went back to work and lost track of going on the site (I'm a school psychologist so I have summers off). Anyway I had one full cycle after the mc and at 14 dpo I just got my BFP yesterday!! I am soo excited and I am happy my dr. appt. is Monday as I am more nervous this time around. I just wanted to spread some bfp dust and hope as I know it can be difficult at times. fxd for bfp's and sticky beans!!!

 

[kmp]

Hello everyone, I'm back! I was on this site a lot in the summer and on this thread a lot after my very early mc at the end of Aug. Then I went back to work and lost track of going on the site (I'm a school psychologist so I have summers off). Anyway I had one full cycle after the mc and at 14 dpo I just got my BFP yesterday!! I am soo excited and I am happy my dr. appt. is Monday as I am more nervous this time around. I just wanted to spread some bfp dust and hope as I know it can be difficult at times. fxd for bfp's and sticky beans!!!

 

[filipenko32]

Ickle, thanks for your comments about the counsellor. Yes she is NHS, I think i must have paid over £100K at least in tax and NI and the nhs gives me a dud counsellor, totally inappropriate. I went to the docs and asked for someone more specialised so he's referring me again. Glad the fs one helped you though, she sounds much more appropriate!

 

[Mrs Miggins]

I'll do another 7 tests tomorrow

Fili, the first couple of tests I did were like that. They were done at about 8 or 9 dpo though, they were Superdrug ones. I thought it was an evap line, spent about 4 days driving myself nuts. I took it at about 4pm, and was convinced if I did another the following morning it would come up beautifully dark. I didn't, but a FRER one 4 days later was more conclusive. I think the Superdrug ones are 10 miu, unless I am mistaken. Anyway, I spent 3 days tearing my hair out googling "Faint lines on Superdrug tests"

 

[bastetgrrl]

themarshas - it's freaking sick! WTH these people are populating the earth for everyone I guess.

chistiana - the Duggar's are a family that has a tv show in American called 19 Kids and Counting. https://www.cnn.com/2011/11/08/show...xpecting-20th-child-ppl/index.html?hpt=hp_bn7

fili - I love....Sex and the City!!

They have to be falling out of there by now...

 

[filipenko32]

Congratulations kmp!!

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Hello everyone, I'm back! I was on this site a lot in the summer and on this thread a lot after my very early mc at the end of Aug. Then I went back to work and lost track of going on the site (I'm a school psychologist so I have summers off). Anyway I had one full cycle after the mc and at 14 dpo I just got my BFP yesterday!! I am soo excited and I am happy my dr. appt. is Monday as I am more nervous this time around. I just wanted to spread some bfp dust and hope as I know it can be difficult at times. fxd for bfp's and sticky beans!!!

Hey, fantastic! Congratulations and thank you for bringing us some good cheer!

 

[bastetgrrl]

Congrats kmp!

 

[filipenko32]

themarshas - it's freaking sick! WTH these people are populating the earth for everyone I guess.

chistiana - the Duggar's are a family that has a tv show in American called 19 Kids and Counting. https://www.cnn.com/2011/11/08/show...xpecting-20th-child-ppl/index.html?hpt=hp_bn7

fili - I love....Sex and the City!!

They have to be falling out of there by now...

bastet, i think you mean faye when you talk about Sex and the City, I could never get into that!! Must be the only girl not to like it so much!

 

[chistiana]

Hahahahaha i m sorry Fili...i m a poas addict myself...cant help it!!!

Kmp-Congratulations!!!! A happy and healthy 9 months!

 

[chistiana]

So what will the show be called now.."20 and counting?"

 

[themarshas]

So what will the show be called now.."20 and counting?"

It was 17 kids and counting when the show began haha

 

[filipenko32]

I'll do another 7 tests tomorrow

Fili, the first couple of tests I did were like that. They were done at about 8 or 9 dpo though, they were Superdrug ones. I thought it was an evap line, spent about 4 days driving myself nuts. I took it at about 4pm, and was convinced if I did another the following morning it would come up beautifully dark. I didn't, but a FRER one 4 days later was more conclusive. I think the Superdrug ones are 10 miu, unless I am mistaken. Anyway, I spent 3 days tearing my hair out googling "Faint lines on Superdrug tests"

Thanks mrsmig that's really exciting. I might get some frer and superdrug ones tomorrow but then again that kind of defeats the object of ic's but since i've got a question mark over this so soon, maybe i should try to confirm.

 

[Mrs Miggins]

I have just emailed and texted everyone, better to do that than wait and people put their foot in it in weeks/months and we have to go over it all again. So desperately sad, so scared that I will never be happy again, just last week we had everything in the world to look forward to, now it's all i can do to get up in the morning. Hope you are doing ok, are you pregnant now, sorry if I misunderstood that, how do you find the strength, such respect for you xx

You will be happy again..i promise...and you will get your baby...i couldnt even walk after my mmc..i would drag my feel it the street, cry myself to sleep...i thought I would never be happy again..but you will find the strength to get up and fight for it because you want this...this is what drives me...after my 2nd mc i said NEVER AGAIN...but i m pregnant now because i just can't give up on my dream...ttc made my recovery easier the 2nd time round...it just made me feel i was trying again..i m not saying you have to try straight away, after my 1st mc i coudnt even imagine trying again..but it got easier day by day until i stopped counting the days. PLease pm me anytime you need to talk..my heart goes out to you

Christiana, I echo that, trying again straight away has really helped me through my second loss as well. People have all sorts of reasons or opinions why you should wait, but all you can do is what is right for you.

 

[fayewest]

I have just emailed and texted everyone, better to do that than wait and people put their foot in it in weeks/months and we have to go over it all again. So desperately sad, so scared that I will never be happy again, just last week we had everything in the world to look forward to, now it's all i can do to get up in the morning. Hope you are doing ok, are you pregnant now, sorry if I misunderstood that, how do you find the strength, such respect for you xx

You will be happy again..i promise...and you will get your baby...i couldnt even walk after my mmc..i would drag my feel it the street, cry myself to sleep...i thought I would never be happy again..but you will find the strength to get up and fight for it because you want this...this is what drives me...after my 2nd mc i said NEVER AGAIN...but i m pregnant now because i just can't give up on my dream...ttc made my recovery easier the 2nd time round...it just made me feel i was trying again..i m not saying you have to try straight away, after my 1st mc i coudnt even imagine trying again..but it got easier day by day until i stopped counting the days. PLease pm me anytime you need to talk..my heart goes out to you

Thank you so so much, really really pleased about your pregnancy, how far along are you? we don't want to wait, I just want to be pregnant again. xx

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Wonder how Pink is bearing up today. She must have posted earlier but been checking posts on my 1920's phone from work and have probably missed some.

 

[chistiana]

Faye- Thanks, i am 8w3d today and everything is running smoothly (touch wood!). I know it might seem crazy right now but you might get pg sooner than you expect it...i never got an af..ov'ed cd 31 from my mc. Nobody can guarantee me that it's going to be ok this time round but i prefer hoping than not!