Anyone else now trying again STRAIGHT after a mc? NTNP?

[pinksmarties]

Morning all, nothing much to report. Another high on CBFM but opks very -ve but I think it is still early yet. (CD 8/9)

Fili - loving the mens probable interptretation of the acronym SMEP.

I have no internet at home - arrggh feel like my arm has been chopped off. Hopefully the OH can fix today and we get our cosy night in tonight to make a start on smep. I have my course again tomorrow so no lie in for me.

faye/Mrsmig - hope the bleeding has settled down.

Debzie - hve a wonderful evening in with your OH tonight.

Ickle - any plans for the weekend?

MrsMM - hope the donations are going well - fx'd.

 

[filipenko32]

Morning everyone!

I'm pretty nervous as I have my 1st appointment this evening with our 'usual' recurrent miscarriage consultant. I am really hoping he will say we can try again this very cycle and give us a lot of medication. Hubby's happy to try again if he says we can. I'm sure he will but I want him to give us enough meds and let me take aspirin too. We also have an appointment with another specialist we haven't seen before next Weds which is actually my Ov day! On his programme of treatment he starts steroids 1dpo so I will just be in time! I'm so nervous about getting pregnant again though, but I can't have a baby if I don't get pregnant can I?! Really hoping the aspirin and steroids will help us

 

[pinksmarties]

Fili - I know how worried I am about becoming pg again and what may happen so I can only imagine how you must feel. Thing are moving forward in a postive way and fingers crossed the consultant this evening will give you the green light. I have read other threads with ladies in a similar situation to you that have had the steroids and aspirn that have gone on to have beautiful babies and I am convinced you will too. You WILL get your LO

 

[outlaw]

I must say readin all the post make me feel sad happy and angry. Why did this had to happen to us?

I am really sorry for each and everyone on this site. But finding you guys made some things more clear.

I was told to not ttc until after my 3de cycle no medical "verduideliking". The M/C happend naturaly and my boddy expeld everything on its own.

Needless to say we have already started the BD cause I really want back what I've lost.

I wa only 6 1/2weeks but I really miss my little one.

So for each and evry Lady on this site I send a huge bucket off BABY DUST and wish every one the best of luck

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Oh Fil, I understand how nervous you must feel, good luck for tonight and also for Wednesday, I've heard very good things about the other chap, sounds like you will be in excellent hands. I really, REALLY hope this is your cycle and you get all the help you can to make this one stick. I so want you to be scraping porridge off your walls very very soon.

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Outlaw, thank you. It doesn't matter how far along you are, it is devastating and you miss that life growing inside you immensely. All the best of luck to you.

 

[filipenko32]

Thanks pink, it's super scary especially when you know you're on a mission to save your baby's life from day 1!! I just have a feeling that i'll need lots of drugs. Gotta keep fighting though! !

 

[filipenko32]

Oh Fil, I understand how nervous you must feel, good luck for tonight and also for Wednesday, I've heard very good things about the other chap, sounds like you will be in excellent hands. I really, REALLY hope this is your cycle and you get all the help you can to make this one stick. I so want you to be scraping porridge off your walls very very soon.

Thank mrs migg, i feel lucky to be able to have the best help. I was just thinking what would happen years ago when there really wasn't any treatment! Has your bleeding stopped?

 

[loubyloumum]

Fil, like the others I hope everything goes well for you tonight and your appointment on Wednesday and get the go ahead to TTC. I hope you get all the meds to help you along the way to getting your sticky bean.... Sending you love today

Outlaw, I was only 9 1/2 wks when I miscarried our twins but just like MrsMig says not matter how far or little along in the pregnancy you were they were our babies and we loved them as soon as we saw our BFP. It has only been this week that I realised how much I am grieving for them - so you are not alone my lovely

I hope everyone is feeling ok today and looking forward to the weekend

 

[ickle pand]

Pink - we're going to see Breaking Dawn on Sunday and going to try and get a few xmas presents too since Toys r Us is near the cinema. Good luck with starting SMEP

Fili - Good luck for your appointment. Hopefully they've got lots of sticky baby drugs to give you It must be really hard to TTC when you know you've got a problem that causes m/c. You're a strong lady!

Outlaw - Like Mrs Miggins said it doesn't matter how far along you were. As soon as you get that BFP, you're bonded to that little person and you start to imagine what their life will be like.

AFM - Another High (and another POAS disaster!) this morning. DH is out tomorrow so I'm going to spend the day pampering myself. I've got my department christmas lunch today, I'm looking forward to it. We've had quite a few new people starting recently (one started yesterday!) so it'll be good to do some team bonding. Luckily it's not going to be a boozy thing so I don't have to make my excuses for not drinking.

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Ickle, enjoy your lunch and your pamper day tomorrow, and pink, I hope you get that Internet sorted and have a good day with OH and get cracking on the smep!
Louby, hope you are bearing up ok. It's still early days and different things will hit you and make you realise how much you miss your babies. You never stop missing them but the pain gets easier to bear.
Fil, my bleeding seems to have stopped now. We bd last night, and I have informed oh that we are coming up to the crucial time. According to Ff based on a 28 day cycle I should ov on Monday, but as my cycle alternates and I have a 28 day cycle followed by a 24/5 day cycle I don't know which this is going to be so I'm not really sure when I will ov. Are you also getting faint lines on opks? I've told oh we need to do it as much as we can between now and tuesday to cover it! I'm cautiously excited for a girl I work with today, perversely I know because I have done nothing but moan about my pregnant colleague. But this other girl had a mmc in February and has been ttc again ever since. She was 14 dpo today and going to test this morning. I haven't heard from her so I'm really hoping she is staring at a pink line! She said if she gets a bfp she will lend me her cbfm too!

 

[ickle pand]

Ok I've just been playing with the chart comparisons on FF (I'm not chart obsessed honest!) Based on the chart patterns so far, I'm going to predict that I ov on Tuesday Anyone else want to make a prediction for me? Lol!

 

[fayewest]

NOt AF just spotting it appears DAMN!!!!!!!

 

[Mrs Miggins]

When you say spotting Faye is it brown or red? It could still be AF. I still think it's a good sign. What are your opks saying?

 

[filipenko32]

pink I think Tuesday too! I will probably ov on Weds as I always ov on CD16 but the surge appears on CD15 usually. I have had surges on CD 14 before which would make me Tuesday too so we'll all be MIA that day!!

emum - has your DH organised the flight for tues or weds?

mrs miggs yes my opks are darker. they're not even faint lines but properly there, but I am using 20miu (it says the strength of them on the back of the packet and obv the higher the strength the lighter the line until the proper surge)

Ohhhhhhhh I hope this cycle is it for us all!!!

 

[ickle pand]

Me too filipenko. It'd be good to be able to go to 1st tri and PAL with some friends

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Ooh!!! And I have just noticed watery cm, I put it on my chart and Ff has now given me a green light! I'm VERY excited!
And a success story I wanted to share with you all. I had a client in the other day who I was chatting to about the miscarriages and stuff, and she told me she had 5 mc before having her daughter, and then another 3 before having her son! Her children are 21 and 24 now, and she didn't have any medical intervention, she just kept persevering and although it must have been hell for her, she got her family.

 

[fayewest]

Mrs Miggins - It was red yesterday, brown and pretty much non existent today.

The opk was faint yesterday, both lines were, so its a bit confusing really. Am going to do another OPK later today, hard not to drink though as I want a coffee, maybe I am always diluting my OPKS so the control line is always faint ?? Who knows, v confusing this lark.

Just got a letter from my specialist saying how sorry she was, that we have 4 cycles and then we need to discuss other options, just feels so very final and scary ;0( x

 

[Mrs Miggins]

Faye, don't lose hope. You are taking really good control of your fertility at the moment, 4 cycles doesnt sound much but it only takes one to be successful and you have cracked it.

 

[filipenko32]

faye you will def be pregnant within 4 clomid cycles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mrs migg - that's a great story! I have just been rereading the recurrent mc thread and everyone on there who started it have their babIES now

ickle: yes it would be wonderful to move to 1st tri together!!

We can do it ladies PMA!