For the last three weeks I have been reading this entire thread and drinking one large beer a night. I had a MMC 7 weeks discovered at 12 week scan. The night before the scan I had one drop of blood and I knew then (I do not bleed when pg) Next morning I saw it before the sono did, because I'm a google addict and know what I should have been seeing. Then all the little signs added up (bad dreams after 7 weeks, lessening of symptoms) I just thought i was managing my eating well enough to avoid morning sickness! I have since done immense googling and come to terms with what happened and this thread was SO helpful I cant even put it into words. You are all so strong, and open and honest. I have 2 boys already and wasnt TTC but upon seeing that + my instant reaction was a happy one- i only did the test because it was my birthday and my fella and I had plans of dining and drinking and I was a couple days late and would rather go drinking after a negative test. Fella's birthday is the same day, and I didnt know how he would react so I kept it to myself and had to make out that I didn't want to drink due to wanting my belly empty and ready for a large birthday meal! Told him 2 days later...and his immediate reaction was happy too so we were ready for this baby. I am now what I call TTCNTNP because I am TTC and fella is NTNP You ladies have me fully addicted to OPK's I do 3 a day and will til I have definite cycles again (or a BFP) and I tend to pee alot so its excruciating to hold it for 4 hours lol but I want to know my cycles in and out, before the MMC I only knew the basics of ovulation (half way through cycle 12 hour window) and now I am near obsessed!
Got a + opk on the 25th and had BD that morning however fella had wanted to pull out....which I since found out was because he though I wanted him to *doh* then we didnt BD again for another 24 hours ish. But honestly, I'm curious enough about the finer points of cycles to greet AF as the next part of my learning process. Ofc it would by nice not to get AF but I expect I missed the eggy this time. It was a short surg only 2 + opk's one at 6pmish and next at 11:30 pm neg again by next day.
I'm pronounced ok to TTC due to a scan 3 weeks after the MMC showing what the sono called a 'lovely womb' which I took as a compliment!
Sorry for the long posts...this is my first post anywhere since the MMC at the beginning of the month and I can be the Queen of TMI
I think I feel most comfortable posting it here because you lovely Ladies make this thread so welcoming despite your losses you manage to be positive and thats what helped me especially in those first few days after the MMC and now I'm more positive. You are all such good people you will so get your BFP's and lovely cheeky litle monkeys!
To all of you!
Got a + opk on the 25th and had BD that morning however fella had wanted to pull out....which I since found out was because he though I wanted him to *doh* then we didnt BD again for another 24 hours ish. But honestly, I'm curious enough about the finer points of cycles to greet AF as the next part of my learning process. Ofc it would by nice not to get AF but I expect I missed the eggy this time. It was a short surg only 2 + opk's one at 6pmish and next at 11:30 pm neg again by next day.
I'm pronounced ok to TTC due to a scan 3 weeks after the MMC showing what the sono called a 'lovely womb' which I took as a compliment!
Sorry for the long posts...this is my first post anywhere since the MMC at the beginning of the month and I can be the Queen of TMI
I think I feel most comfortable posting it here because you lovely Ladies make this thread so welcoming despite your losses you manage to be positive and thats what helped me especially in those first few days after the MMC and now I'm more positive. You are all such good people you will so get your BFP's and lovely cheeky litle monkeys!
To all of you!