I'm fine but tired and not much use to anyone so lurky lurky. 12 days til scan.
I have been reading a thread on here, its a few cautious ladies who had BFP's after losses, it started with them understandably worried and progressed to them entering the 2nd tri and relaxing a bit, then third tri and feeling like its actually going to happen, and now I'm at the point where one of them just gave birth and its so wonderful, its been very helpful in working through some of my fears. Obviously I know its early days and anything can happen but reading that has helped my heart a bit and its lovely to watch the progression from very nervous to actually meeting the babies. Nervous newly BFP ladies should read such threads- it goes a long way to ease fears especially when we need the most not to be freaking out.
I feel a bit out of place here now I'm not TTC, but I don't really feel like posting in first tri or anywhere else. Just going to try to keep mostly lurky as I really don't want to leave but don't want to saturate with bfp talk either. Limbo!!
I like reading about BFPs too, and some news from graduates about how things are going, particularly in the first few weeks before a reassurance scan has happened, but I think Lozdi is right that this isn't the right thread for a daily blog about early pregnancy, as there is a whole section of baby and bump dedicated to pregnancy after a loss.
WE know Lozdi, and the other newly pregnant ladies, and are pleased for them and wish them well, but there are new ladies joining the thread all the time, or just clicking to read it, who have just found out they have miscarried, or are in the throes of it, and that is not what they will be expecting to read, nor in a lot of cases what they are in a good place to be reading. I think we have to be sensitive in these cases, and let the thread be welcoming to them and offer them the same support that it has offered us.
Which is emphatically not saying, and I hope that it won't be read this way, that pregnant ladies shouldn't post here or are not welcome, just that if they are posting, the original aim of the thread, and its title, should be in their minds, as it is for Lozdi.
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Really glad you aren't offended! Wasn't at all sure how to word my post so that you wouldn't be. You know I wish you nothing but the best with the new baby
As long as I get to see it somewhere! I think you'd be great at starting your own thread!!
Just read about Reynaud's (auto immune - never put the two together ) may be a cause of mc. I have that, not very badly but the last 2 years have been worse than previous. I just put it down to losing weight. That another thing to ask about when I get my bloods.