Hmmm, thanks for the post but I think those charts can be misleading...and there are many many women who got their bfp at well past 14dpo and went on to have healthy pregnancies... honestly, look it up!! I felt similar to you before I investigated and it turns out there are some women who are pregnant and still getting negative hpts all through their pregnancy... i accept this is rare and maybe like you say a lot of the others ovulated late.. but many girls on here know exactly when they ov'd and still didnt get their positive till later than 14 dpo. in my opinion thats far too early to rule out pregnancy.. that may even be before expected period is due!!
Gosh why is it all so confusing. .. thank you for the info and for your post - I am just a little worried about the charts leaving girls with no hope at 11dpo when i think there still is!!
I don't think charting is misleading. If anything after charting for a few months it really helps you to get a feel for when you normally ovulate, and then after the fact that month you can know pretty certain within a few days when you actually did ovulate and that really helps you to know when to start testing etc. Well, at least it was helpful for me with my last it took us 8 months to conceive and I tempted and charted and knew exactly when I was ovulating (as well as physical symptoms I would get ovulation pains and EWCM for three days and would ovulate on the last day of it) Anyways, I agree that the women that get the late BFPS ovulated WAY later than they thought they did. All 4 of my BFPS I got on 10 and 9 DPO. I hope you get it soon!!