anyone got pregnant after ovarian drilling?

[Tella]

Great news that you had a great appointment and that he is working with you!!! This is your rainbow for sure!!

You gonna see a awesome heartbeat at your scan!!!

 

[Flibberty87]

I really hope so. I have seen a heartbeat at 6 weeks before and still mc but this time I will be scanned every 2 weeks through 1st tri so we will know ASAP iif the worst should happen. Im daring yo let myself be a little hopeful

 

[Daisy21980]

Flib, I am so pleased. Sending all the positivity your way that this one is a keeper. I know each day will seem like a year till the 22nd. I've had them every2-4weeks and each has seemed like an age. This one is yours to keep. Keep us informed x

 

[Daisy21980]

Well I found out yesterday my husband has been having an affair with some young girl who lives with her parents 5 minutes from our home. It's been going on some months. She knows about me and he's told her he has cancer the sick beep beep. She's super young to under 23 and still in braces.

He's been telling all his friends he's got cancer to, even to the point of he had a month left to live.

What a sick individual

 

[Flibberty87]

Oh my god daisy! Thats unbelievable! Why would somebody lie about that?! And to cheat is despicable in itself. But to cheat on your pregnant wife is vile and unforgivable. What's going on? I hope you're ok (I know you won't be yet) but I hope you're settlesettled and have some support 💗

 

[Daisy21980]

I'm absolutely heart broken. It's been going on months. She's been in our home and all sorts. She's 20 years old and lives 5 minutes walk around the corner with her parents. He is now there to as I kicked him out. And even though he's been arrested, she's been told he doesn't have cancer and sent the messages he was sending me telling me how much he loved me, whilst he was messaging her saying he was having chemo. She has still let him share her bed.

The friends he told he had cancer to have of course dropped him. They feel deceived. His family are disgusted but flew to florida today for 2 weeks.

The lies he's spun are just beyond belief and I cannot get my head round or understand.

He had a beautiful home, a good wife, who paid for everything as he's always out of work. A child on the way. Lovely inlaws who loved him and visa versa a reconciliation with his family as before he met me he hadn't spoken to them for years. And he's thrown that all away for a 20 year old girl with nothing. Well he's got no job so no money, no phone no car as he can't drive and no home. He's got her and her bed in her parents house. He's not even picked up the rest of his belongings that are sat outside in black sacks.

I've never wanted to be a single parent and we tried so long for this baby and went through so much he was ecstatic it was a boy because he wanted to be a great father and he's now not going to be part of it at all.

He's a stupid man and I don't know where his lies end they are so vast and wide spread. He's clearly sick, who tells people they have cancer and a month to live! It's sick and vile.

I'm petrified about the future and how I will cope mainly financially. Not that he's contributed to the running or rent but I had hoped he'd be working by the time my maternity drops in jan to 50%. I know I will. But I think I'll have to leave my beautiful home. But then do I want to be 5 minutes from him and his bit on the side. She must have low self esteem to be sleeping with a married man who's 'dying' of cancer

There's no way with the extent of what he's done we could ever reconcile now.

It's the worst.

How are you Flib?

 

[Flibberty87]

Oh daisy my heart breaks for you. I'm disgusted on your behalf. I see the dilemma, stay in your lovely home and be close to that scumbag or move away from him.

Personally, I would move. I would want a fresh start just me and my baby. Being a single parent will be hard at first but I'm certain you can do it.

I'm doing ok, just time is dripping by so slowly..

 

[Daisy21980]

Luckily after speaking with an old boss of his. He swooped in and got him. I then bumped in to the girl. She is literally that a childs so young and naive.the lies he'd told her were crazy. Well she now knows the truth and is heart broken herself.

He's now with his old boss and getting help. So I hope he gets better.

I had my 22 weeks scan today. Alfie was being difficult. But all is well with him.

 

[Linkerland]

Oh wow. Just caught up. I'm so sorry you're going through all of that Daisy. I couldn't even imagine. Happy your scan went well though.
Afm- af hit agaIn. I had a positive hpt at 15dpo. Then it got lighter 16dpo. Then negative 17dpo and af started. On cycle day 5 and second day of clomid. So another cycle begins. Hoping for a January baby now.

 

[SEO87]

Hi, I hope you dont mind me joining here. I had OD lap and dye 5 days ago and was just after a bit of support and other people's stories x

 

[Tella]

Well I found out yesterday my husband has been having an affair with some young girl who lives with her parents 5 minutes from our home. It's been going on some months. She knows about me and he's told her he has cancer the sick beep beep. She's super young to under 23 and still in braces.

He's been telling all his friends he's got cancer to, even to the point of he had a month left to live.

What a sick individual

Im so sorry to read about this all, it is just horrific that someone would do all of that in one go.

Just take it one day at a time, you will be fine financially without him and even 10times better as a baby doesnt eat or do anything as much as a adult. You will be an amazing mom and just believe that you will be provided for.

Oh wow. Just caught up. I'm so sorry you're going through all of that Daisy. I couldn't even imagine. Happy your scan went well though.
Afm- af hit agaIn. I had a positive hpt at 15dpo. Then it got lighter 16dpo. Then negative 17dpo and af started. On cycle day 5 and second day of clomid. So another cycle begins. Hoping for a January baby now.

So sorry about the chemical, are you on progesterone suppositories from O?

Hi, I hope you dont mind me joining here. I had OD lap and dye 5 days ago and was just after a bit of support and other people's stories x

Welcome :wave:, This is an awesome support group!!! it has been a very successful group as well and if you can take the time to read the whole thread you will pick up some amazing advise that has been shared over the last few years. If you have any questions ask away, we will all give you our 10cents worth.

most important thing to remember after OD is to give your body time to settle after the op, it can take up to 6 months even to see the benefits, we are all hasty and been wanting to rush things but ultimately its best to give your body a gap.

Oh yes and take day of op as CD1.

Flib, Only 2 more days till you see you healthy and growing peanut!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Flibberty87]

Sorry to deliver you some bad news it I've just got back from a&e because of some brown spotting. They refused to scan me. Because they did a pt and it was negative

I'm so confused and heartbroken. How can I have had a miscarriage with no actual bleeding and no pain?!

 

[Tella]

Sorry to deliver you some bad news it I've just got back from a&e because of some brown spotting. They refused to scan me. Because they did a pt and it was negative

I'm so confused and heartbroken. How can I have had a miscarriage with no actual bleeding and no pain?!

Please dont loose hope, go for your scan on Wednesday and see what is going on first. Remember brown spotting is normal as it is old blood.

The problem with emergency rooms are one they use very insensitive tests and also they only look for a clear line. Im keeping you and your bean in my thoughts and prayers and just pray that it is implantation bleeding.

My FS told me clearly that the rise of HCG isnt a clear indicator of a successful pregnancy, you get people that are slow risers and still have perfect pregnancies.

 

[Flibberty87]

Thanks for your kind words. I called my specialist and they said to continue with the progesterone and go for the scan on Wednesday as their test may have been wrong. Not likely but a glimmer of hope. I should be like 6-7 weeks so even very insensitive tests should be pos by now

 

[Linkerland]

Flib-I'm so sorry you're going through this roller coaster of emotions. I'm going to be saying lots of prayers for you for Wednesdays appointment.
Tella- I am on progesterone supplements after O. I went in early on cd8 cause of my work schedule it was either cd14 or 8. I figured they wouldn't be able to see anything. But I had a 20 and 16mm follicle on my left, and a 17 and 14mm on my right. So they dr had me Trigger the following day which was Saturday. So I'm 51 hours past trigger. And keeping my fingers crossed.
Welcome Seo! Like Tella said this is an amazing group. I read the whole thread before I joined, and felt like I got to know everyone. Hoping all the girls good luck rubs off on all the rest of us

 

[SEO87]

Hiya. Thanks for the welcome. I am currently 12 days post OD and for the last 2 days been having left sided pains in my pelvic area. Not sure if these could be ovulation pains? I have been testing everyday since day 3 and on day 5 I got a line that is much stronger than I have ever had but not as dark as the test line so guessing that was still a neg. they are just faint lines the last 3 days. I had bad nausea and dizziness for the first week but that has now passed. Any suggestions are welcome. Never ov tested before so bit in the dark
Thanks

 

[Kyla]

Hi ladies

It's been a while since I posted, but have been lurking.

Welcome Seo, I'm Kyla and I joined this thread over 3 years ago after my OD operation, my OD baby is now 2 years old!
I already had 1 DS. When we tried for DS2, I wasn't having regular cycles, we tried weight loss, metformin and clomid over a period of 2 years before I had my OD op in Dec 2011. I didn't ovulate on my own after the op so my consultant let me choose either Femara or Clomid again. I opted for Femara and I got pregnant the first cycle. I've experienced the emotional rollercoaster and hopeless feelings so I stayed on the thread for a long time afterwards to help others because other posters helped me when I was going through ltttc stress.
I do think you could be experiencing ovulation pains, the ov test will hopefully be darker for you by now. Some pcos women always have a line on an ovulation test, I do not. I also never get a true positive - even when I've had the CD21 blood test confirmed ovulation. I didn't even get a true positive on my pregnancy cycle. Anyway, sorry to bombard you, good luck for your journey, happy to offer any advice xx

Flib - So sorry.

Daisy - Wow you're a grapefruit already! I am really sorry to hear about your husband, how terrible. Thank goodness though you've found out. We pcos ladies are made of really strong stuff, you'll be absolutely fine as a single parent. I've been there with DS1, it is tough going but so rewarding and you'll have such a wonderful bond with your baby. Take care.

Tella - So excited for you, how are things?

 

[Mala85]

Hello Ladies, I am new to this thread and hope you all don't mind me joining here. I am diagnosed with PCOS in 2014..I had my OD, Lap & dye test on Feb12th 2015. No endo found, both tubes are patent.My first cycle after OD was 35 days later. I am in my second cycle. its CD46. No AF.. tested two times and its bfn.... Really hoping for the best..

 

[Daisy21980]

Hi Ladies,

Welcome to the new ladies to this thread. I cannot express how great the support from this group is.

Linkerland how are you getting on?

For the new ladies, it took me 4 cycles after od on metformin and some vitamins to fall.

As for Hubby we have decided to give it a go after hearing the full story and so far so good.

Luckily at the last scan the hospital randomly did a 3d so we have now seen baby's face!

 

[Tella]

Hello Ladies, I am new to this thread and hope you all don't mind me joining here. I am diagnosed with PCOS in 2014..I had my OD, Lap & dye test on Feb12th 2015. No endo found, both tubes are patent.My first cycle after OD was 35 days later. I am in my second cycle. its CD46. No AF.. tested two times and its bfn.... Really hoping for the best..

Welcome hope you become a OD graduate very soon and that your cycles will regulate quickly!!!!

Hi Ladies,

Welcome to the new ladies to this thread. I cannot express how great the support from this group is.

Linkerland how are you getting on?

For the new ladies, it took me 4 cycles after od on metformin and some vitamins to fall.

As for Hubby we have decided to give it a go after hearing the full story and so far so good.

Luckily at the last scan the hospital randomly did a 3d so we have now seen baby's face!

Im glad you and hubby has managed to talk it all through and that it was the last time ever and that he will be the father your LO deserves and Husband you deserve!!!!!

Awww the 3ds are the best! did you get a print?

AFM > Officially full term!!!!!!!!! I wouldnt mind if she comes soon!